Did I screw up?

Okay. Mr. Aqua knows I've been studying and learning astrology. When I pulled our compatibility report, it was very good with very few negatives. Anyways, I got a wild hair and e-mailed it to him. I said I came across this and didn't know if he'd be interested and sent it in case he wanted to read it. Said if he wasn't interested it was no big deal, but it says we have good compatibility, but we already knew that

He hasn't mentioned it or commented on it. I'm having e-mail remorse now.

Would that freak you out? Should I not have done it? If it was a mistake, is there anything I can do except never mention it again?

I don't think he'll freak out. Most Aquas I know are quite open-minded, even the ones who might not like or agree with astrology wouldn't think it's weird, it'll be like brownie points for being weird lol.

Could be a number of things, maybe he doesn't find it interesting so skimmed it and left it? He could be interested and wanted to learn more before he talks to you about. But definitely don't think he'll freak out.

I'm no aqua... but.... have you spoken to him since you sent it?

Also - I should hope a grown ass man can handle something like that, and not make it into a bunch of drama?
No offence to your aqua or anything lol

Take it easy.
Keep calm.
He just not really interested, maybe.
He might be have something more important or interesting to thinkin and talkin about. But i guess it won't be a dealbreaker.

Posted by aquasnoz
it'll be like brownie points for being weird lol.

hahaha - I truly enjoyed that.

Nah, I mean, he already knows you're in to that stuff. If he was okay with you after that (which, everyone should be), then sending what you did should be no problem. Maybe he forgot/is busy, etc. I don't think you should worry, though! Sometimes I pull the astrology card on people I've just met, and honestly, none of them have stopped the conversation because of that. Haha.

I secound all points above. Noway a deal breaker other than he may not like being figured out. We like being a mystery. 🙂

I second all points above. Noway a deal breaker other than he may not like being figured out. We like being a mystery. 🙂

I wouldn't freak out about it. No one broke up with anyone over something like that.

I'm curious what prompted you to send it? And if he already knew you where into this as scenic said...what is there for him to be surprised or anything about it? I would say.... Who cares if he liked it or not. If it's something you believe in it doesn't really matter. I'm pretty sure though, he is probably just contemplating it.

Truecap, even if you guys were incompatible I still think you are great for each other. I d/k why I love your relationship with the aquat but I do & I sincerly cheer for you guys in my heart. He would be an idiot to get weird on you over that btw. Next step, lets get him to the alter! You can pull it, I know you can.

Posted by WaterCup
Truecap, even if you guys were incompatible I still think you are great for each other. I d/k why I love your relationship with the aquat but I do & I sincerly cheer for you guys in my heart. He would be an idiot to get weird on you over that btw. Next step, lets get him to the alter! You can pull it, I know you can.

that's one thing I agree here.


Truecap you guys are very compatible, but even if your planets were all square (what is incompatible anyway??) it seems you two harmonize eachother well.

I hope you get to the alter with this guy like one of my fave Leo gals on this site who is getting married to her Scorpio man.

It might have come off as a desperate attempt to cement your relationship. I wouldn't bring it up again.

Thanks guys. Your comments make me feel better. I tend to overanalyze and overthink at times. Cappy trait, I'm afraid. lol!

We've talked since then and he hasn't acted weird or anything. In fact we're going to the movies and dinner this evening. I think what gave me remorse are the thoughts like evil turtle said of not liking being figured out or like what aquapiscescusp said, he could take it a desparate way of cementing things or as if I were "convincing" him we should be in this relationship. But, I haven't behaved in any way on those lines other than going with the flow. Although I have brought up my feelings, but he didn't run.

But, oh well, I'm not bringing it up unless he does.

It's been a year now! Yeah, March marks one full year! Can you believe it? We've survived the first year! Maybe I should say I've survived the first year, lol! I must be doing something right. (Thanks to all of the advice from you guys!).

Thanks for all your support and for rooting for us!

well we all know aquas can be fixed in their ideas....i think me personally..if i did not understand astrology and my partner showed me a piece of paper that said we were gonna live happily ever after i would instinctually test that theory....sorry i dont know much bout ur relationship are u guys long distance or something??

Posted by LIBRA1234
Truecap, my feeling is that he just doesn't care about astrology that's all so he just ignored it and forgot about it... at least he didn't tell u you are a nut case for believing in astrology like my ex once said lol

Lol!! That is a good point.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
well we all know aquas can be fixed in their ideas....i think me personally..if i did not understand astrology and my partner showed me a piece of paper that said we were gonna live happily ever after i would instinctually test that theory....sorry i dont know much bout ur relationship are u guys long distance or something??

No, we're not long distance. But he does work out of town about 50% of the time. I did tell him in the e-mail that it's just astrology and there are always other factors that determine compatibility as well.

When I first talked to him about astrology he was curious to what it said about him. I gave him a quick run down of the aqua traits. He said that's about right, what does it say about you? I gave him a quick run down of cappy traits. He said "cool".

if its any consilation i sent the aqua his birth chart, its taken me months and really indepth, aqua didnt mention it, i didnt hold back he doesnt seem phased lol.. i also need to start a new thread! 😄

MeToo, I hate to admit this, but I think you're right. On all accounts.

It doesn't really bother me that he hasn't said anything, I was just worried that I shouldn't have sent that in the first place. My reason in sending it was I thought it was interesting and wanted to share.

Nah, I'm not pushing marriage. The only discussion even close to that was when I was telling him about my Cancer friend dating someone (Aries) 2 months and already talking about marriage and I begged her to slow down and just be in a relationship for a year before they made any plans. I said I thought it was a red flag to be talking marriage so soon. He said "well, you know I'm not like that" and I said "yeah, me either. Gotta get to know someone first".

I think he just skimmed it and was like hmm and then went on his way and forgot it all happened. I've done things like show aqua man things I was excited about and all he said was cool yet other times he was more animated. I gave him a thoughtful gift that he loved but it took him hours to look in the gift bag and hours to thank me. Whether hes an aqua or not the best advice I've learned on the forum is not to assume anything especially with an aqua you'll never get a definitive answer unless u ask him something

Yeah, MeToo. I think we do a lot of subconscious things to find out what we want to know. It's like we directly indirectly seak answers. Not like a game, but a way to approach things so we protect ourselves without giving out too much vulnerability.

Dang, I hope that makes sense!!!!

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I think he just skimmed it and was like hmm and then went on his way and forgot it all happened. I've done things like show aqua man things I was excited about and all he said was cool yet other times he was more animated. I gave him a thoughtful gift that he loved but it took him hours to look in the gift bag and hours to thank me. Whether hes an aqua or not the best advice I've learned on the forum is not to assume anything especially with an aqua you'll never get a definitive answer unless u ask him something

He probably didn't take the time to read it. But he'll post some long article on facebook and ask me if I read it! lol!

You're right the best way is to ask, but like MeToo said, it's hard for a cap on personal relationships.

Ehhh, I ain't gonna worry about it. There have been times I thought he wasn't listening and he'd bring up the info two months later. So, who knows. lol!

Posted by truecap

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
I think he just skimmed it and was like hmm and then went on his way and forgot it all happened. I've done things like show aqua man things I was excited about and all he said was cool yet other times he was more animated. I gave him a thoughtful gift that he loved but it took him hours to look in the gift bag and hours to thank me. Whether hes an aqua or not the best advice I've learned on the forum is not to assume anything especially with an aqua you'll never get a definitive answer unless u ask him something

He probably didn't take the time to read it. But he'll post some long article on facebook and ask me if I read it! lol!

You're right the best way is to ask, but like MeToo said, it's hard for a cap on personal relationships.

Ehhh, I ain't gonna worry about it. There have been times I thought he wasn't listening and he'd bring up the info two months later. So, who knows. lol!

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Haha your right we never know with aquas. There was one time aqua and I were talking about a potluck and we talked about what we might bring. He mentioned what he was thinking of and I said I didn't know yet. At the potluck days later he told ppl that the dish he had brought was from both of us. I was surprised I was like wtf. If it was me I'd be all moping because aqua man didnt respond it. You are handling it better than me.