Aquarians and Heartbreak

How do you deal with a broken heart?

Brahn how do you deal with your feelings after the strip club? I remember Sag stating in a post that one must compartmentalize feelings and Im staring to think this is true and a very good idea

I'm an Aquarian and I deal with a broken heart with wanting to be alone. Not always a good thing but it's just the way I am. I don't want to be around anyone. I need to go through the "grieving process" which can last a few days. I'll be in a bad mood and start thinking not understanding why things turned out the way they did. Then when I've thought enough I brush myself off, pick myself up again and start all over again. Looking on the positive side of life. I'm never down for long. One thing that does happen is I never ever forget the person. He will always be remembered for both the good and bad times.

Oh, I wouldn't want the person who broke my heart to die at all. I would like for them to see I've moved on to someone much better. To see in their face that they lost me would be sweet revengence. Although I would always have that special person in my memory and heart because I loved him. I would still want to be friends even though it would be hard.

sb,

I totally agree with you. Torture is much better but in a nice way. 😉

Then they don't have to suffer? What's the fun in that? Seriously though, I have had my heart broken before (who hasn't) and it takes time to get over it especially if you really loved the person. It would be great to do some showing off in a nice way like "I got over you" or whatever. Love can really confuse a person. It's a lesson we all have to deal with in this life.

sb,

Right on. Couldn't have said it better myself. 😉

well wen im down and heartbroken i wanna be alone.... but it takes me only a day to get back to normal coz im not gonna sit and cry ova someone ever.. unless i Truly Madly Deeply love him and he dies.. then it might take me yearzzzzz or even my whole life to get ova him... but if itz cheatin on me or hurtin me ... then i get ova it pretty FAST...

I thought Aquarians weren't mean spirited 😉. No, I'm only teasing. It really hurts when a relationship ends no matter how ends it. Interesting story though you posted, Primegen. Glad I wasn't that girl. Then, again I wouldn't put myself in such a silly position. Some people just don't think of the consequences of what their actions may bring.

Yeah, I guess you are right but it's still weird how people act. No respect. How rude of that husband to cheat on his wife. What kind of morals did he have? Oh, I get so annoyed with guys who don't respect the fact that they are married. I'm venting now. I'll stop. 🙂

im very sensitive with heart break, just because aquas seem cold and aloof does not meAn WE can deal well with it, thats me anyway-i break, i break alone, away from anyone, and i dont want to disscuss it. im so into manogamy, that it just cruches me, if someone has been behind my back, it rips me, cause i dont understand it.

Rebounds are great! Positive change. hahaha

f. 😢 U know seriously I probally would of been hung up too long if it weren't for some sweet, fun guy to show me a good time so I could move on faster.

Shopping helps too. 🙂

your just all tuff cookies eh!!!? personally i dont like the rebound thing, cant do just sex"

"He spent 5 years sitting around moping, listening to Bob Segar records. He said he got much better when he just started having sex again. He even admitted, if he would have just had sex sooner, he wouldn't had wasted as much of his life on depression."

wow, 5 years of hurt and misery,. and to think that there are some people that never move on from a past hurt because maybe they dont know how. Thats good he's better though: )

Had cheating ex's & have cheated on ex's - its the state I live in I swear - still good friends with those ex's - even thou the last one (I was supposed to marry) ripped my heart out of my chest & stomped on it I forgave him & moved on but will never be the same again - getting your heart broken makes you twice shy - it hurts like hell and wish I was a hard biatch so I could have gotten some sort of revenge! primegen - my current Aqua bf has said almost exactly the same thing as you in relation to cheating - I had beta not be naughty!! jk

AQUAj, i have the same trits as u i cant move on easily at all, and sometimes dont want to,but mine in is in a romantic way, but as aquas i belive, when we love , we really love, the thought of someone else even 10 months later makes me feel sick, i cant help it, not that this is a repetitive pattern for me, just had it bad once,& know id been the same again