@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts
my aqua ascendant sees where he's coming from. i was attached at ur age and it continued til i was 26. i'm 27 now. do u wanna be 27 and going buck wild with dating around or 20 doing that? ppl around my age are looking to settle down and i'm coming off looking like a teenager cuz i didn't do it when i was ur age. it was to be expected. depends on u. i don't have a problem being my age (i'm still in my 20's damn it!) and dating but it does get harder with my peers. the guys i keep attracting actually WANT a long-term, settled relationship and are thinking along the lines of marriage cuz they already had their casual fun times.
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Id use the butter fly analogy.....if u love something let it go.....I'm an aquarian who loves being In relationships but I have learnt I can never be In relationships thats its not fair on me or my lover because I have a inhuman expectation of love only acheived in books.......I think he has a bautiful image of you in his mind thats untainted and he wouldent want to see u in any other light.........so if the two of u were to engage in relationship he runs the risk of losing that image.....what if you both had a fight and he lost you completely? In the mean time u should find a piscean or cancer to hold you till he comes bak.