Falling in lust and falling hard. Aquarius women, predator or prey?

As an Aquarius woman I find myself getting into experimental flights of fancy. The first of which were women. Lovely pliant partners that brought out my dominance for a while at least. Then, my first male partner. A tall handsome Cancer, that was keen on fashion and had skills to rival my female partners. He was completely morally bereft but the time with him was amazing. I go dry as the Sahara if I find fault with a prospective partner and so the next was a bit of shock.... a few years younger and with baggage that was so cute. I chased him and peaked his interest and soon the younger man was in my bed. He was enjoyable but the problem with younger men is that they project feelings of guilt into situations of that nature.... it was my fault that he once thought of me as a sister I suppose.

I like the cold predatory thrill that comes from pursuing the target of my ardor and then I become apathetic once things settle into the dust of either guilt or a relationship.

Am I doomed to wander from each pretty partner to the next? Or am I perfectly happy baiting them into my company with shy smiles and a practiced innocent gasp?

Which are we expected to be? Please comment about your experiences (be you male or female) and we can all bond over our experiences to help all who read this post.




-Love Cutesy Queen

My vote is predator.

Aquarius love challenges and chases. I've seen it time and time again. Breaking and changing conventions and people's expectations. They seem to need some form of challenge. I'm sure you could do something different maybe focus that drive elsewhere. But that could be always from now. Good luck

Interesting perspective! I hope to come across you on this site again!

Posted by CutseyQueen
Interesting perspective! I hope to come across you on this site again!

Likewise

I think for us Aquas, if we don't have a partner that challenges us, intrigues us, has some mystery, we get bored and we lose interest.

Posted by FutureSeeker
Hmmm. Predator is an interesting word... What about sleuth? In some relationships, especially when in the dating world, I felt like a black widow spider at times. I would be like you said- luring someone in, but once I figured them out- I lost interest.
I realized at one point how lonely I felt when I figured out what made a person tick, or that they really weren't who they said they were. I work hard to keep my puzzle/sleuth hat at bay because I don't want to get bored- I don't want to be lonely. And really, I'm such a hypocrite- I'm boring too, and I'm not always as I seem.
Aquarius tends to have such high expectations of others- but we make exceptions for ourselves.

I'm a Cancer and I experience this, I get bored. How do u fix that? In your case, how did u decide marrying the Cancer was right for you? What if you get bored? Basically, a lady(morally at least) is not supposed to hop from one relationship to another , but we get bored too.

I think I'm bored in my relationship with my Aqua, I find work, meeting people more exciting than my relationship. Some ladies claim what they have is so darn perfectttt that it feels like I'm missing out on something.

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Posted by FutureSeeker
Hmmm. Predator is an interesting word... What about sleuth? In some relationships, especially when in the dating world, I felt like a black widow spider at times. I would be like you said- luring someone in, but once I figured them out- I lost interest.
I realized at one point how lonely I felt when I figured out what made a person tick, or that they really weren't who they said they were. I work hard to keep my puzzle/sleuth hat at bay because I don't want to get bored- I don't want to be lonely. And really, I'm such a hypocrite- I'm boring too, and I'm not always as I seem.
Aquarius tends to have such high expectations of others- but we make exceptions for ourselves.

I'm a Cancer and I experience this, I get bored. How do u fix that? In your case, how did u decide marrying the Cancer was right for you? What if you get bored? Basically, a lady(morally at least) is not supposed to hop from one relationship to another , but we get bored too.

I think I'm bored in my relationship with my Aqua, I find work, meeting people more exciting than my relationship. Some ladies claim what they have is so darn perfectttt that it feels like I'm missing out on something.

I think people either pretend it's perfect or are in denial. No such thing as a perfect relationship.

I believe it works between Cancer and I because we know we aren't perfect and we both know we are a pain in the ass at times.

He does challenge me, we push each other to grow. Not always without resistance.

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That is so true.I don't understand how people can act that much. They wud portray an image so far from what it really is, and with me it's always the opposite. I hate pretending, not alone pretending to be happy in a relationship like most people. I have walked out of so many relationships because I really can't take nonsense that come with some relationships.