Feel confused about an Aquarius girl

We had dated for 7 months, and now we broke up. She likes to remain friend with me, she wants me to still in her life. She said I am the closest person/partner that she ever had. But I don't keep my exes as my friends. She dumped me, and said there was no strong feelings for me, but she didn't want to let me go. She also said she wants to take it slow, no pushy no rush, follow the flow. I know I was too possessive when I was with her, I know she needs space for her own things. But what should I do? keep distance or still close by? I really don't know what does this girl wants.

I am Aries.
Oh one more thing, she said she wants to talk to me. But I am the one who keep distance from her. I don't mean it, but I don't know what should I do.

So she just wanted to be friend with me, right?

gotcha. Thanks!
Just she cried a lot, she wants to figure out her feelings and want some time. She said the feelings come and go. Just these kinda little things confused me.

Posted by virgorillaa
I feel like she wants you but couldnt handle your posessiveness, and you should not feel bad for that. You cant control those emotions and same goes with her. Maybe she wants to be friends really. Or maybe she wants you to be friends so youd actually take things slow.

Do whatever make you comfortable! Dont push yourself to do things that you dont want to do.

Good luck!

Thanks! I know she really wants to be my friend for now, and be close to me. But I cannot force myself as well. I did learned a lot from, I realized a healthy relationship does need space.
But what done is done... sad but suck it up..