I'm not saying this is an Aquarius thing. It's just me. I'm a procrastinator. I feel incredibly bored if having nothing to do, and try to make myself busy, but with meaningless things rather than with important things that I am supposed to do, which I rarely feel like doing them. Deadlines always feel like the end of the world approaching.
I'd like to ask you what your MOTIVATION to put effort into doing something is, especially something you don't like, or feel something's wrong about it. This would personally bug me too much I couldn't do the work, but if I were to raise the issue with people they'd just display the attitude that I was being difficult, lazy or stupid for not understanding the rationale behind it.
I hope you guys have solutions. Helps will be much appreciated.
This is not advice, but I've been on the other side of this situation and I can say that it IS kind of difficult for me to justify why he can't see both sides... This may sound very blase but I just accept that we disagree. "Agree to disagree" so they say...even if it is not mutual
I love deadlines and I have always put off things to the last minute and then pulled through but its usually at that moment that I think had I put more effort in that I could have done one hell of a job??_.at the moment I'm writing a novel and I'm going at my own pace with it??_.usually ill read a book then write a chapter because I have no idea how to write??_.writers usually have a problem sitting themselves down just for an hour a day and force themselves to write lol be thankful your not a writer??_??_I don't have an answer for you but I used to be a lot like that but now I get joy out of doing stuff that needs to be done like getting out of bed in the morning...
"especially something you don't like, or feel something's wrong about it."
That is what inhibits you. You need to stop thinking how you feel about your task. Wake up in the morning and jump directly into it, without any prior thoughts.
It's like taking a dip into the sea: you dread the coldness of the water, before you jump and during the first minutes. After that is feels good. Nothing better than knowing you took control and mastered your task. The next one will come easier.
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I'm not saying this is an Aquarius thing. It's just me. I'm a procrastinator. I feel incredibly bored if having nothing to do, and try to make myself busy, but with meaningless things rather than with important things that I am supposed to do, which I rarely feel like doing them. Deadlines always feel like the end of the world approaching.
I'd like to ask you what your MOTIVATION to put effort into doing something is, especially something you don't like, or feel something's wrong about it. This would personally bug me too much I couldn't do the work, but if I were to raise the issue with people they'd just display the attitude that I was being difficult, lazy or stupid for not understanding the rationale behind it.
I hope you guys have solutions. Helps will be much appreciated.