Friends or more? - Aquarius men confuse me, helppp!

Posted by taugem13
I'm a Taurus sun Gemini moon Libra rising (Gemini in both venus and mercury as well.) Wild combination aha.

I've had an aqua friend for a few years, we were just online friends (on and off messages here and there), and hung out like 2-3 times a few years ago. Last year, we started to send each other risque texts and images, for about a year and we'd always bring up the idea of us being fwb. I've never dated, or had any sexual encounters, and I do trust this guy. We met recently, to "fool around," no sex, just some PG-13 stuff.

Since then we've communicated nearly everyday, he'd send me love songs/poems/images, open up to me about personal problems, it is a different side of him. He'd share pictures and stories of his pets who are suuuper close to his heart (I feel like he's a Leo or Cancer moon. Not too sure.) Everything's changed since our hangout. Like it's gotten softer, and warmer. We used to have very very risque conversations, very sexual conversations. None of that is bring brought up anymore. I obviously don't mind this new track change, but I don't really know what's going on.

I've told him I don't want to catch feelings, and he told me he's not really looking for a relationship anytime now, but sometimes, his actions are different. Before we hung out like once or twice a year, and now within a span of 5 weeks, 3 times. To me that's a lot, for us. He also walks with his hands in his pockets with his elbow always touching me somehow when we're walking side by side. I like my space, but idk I feel safe with him. It's such a weird position to be in.

Anywaysss, rant over. Aquas/Aqua specialists, what's going on. Is there a chance things can become romantic? Or is he just being the normal caring, friendly, accomodating, and hella independent Aqua dude he is to everyone else in his circle?

Based on my

Two months experiences with an Aqua guy.. I have similar placements to u ... just with an Aqua moon which helps me understand them better.... I think they like direct approach... so if u have doubts or wonder what's going on... just ask him straight up front... mine said how much he loves 100 percents blunt honesty .... otherwise they will just go with the flow and follow whatever u do... so if u feel like this is leading to more than before,just lean over n kiss him lol.... I'm not sure coz why did he stop sending sexy stuff? He's a guy after all I'm just hoping that he didn't friend you and that's it ... perhaps maybe text him one day n be like I really wanted to kiss u the other day n see what he says... from what I hear n based on the Aqua guy I'm involved with, they don't get into a relationship straight away... their .* I'm not looking for a relationship sentence is very common! * lol n maybe used to all their women..... though deep down what they crave n desire is far from truth.., I think what they mean to say is I'm not ready to sacrifice all my freedom and be caged in by a woman ever lol..: this is my take on it... so let's just wait on another Aqua to help u but go over my question I had on * all women have the same problems with Aqua men * it's on the trend at the moment n u will find ur right answer there🙂

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Sounds to me like he's just being friendly and he feels that connection with you. He could be attracted to you as well. Don't make the mistake of doing a fwb situation with him, ever! He'll only think of you less and will make him less determined to commit, in the future.



Also remember to always Believe a man when he says he's not looking for a relationship. Don't put your heart on the line because he might end up using you.

This is very true.. words again...

They'll go as far as you let them. And if they don't have feelings for you beyond a certain point, they never will. If you're talking FWB, that's all you'll ever be. If you're cool with that, then fine. But don't start wondering after 6 months why it hasn't gone any further.