Has he awoken my stinger?

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Aqu@Libra
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Do Aquarius guys like to test? My Aqua kissed me on Saturday, flirted with chicks on Sunday, then got seemingly pissed at my non response. Moreover, he seemed really angry when I sat and spoke to an old colleague (male) who came to join our group. Was that his point with the chicks? Should I have been or acted jealous? Did he expect me to ignore my colleague? Wtf?

Anyway, my instincts say, ignore the fuck out of him! Literally. Not as a game plan (though I wouldn't mind if it stung), I just don't want to deal right now!!! Unless dealing is processing the slight anger I feel privately (on here 😄) Away from him! Ugh!!!

He's not my boyfriend, just a close friend who I stupidly told I sometimes feel like kissing. Which I do, did. Then he kissed me not too long after...and then now weird, which is awakening my weird. I sincerely feel like cutting him off for sometime. Ignore the fuck out of him as I said. Until I can be bothered again. If... It won't be the first time. But, the other times were kiss free...like the hypothetical kiss he made a reality. For what?

Bar ranting here, I can't be bothered. Is that the Scorpio in me trying to come out? I'm a Libra/Scorpio cusp...so I have been told. Just Help!!!

Tell me what's up aqua guys. Lisbethur8 you're always welcome! Lol

Rant done!
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Aqu@Libra
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Posted by flowingwater
Wow, this whole "I'm going to ignore him and cut him off!" Sounds so immature to me. This is why some aquas can't deal with super emotional people...
To save an essay I chopped things out. I'm tired...I needed a recharge. If that's immature, I may never grow up. FYI, I'm not jealous, read again!!!

Just because you aqua's may lack feelings/suppress emotions, doesn't mean everyone should. Yes, ignore the fuck out of him and cut him off...have a taste of your own medicine! Who do you guys think you are?...I guess this is the double standards you guys are famous for!

I need advice not judgemen! BTW, super emotional would be to get up in his face or whimper and cry about it to Him! I chose retreat...perhaps how I expressed it wasn't to your taste but hey, can't please everyone!
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Posted by flowingwater
If he's just a "friend" your attaching and getting jealous too quickly. For an aqua, a kiss is a kiss and just that.. It's possible to do that with no emotions involved. He's acting weird because he senses weirdness from you.


I think your making it a bigger deal than it is...
Attaching what? jealous of who?

He kissed me, if it WAS just a kiss, why act weird when I'm chilling with another male friend?

Why did I open my big mouth? If acting weird is acting the same as normal after the kiss, then yeah, I started the weirdness!!!

I actually read much into, just saying how it went...
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Posted by flowingwater
If he's just a "friend" your attaching and getting jealous too quickly. For an aqua, a kiss is a kiss and just that.. It's possible to do that with no emotions involved. He's acting weird because he senses weirdness from you.


I think your making it a bigger deal than it is...
Attaching what? jealous of who?

He kissed me, if it WAS just a kiss, why act weird when I'm chilling with another male friend?

Why did I open my big mouth? If acting weird is acting the same as normal after the kiss, then yeah, I started the weirdness!!!

I actually read much into, just saying how it went...
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Furthermore, we were with a whole group of friends and his attitude stank! He's still my friend I'm just fuming. He even told me not to give my ex-colleague a ride when we were leaving. He had gone toilet and we were all outside. I asked what about Jason, shouldn't we wait for him? and he said just leave him!

What's that about?

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Do Aquarians like to test? Of course we do were like the scientists of the zodiac and human emotion is our experiment lol

I think depending on the age of your Aqua indicates his need to test due to his unfamiliarity to the "game" he wants to have the upper hand in you because he knows your prettier than he is.
relationships are not a game, 11th.

if you treat it like one, you'll never be in a pernament relationship in my honest opinion.

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i dont know, i know everyone is different but relationships are serious,

same as work,career. you dont treat it like a game. except with relationships there is love.

sometimes with work/career there is no love, I read/hear lots of people who HATE their work. but can't get out...

hmmmm

😕

it sounds like alot of marriages/ relationships...they hate it and can't get out. *smh*