FemmeScorpion
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Have I created a monster??
So am thinking all is well. I havent got a problem with either of them. The next day,the aqua phoned me whilst i was at work,he sounded angry.Saying to me whats the matter with me? I was like what are you on about? He said no other girl,have ever made me so angry. You never make a decision and stick to it. You're always changing your mind. I responded,i thought things was good with us. He said yesterday when i saw you walking in the city with your aries,i wanted to come over and cause some trouble. I was like what trouble? He said i would have mentioned something about the hotel.
Then he said I want to see you CRY, I am going to make you CRY. I responded why,i havent done anything to you? He said yes you keep changing your mind. I traveled to get you on christmas eve and you decided to stay at your house.
Then he went on to say how much goodlooking girls he knows. I am not the only pretty girl,so dont think I can get away with playing with him.
He kept going on about me going to his bro(libra)wine bar. He kept saying why do you still go there. I said its a free country,I can go where ever i want. He said but after you fell out with him,you told me you werent going back there.
On the day your camera got stolen,you were in the wine bar for 4hrs. I went there to see my bro and i saw you and your mate sitting at a table. I thought what the heck is she still doing here. I said for your info we were waiting on my aries to pick me up. Also what the heck as it got to do with you.
He kept saying to me,why do you go to my brother wine bar. I responded what as it got to do with you? He said if I want i can stop you from going there. My brother wont but I can make it,so you never go back there.
So I asked him if his brother as a problem with me going to his bar. He was like no no my brother isnt like that. He will allow you to go there but thats where it ENDS.
I was getting peed off,so i told him look,when i go to the wine bar. Its because of work,i dont communicate with your brother when am there. I am out socialising with my frens n colleagues.
I asked him if his brother said anything,he responded no. I dont know whats the issue with you and my brother. My brother always have lots of pretty girls. You are the only nice looking girl who he cant seem to get on with long term.I dont know if its you or him that as the problem. He said the only thing his bro said was am jealous.
After he said am going to get you. I said what do you mean?
Then he said I want to see you CRY, I am going to make you CRY. I responded why,i havent done anything to you? He said yes you keep changing your mind. I traveled to get you on christmas eve and you decided to stay at your house.
Then he went on to say how much goodlooking girls he knows. I am not the only pretty girl,so dont think I can get away with playing with him.
He kept going on about me going to his bro(libra)wine bar. He kept saying why do you still go there. I said its a free country,I can go where ever i want. He said but after you fell out with him,you told me you werent going back there.
On the day your camera got stolen,you were in the wine bar for 4hrs. I went there to see my bro and i saw you and your mate sitting at a table. I thought what the heck is she still doing here. I said for your info we were waiting on my aries to pick me up. Also what the heck as it got to do with you.
He kept saying to me,why do you go to my brother wine bar. I responded what as it got to do with you? He said if I want i can stop you from going there. My brother wont but I can make it,so you never go back there.
So I asked him if his brother as a problem with me going to his bar. He was like no no my brother isnt like that. He will allow you to go there but thats where it ENDS.
I was getting peed off,so i told him look,when i go to the wine bar. Its because of work,i dont communicate with your brother when am there. I am out socialising with my frens n colleagues.
I asked him if his brother said anything,he responded no. I dont know whats the issue with you and my brother. My brother always have lots of pretty girls. You are the only nice looking girl who he cant seem to get on with long term.I dont know if its you or him that as the problem. He said the only thing his bro said was am jealous.
After he said am going to get you. I said what do you mean?
The aqua responded.One of these days you will be lying beneath me!!
WTF?? He's freaking me out abit.
First he told me he has been watching me on cctv camera,when am in his bro wine bar.
He kept a bottle I drank from because it had my lipstick stain.
Then he said he will be able to find out my exact DOB and address.
Now he's going to make me cry etc.
Is this aqua been serious or just trying to get a reaction from me??
I have typed alot...I created this topic,so I can get it all down. And try and make some sense of it all😢
WTF?? He's freaking me out abit.
First he told me he has been watching me on cctv camera,when am in his bro wine bar.
He kept a bottle I drank from because it had my lipstick stain.
Then he said he will be able to find out my exact DOB and address.
Now he's going to make me cry etc.
Is this aqua been serious or just trying to get a reaction from me??
I have typed alot...I created this topic,so I can get it all down. And try and make some sense of it all😢
wow, sometimes it takes persistence to get the girl ... where does the line cross to stalker?
oh well, keep us posted
oh well, keep us posted
jru2
Because he has such a kind friendly personality....I fail to see him as a stalker. Good lord,i hope he's not.
Because he has such a kind friendly personality....I fail to see him as a stalker. Good lord,i hope he's not.
HUH??!!! Is this an..Aqua—
I had a similar case with a head over heels aqua and he was doing pulling some crazy acts...
I guess when the 'aloof' ones fall, they fall HARD and cant handle their emotions that well...( I cant believe i just said that, me the Gem 😛 )
THAT or he s unstable or BOTH....
Dont go to that wine bar again and dont respond to contact...you dont want to look like you re encouraging communication unless of course you seretly enjoy all this drama...
Good luck!
I had a similar case with a head over heels aqua and he was doing pulling some crazy acts...
I guess when the 'aloof' ones fall, they fall HARD and cant handle their emotions that well...( I cant believe i just said that, me the Gem 😛 )
THAT or he s unstable or BOTH....
Dont go to that wine bar again and dont respond to contact...you dont want to look like you re encouraging communication unless of course you seretly enjoy all this drama...
Good luck!
Posted by Lilith
HUH??!!! Is this an..Aqua—
I had a similar case with a head over heels aqua and he was doing pulling some crazy acts...
I guess when the 'aloof' ones fall, they fall HARD and cant handle their emotions that well...( I cant believe i just said that, me the Gem 😛 )
THAT or he s unstable or BOTH....
Dont go to that wine bar again and dont respond to contact...you dont want to look like you re encouraging communication unless of course you seretly enjoy all this drama...
Good luck!
Yeah...it is 100% an aqua. I seriously need to keep away. Part of me thinks he's simply playing.
I guess i should think outside the box. Hence why i created this topic.
Thanks for responding.
What happened in the end with your aqua?
Posted by oldskoolflavor
* he wants some piece of Gabrielle
I think I heard an EGO collapse 🙂
Haha well hello,was wondering...where you where?
Plz reread my thread. The aqua said the libra said that I am jealous. The aqua wasnt saying he was jealous.
Aware of the REAL ME. Is that the kind,sensitive scorpio?🙂
Posted by oldskoolflavor
😢
from what I've read before,
I thought aqua was obsessing over you, or rather pretending to ..
(you know how obsessive people get jealous)
Is that the kind,sensitive scorpio?
yes, you can tell yourself that
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Have you changed your name or something? Who knows whats the deal with this aqua!!
Well the aqua was a friend of a friend...i d had met him at my friend s party...he invited me out one day for dinner (erm i am ashamed to admit i wasnt even aware it ll be just the two of us, I thought our two common friends with us) lol...
Apparently I charmed him that evening...i thought nothing of it then and hadnt noticed, i was interested in sb else and my antenna wasnt picking signals from other males 😛
A couple months later, in a phone conversation with my friend and after some desperate hints about the aqua, i finally understood the aqua was interested...i told my friend i wasnt interested and to not encourage aqua to try win my affections...fast forward many months, and after another date with the aqua in which he admitted his feelings (i agreed to the date only after pressure and to tell him explicitly i wasnt interested romantically in him), he had gone psycho.., i dont want to go into specifics but the thing ended with him not accepting my not wanting him, and accusing me in the end that i wanted to exploit him (i was being distant and polite and when i had to talk to him in social gatherings, i discussed sth neutral, like an organisation he was in and i wanted to join). Oh well...some ppl dont take rejection that well...
That was long and I left all the details out...the point is...YES, aquas can go the 'extreme' road but to be honest, i sense your situation is different.
Aquas value friendships and family too much to disregard previous history with the libra. Bros before gals.
They are not like cappies and scorpios though, if he feels you have/had nothing serious with libra, then his feelings might as well be genuine.
HOWEVER thats not the point in the story anyways.
Ignore him and as i said do not encourage any contact from him. His agenda doesnt matter at this point or his motives. What matters is that he wont go stalker on you and you re not involved in a messy situation.
Good luck with aries!
Apparently I charmed him that evening...i thought nothing of it then and hadnt noticed, i was interested in sb else and my antenna wasnt picking signals from other males 😛
A couple months later, in a phone conversation with my friend and after some desperate hints about the aqua, i finally understood the aqua was interested...i told my friend i wasnt interested and to not encourage aqua to try win my affections...fast forward many months, and after another date with the aqua in which he admitted his feelings (i agreed to the date only after pressure and to tell him explicitly i wasnt interested romantically in him), he had gone psycho.., i dont want to go into specifics but the thing ended with him not accepting my not wanting him, and accusing me in the end that i wanted to exploit him (i was being distant and polite and when i had to talk to him in social gatherings, i discussed sth neutral, like an organisation he was in and i wanted to join). Oh well...some ppl dont take rejection that well...
That was long and I left all the details out...the point is...YES, aquas can go the 'extreme' road but to be honest, i sense your situation is different.
Aquas value friendships and family too much to disregard previous history with the libra. Bros before gals.
They are not like cappies and scorpios though, if he feels you have/had nothing serious with libra, then his feelings might as well be genuine.
HOWEVER thats not the point in the story anyways.
Ignore him and as i said do not encourage any contact from him. His agenda doesnt matter at this point or his motives. What matters is that he wont go stalker on you and you re not involved in a messy situation.
Good luck with aries!
lilith
I know you have left out abit but i really identified with bits of what you typed.
I seriously didnt and even now,i still fail to see the signals from the aqua bcoz I am interested in someone else too.
I asked me about my involvement with his brother and i told him bits. However i get the impression the libra isnt telling him anything.
Arrrgghhh its just one big mess. That as the potential to get even messier.
However I must keep away.
I know you have left out abit but i really identified with bits of what you typed.
I seriously didnt and even now,i still fail to see the signals from the aqua bcoz I am interested in someone else too.
I asked me about my involvement with his brother and i told him bits. However i get the impression the libra isnt telling him anything.
Arrrgghhh its just one big mess. That as the potential to get even messier.
However I must keep away.
1. This Aqua isn't pretending to be a possessive stalker. He knows acting this way isn't a good look. He's being that way b/c he really IS this way. He's blaiming you for your actions & supposed mind games but yet he had ample opportunity to walk out the door & remove himself from your life. Instead, he decided to stay, invest all this unnecessary energy worrying about you & others. And b/c he isn't man enough to say "F U" & leave, he's trying to blaim you even though he's the 1 that's just as obligated to remove himself from your life if he feels you're just playing games with him. If he waits on you to make that call, he'll always be disappointed, but it's HIS fault. The min. you feel like someone is bull shxtting you, you don't have to wait for them to end it. You can pack up & keep it moving on your own. This guy isn't willing to do that. Instead, he'd rather make your life miserable. He's a creep.
2. If you were in a relationship with this Aries the entire time, what on earth were you doing investing enough time/energy into 2 other men to the point that it even got to an emotional/physical attachment? These guys are mad at you b/c you're not acting like a woman whose committed to just 1 person. You're trying to split up your time b/w 3 guys & yes, honey they finally noticed it & don't appreciate it. That's why you're seeing so much animosity from them.
3. Don't play dumb. Emotional attachments take time. You knew Libra and/or Aqua was falling for you & if you couldn't handle it or pick 1, you should've spared them all. But no, you kept leading them all on in your own little ways, only to play the innocent card once you were called out on it. Somewhere along the line, you gave each 1 of these guys the impression that you were really into them. Wake up. Some people/men will actually hold you to it & call you out if they sense that your actions never seem to match up with your words.
4. Leave that Aqua alone. Stop going back & forth b/w 2 brothers; you'll lose every time. When 1 doesn't do right, you skip to another one (I'm sure this is why Libra lost interest). That's not a good look. And when this sort of thing is going on, it's VERY HARD to use the "I wasn't aware I was playing mind games" line.
5. You need to decide who you want to be committed to & stick to just that 1 person. If you were really committed to your Aries, you wouldn't constantly be in the state of explaining yourself to this Aqua or any other man for that matter.
2. If you were in a relationship with this Aries the entire time, what on earth were you doing investing enough time/energy into 2 other men to the point that it even got to an emotional/physical attachment? These guys are mad at you b/c you're not acting like a woman whose committed to just 1 person. You're trying to split up your time b/w 3 guys & yes, honey they finally noticed it & don't appreciate it. That's why you're seeing so much animosity from them.
3. Don't play dumb. Emotional attachments take time. You knew Libra and/or Aqua was falling for you & if you couldn't handle it or pick 1, you should've spared them all. But no, you kept leading them all on in your own little ways, only to play the innocent card once you were called out on it. Somewhere along the line, you gave each 1 of these guys the impression that you were really into them. Wake up. Some people/men will actually hold you to it & call you out if they sense that your actions never seem to match up with your words.
4. Leave that Aqua alone. Stop going back & forth b/w 2 brothers; you'll lose every time. When 1 doesn't do right, you skip to another one (I'm sure this is why Libra lost interest). That's not a good look. And when this sort of thing is going on, it's VERY HARD to use the "I wasn't aware I was playing mind games" line.
5. You need to decide who you want to be committed to & stick to just that 1 person. If you were really committed to your Aries, you wouldn't constantly be in the state of explaining yourself to this Aqua or any other man for that matter.
6. Honey, you're fishing on a fine line anyways simply b/c you're trying to hold on to 2 brothers. Why on earth would any man really invest any real emotions/time into you if he knows that you're secretely crushing on his brother? FAIL! That's torture, especially if a man really & genuinely likes you. Out of all the other millions of guys in the world you could be leading on, you made the naive decision to juggle 2 brothers. I'm not surprised the Libra is acting cool & playing dumb; there's a reason he disappeared & stopped giving you as much as he used to...you're entertaining his own brother a little TOO much. How can he really take you seriously? Exactly, he can't!
7.You wonder why this Aqua is turning into the world's biggest creep but yet you keep making excuses for him when someone gives you the answer to your own question. Some of the most evil, controlling, cold-hearted and/or possessive people know how to pull off a "nice personality" sometimes. It's the things they say/do when they're angered that paints the true picture of who they really are. You only want to pay attention to the times this Aqua was nice, but yet you're refusing to acknowledge this Aqua's true colors for what they are now that he's showing you his dark side. My advice: Pay attention to BOTH sides. If you're gonna keep making excuses for him, quit complaining.
8. Sounds like you're going around establishing mini/short romances with a bunch of guys just to have something to do. Idk what you're gaining from all of this but honey, the way you go about dating multiple people or maintaining your friendships with males is NOT working. So you need to change up your strategy. If you want to play the field, make sure you're not doing so with men that actually know one another. It's almost like you're trying to get caught up.
9. If these guys are just your "friends" then you all have gone way over the line. There's NO reason you should be explaining yourself to this Aqua in the way that you are/do. He only has the nerve to keep questioning you as if he were your parent b/c you're actually falling for it & responding to them. Stop wasting your time explaining yourself or trying to dig yourself out of the hole just for peace in the moment. You screwed up. All the explaining in the world won't change the fact that this Aqua is a creep & has some issues. No matter what you do, he can't blaim you for why he's being cold-hearted.
7.You wonder why this Aqua is turning into the world's biggest creep but yet you keep making excuses for him when someone gives you the answer to your own question. Some of the most evil, controlling, cold-hearted and/or possessive people know how to pull off a "nice personality" sometimes. It's the things they say/do when they're angered that paints the true picture of who they really are. You only want to pay attention to the times this Aqua was nice, but yet you're refusing to acknowledge this Aqua's true colors for what they are now that he's showing you his dark side. My advice: Pay attention to BOTH sides. If you're gonna keep making excuses for him, quit complaining.
8. Sounds like you're going around establishing mini/short romances with a bunch of guys just to have something to do. Idk what you're gaining from all of this but honey, the way you go about dating multiple people or maintaining your friendships with males is NOT working. So you need to change up your strategy. If you want to play the field, make sure you're not doing so with men that actually know one another. It's almost like you're trying to get caught up.
9. If these guys are just your "friends" then you all have gone way over the line. There's NO reason you should be explaining yourself to this Aqua in the way that you are/do. He only has the nerve to keep questioning you as if he were your parent b/c you're actually falling for it & responding to them. Stop wasting your time explaining yourself or trying to dig yourself out of the hole just for peace in the moment. You screwed up. All the explaining in the world won't change the fact that this Aqua is a creep & has some issues. No matter what you do, he can't blaim you for why he's being cold-hearted.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
I don't think she's misleading anyone on purpose.
she can't help being a kind, attractive and magnetic scorpio.
🙂
I am wondering about the 'leading sb on' issue too...I know I have advised caution numerous times and practiced myself what I preached but....how much of of leading on is actually leading on?? I mean, people should start taking some responsibility for their own actions...sometimes it feels you cant grab a coffee or hang out or YES even innocently flirt with sb without Guilt Flash: am I being a tease?
Personally, If sb hasnt professed their undying love for me, I dont feel led on...If we are not together, I wont hold anybody accountable!
I am careful myself but sometimes it is terrible to censor yourself too much....I would NEVER even think about cheating/playing around when in a relationship but thats different...some people think you re given an oath because you responded to their 'hi's'
.....playful Geminian's (irrelevant) rant ends here...😛
Riveting tale, chap. Just tell the Aquarius you used him as an emotional tampon and now that he's figured it out, you no longer want to speak to him.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
I don't think she's misleading anyone on purpose.
she can't help being a kind, attractive and magnetic scorpio.
🙂
Spare me... some change plz?
Krysrenee7
Thanks for taking the time out to reply. You have raised alot of important points.
Ok the god honest truth is, i failed to see the aqua interests in me. He saw the chemistry between the libra and i,and am always talking about his brother.
The aqua did ask me what was the deal between his brother and I and told him his brother and are pretty close.
How do i say to someone by the way i have been having an emotional affair with your brother for the past yr or so.
All 3 of us have got significant others. (yes i know i will be called names).
When i met the libra,i had no intention of starting anything with him.....i didnt even know what a emotional affair was.
I was very happy and content. Yes the libra looks appealed to me,but i wasnt prepared to go there with him.
Also i didnt know what he wanted from me.
However he was persistent,everyday this guy would come into my work,smiling,asking me about day weekend etc.
And each time,he would invite me to his bar and restaurant. I kept telling him,am going to think about it. But i never went. The he would be back into my work enquiring why i didnt turn up.
My colleaques werent keen on him,they thought he was nice looking but arrogant and that he had a serious crush on me.
I finally went to his bar,with my work. It was a workmate leaving do. And today i regret going. It was at that point,i felt the chemistry between us. I was standing with 2 other girls and he stood infront of me talking. The chemistry was so powerful....he was practically swaying infront of me. I never felt chemistry like that with anyone b4,not even my aries.
My work mate commented on it,they kept saying OMG you and that guy as some serious chemistry.
And it was from there it got into murky water.
At no point did I hide anything from my aries or the libra. The libra knew about my aries,he saw us both together on 2 occassions. The first time he saw us,the next day he was in to my work asking "Who was that guy?" "How long have you been with him?" "Are you going to see him again?" "and finally that i can do much better"
I was shocked and flattered,but i wasnt prepared to split with my aries because i knew the libra had a partner. Although I never saw this girl,i knew she existed. I told my aries all about it. My aries his very level headed,because of his upbringing and his occupation. He never got angry,all he said was this guy is seriously crushing on you. And that the libra has the cheek to come in my work.
Thanks for taking the time out to reply. You have raised alot of important points.
Ok the god honest truth is, i failed to see the aqua interests in me. He saw the chemistry between the libra and i,and am always talking about his brother.
The aqua did ask me what was the deal between his brother and I and told him his brother and are pretty close.
How do i say to someone by the way i have been having an emotional affair with your brother for the past yr or so.
All 3 of us have got significant others. (yes i know i will be called names).
When i met the libra,i had no intention of starting anything with him.....i didnt even know what a emotional affair was.
I was very happy and content. Yes the libra looks appealed to me,but i wasnt prepared to go there with him.
Also i didnt know what he wanted from me.
However he was persistent,everyday this guy would come into my work,smiling,asking me about day weekend etc.
And each time,he would invite me to his bar and restaurant. I kept telling him,am going to think about it. But i never went. The he would be back into my work enquiring why i didnt turn up.
My colleaques werent keen on him,they thought he was nice looking but arrogant and that he had a serious crush on me.
I finally went to his bar,with my work. It was a workmate leaving do. And today i regret going. It was at that point,i felt the chemistry between us. I was standing with 2 other girls and he stood infront of me talking. The chemistry was so powerful....he was practically swaying infront of me. I never felt chemistry like that with anyone b4,not even my aries.
My work mate commented on it,they kept saying OMG you and that guy as some serious chemistry.
And it was from there it got into murky water.
At no point did I hide anything from my aries or the libra. The libra knew about my aries,he saw us both together on 2 occassions. The first time he saw us,the next day he was in to my work asking "Who was that guy?" "How long have you been with him?" "Are you going to see him again?" "and finally that i can do much better"
I was shocked and flattered,but i wasnt prepared to split with my aries because i knew the libra had a partner. Although I never saw this girl,i knew she existed. I told my aries all about it. My aries his very level headed,because of his upbringing and his occupation. He never got angry,all he said was this guy is seriously crushing on you. And that the libra has the cheek to come in my work.
to be continue typed another full paragraph and it got deleted.
So I started going more to his bar,he would often get my mates and I free drinks and discount off the menu. We started communicating/flirting alot more by text. It was harmless fun,i'll be bored when i get home from work and so i'll text him. (My aries often works late).The next day he would turn up @ my work asking me, do i know what am doing to him. I seriously didnt think he was falling for me,I just thought we both enjoyed flirting. Then we had a fight,i text,asking him something and he took ages to reply.
We made up and I remember asking him,"Why do we always fight?" He replied "Because we both LIKE each other".
I had my work do @ his bar dec09 and he looked happy when i turned up.He greeted me with a huge grin,telling how beautiful i looked. Then he showed me to my table where all my colleagues sat waiting. His arm was still around my waist,which made me uncomfortable has my boss and everyone from my work saw.
At one point through the night I sat chatting to one of the male managers,he had his arm around the back of my chair,he quickly withdrew his arm.I asked him what was up? and he said the libra was standing @ the entrance and he gave him a evil look. I replied dont be silly,why would he do that? You must have misread his look.
To conclude this section....the next day my mates and I met up @ the libra's bar for lunch,he didnt acknowledge me and he served my mates and got one of the other barstaff to serve me. My mates thought his actions was odd,as all 4 of us was sitting at 1 table and their meal arrived 10min b4 mine.
I approached him and asked what was the matter,he was very dismissive saying i dont know what your talking about,i said hello when you walked in. His brother was helping out behind the bar and the aqua was the perfect gent, he didnt take sides but offered me some tea,as i was freezing.(And no am not been dramatic,the libra coldness left me shivering).
So i left the bar and on my way home I text the libra:"you thought me a valuable lesson tonite". He replied,whats that then?
I replied never to mix business with pleasure and also younger brothers are always nicer. He replied leave my brother alone. OK.
Well xmas passed,it was the newyr,still wasnt speaking to the libra. On my 1st monday back @ work,he came in to enquiry about something. He was all smiles pretending like nothing happened. I couldnt just let it slip,so i asked him what was all that about @ xmas. He replied you started it first,now we are even. I was shocked!!
We made up and I remember asking him,"Why do we always fight?" He replied "Because we both LIKE each other".
I had my work do @ his bar dec09 and he looked happy when i turned up.He greeted me with a huge grin,telling how beautiful i looked. Then he showed me to my table where all my colleagues sat waiting. His arm was still around my waist,which made me uncomfortable has my boss and everyone from my work saw.
At one point through the night I sat chatting to one of the male managers,he had his arm around the back of my chair,he quickly withdrew his arm.I asked him what was up? and he said the libra was standing @ the entrance and he gave him a evil look. I replied dont be silly,why would he do that? You must have misread his look.
To conclude this section....the next day my mates and I met up @ the libra's bar for lunch,he didnt acknowledge me and he served my mates and got one of the other barstaff to serve me. My mates thought his actions was odd,as all 4 of us was sitting at 1 table and their meal arrived 10min b4 mine.
I approached him and asked what was the matter,he was very dismissive saying i dont know what your talking about,i said hello when you walked in. His brother was helping out behind the bar and the aqua was the perfect gent, he didnt take sides but offered me some tea,as i was freezing.(And no am not been dramatic,the libra coldness left me shivering).
So i left the bar and on my way home I text the libra:"you thought me a valuable lesson tonite". He replied,whats that then?
I replied never to mix business with pleasure and also younger brothers are always nicer. He replied leave my brother alone. OK.
Well xmas passed,it was the newyr,still wasnt speaking to the libra. On my 1st monday back @ work,he came in to enquiry about something. He was all smiles pretending like nothing happened. I couldnt just let it slip,so i asked him what was all that about @ xmas. He replied you started it first,now we are even. I was shocked!!
And thats how things played out,if I spoke to any of the guys behind the bar or any other guys drinking in the bar. The libra will "PUNISH" me. Either by giving me the cold shoulder or refusing to talk to me. We often fight,then made up.
It became a habbit,its like we both wanted to see how far we could push the other.
I only started communicating with the aqua,when the libra shut me out for 3mths,no text,phone calls. He didnt come to my work and I didnt go to his bar.
I went to the aqua out of concern,I was also very upset. He told me what was up and why his brother was been distant.(family problems)
We just talked as friends,he would give me updates about their family and I would tell him about my day etc. I was ill for a wk,the aqua pop into my work,noticed i was off and he phoned me up to see if i was ok. And everyday of that wk,he would phone to check up on me make sure am recovering. I guess thats how the aqua started to get emotionally attached,but in my head we were good friends.
The aqua did enquiry about my relation with his brother and i replied we are very close. How do i tell someone by the way am/was having an emotional affair with your brother. I still cant put in words what the libra and i had,both of us never sat and discuss it in depth. I knew he wanted me and i fancied him,but I was not prepared to leave my aries for him when I didnt know what the heck was going on.
The aqua said he asked him(libra) whats the deal with us two,but the libra refused to discuss it. He also said he asked him,if we got intimate and the libra replied no nothing like that happended.
Do I feel I purposely led both brother on? NO
If I had to choose it would always be the libra,the aqua knows this. Thats why am so confused why the aqua is losing it with me.
I must add,the aqua never bad mouth his brother to me,everytime I was annoyed with the libra. The aqua always try to explain his brother actions. He never tried to paint me a bad picture of his brother.
Yes I feel as though I helped to create this mess,but at no point did i have any intention of leading anyone on.
It became a habbit,its like we both wanted to see how far we could push the other.
I only started communicating with the aqua,when the libra shut me out for 3mths,no text,phone calls. He didnt come to my work and I didnt go to his bar.
I went to the aqua out of concern,I was also very upset. He told me what was up and why his brother was been distant.(family problems)
We just talked as friends,he would give me updates about their family and I would tell him about my day etc. I was ill for a wk,the aqua pop into my work,noticed i was off and he phoned me up to see if i was ok. And everyday of that wk,he would phone to check up on me make sure am recovering. I guess thats how the aqua started to get emotionally attached,but in my head we were good friends.
The aqua did enquiry about my relation with his brother and i replied we are very close. How do i tell someone by the way am/was having an emotional affair with your brother. I still cant put in words what the libra and i had,both of us never sat and discuss it in depth. I knew he wanted me and i fancied him,but I was not prepared to leave my aries for him when I didnt know what the heck was going on.
The aqua said he asked him(libra) whats the deal with us two,but the libra refused to discuss it. He also said he asked him,if we got intimate and the libra replied no nothing like that happended.
Do I feel I purposely led both brother on? NO
If I had to choose it would always be the libra,the aqua knows this. Thats why am so confused why the aqua is losing it with me.
I must add,the aqua never bad mouth his brother to me,everytime I was annoyed with the libra. The aqua always try to explain his brother actions. He never tried to paint me a bad picture of his brother.
Yes I feel as though I helped to create this mess,but at no point did i have any intention of leading anyone on.
Posted by PandorasBox
femme, are these boys still droolin all over you? Haha! Guess the Scorpion magnetism must be true!
Lol you make me laugh hun.....i guess one is been cold again and the next abit crazy.😢
Posted by LilithPosted by oldskoolflavor
I don't think she's misleading anyone on purpose.
she can't help being a kind, attractive and magnetic scorpio.
🙂
I am wondering about the 'leading sb on' issue too...I know I have advised caution numerous times and practiced myself what I preached but....how much of of leading on is actually leading on?? I mean, people should start taking some responsibility for their own actions...sometimes it feels you cant grab a coffee or hang out or YES even innocently flirt with sb without Guilt Flash: am I being a tease?
Personally, If sb hasnt professed their undying love for me, I dont feel led on...If we are not together, I wont hold anybody accountable!
I am careful myself but sometimes it is terrible to censor yourself too much....I would NEVER even think about cheating/playing around when in a relationship but thats different...some people think you re given an oath because you responded to their 'hi's'
.....playful Geminian's (irrelevant) rant ends here...😛click to expand
I agree....some female purposely lead men on...but at no point in my life have i ever sat thinking oh yes am leading this chap on.
I guess we all need to take responsibilty for our actions. But with some men,they can talk to as many girls and even flirt but the minute you do the same. They expect you to fall in bed with them. If that doesnt happen. They run off crying saying,you led them on.PLZ
Posted by bluemoon2
If you were in a relationship with this Aries the entire time, what on earth were you doing investing enough time/energy into 2 other men to the point that it even got to an emotional/physical attachment?
Free will and the last time I checked... it's a free country. Whatever she chooses to do is up to her and it is no justification for any behavior that any man is giving her. If a woman did this to me, I'd just move right on to the next one. If this Aquarian seriously had other girls lined up for him, he wouldn't be wasting any time on her.
The aqua has a partner,so I seriously dont get him. And at no stage did i lead him on. If been a friend and asking after ones brother is leading someone on. Then am guilty.
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by FemmeScorpionPosted by bluemoon2
If you were in a relationship with this Aries the entire time, what on earth were you doing investing enough time/energy into 2 other men to the point that it even got to an emotional/physical attachment?
Free will and the last time I checked... it's a free country. Whatever she chooses to do is up to her and it is no justification for any behavior that any man is giving her. If a woman did this to me, I'd just move right on to the next one. If this Aquarian seriously had other girls lined up for him, he wouldn't be wasting any time on her.
The aqua has a partner,so I seriously dont get him. And at no stage did i lead him on. If been a friend and asking after ones brother is leading someone on. Then am guilty.
There may be something in the synastry chart setting it off. There could be some Pluto/Venus aspect or something similar.click to expand
I dont know I havent looked at his chart.
@ Bluemoon can you go abit more indepth plz?( with your question)
Posted by bluemoon2
His moon is in Scorpio. Very intense emotions and prone to get revenge. There could be some other factors going on in the synastry chart, but as for his individual natal chart, that is what is going on.
Hey. I have a favor to ask you. Is this true about a Scorpio sun woman?
If you are too hard to please, she will show her frustrations with passionate attempts to conquer your disinterest.
Astrologically, a man's moon sign shows the type of woman that affects him deeply (Moon=emotions), actually its more important than Venus, who shows more superficial attraction...even if there is no actual conjunction, tha fact its in the same sigh with her sun shows a connection...and Scorpio-Scorpio, I agree with the interpretation....interesting...
Bluemoon2
Hey. I have a favor to ask you. Is this true about a Scorpio sun woman?
If you are too hard to please, she will show her frustrations with passionate attempts to conquer your disinterest.
Am going to have a attempt at answering the above.
Scorpio loves power and we also love a challenge,most importantly we HATE to lose.
It depends on which context "hard to please" is been use here.
If its sexual disinterest-she will definetley do her best to conquer/get the advantage over you. I must had that majority of scorpio women have a sexual magnetism,so they rarely struggle with the above.
The words used here are FRUSTRATIONS,PASSIONATE,CONQUER,DISINTEREST!!
To summarise a scorp female we are passionate,if u show some sort of disinterest we will get frustrated and work @ conquering you. Only if your worth it!!
Hey. I have a favor to ask you. Is this true about a Scorpio sun woman?
If you are too hard to please, she will show her frustrations with passionate attempts to conquer your disinterest.
Am going to have a attempt at answering the above.
Scorpio loves power and we also love a challenge,most importantly we HATE to lose.
It depends on which context "hard to please" is been use here.
If its sexual disinterest-she will definetley do her best to conquer/get the advantage over you. I must had that majority of scorpio women have a sexual magnetism,so they rarely struggle with the above.
The words used here are FRUSTRATIONS,PASSIONATE,CONQUER,DISINTEREST!!
To summarise a scorp female we are passionate,if u show some sort of disinterest we will get frustrated and work @ conquering you. Only if your worth it!!
Hahahahahaha is aquagirl for real. Am sorry if you've been stung by a scorpio.
So run along little girl...remember not to enter the arena,unless you read the rules of the game.
And dont bring your foul mouth to my thread!!
So run along little girl...remember not to enter the arena,unless you read the rules of the game.
And dont bring your foul mouth to my thread!!
Listen you dont know me and i dont know, or care to know you. Last time I check,the board was free for everyone to post.
You sound angry and bias towards scorpios. You're passing judgement and calling names like some street kid. Grow up!!
How have i messed up,the life of 2 brothers?? Get your facts right young lady!!
You sound angry and bias towards scorpios. You're passing judgement and calling names like some street kid. Grow up!!
How have i messed up,the life of 2 brothers?? Get your facts right young lady!!
Let's set the record straight,I AM NOT SLEEPING WITH THE AQUA OR LIBRA.
I have been pretty honest and open,if I was sleeping with either I would have said!
I guess some of you have no common sense,if the aqua or libra had there wicked way with me,they wouldn't be sticking around and allowing me to —play games
with them?_
Yes everyone is entitled to their own opinion but get ur facts straight
I have been pretty honest and open,if I was sleeping with either I would have said!
I guess some of you have no common sense,if the aqua or libra had there wicked way with me,they wouldn't be sticking around and allowing me to —play games
with them?_
Yes everyone is entitled to their own opinion but get ur facts straight
Can you define been used? Listen if you don't know what your talking about keep mute!
Ur a sheep,so run along little girl!
Ur a sheep,so run along little girl!
Posted by PandorasBoxPosted by FemmeScorpionPosted by oldskoolflavor
changed my name ?
when ? what do you mean ?
Forget it.
this oldskool character does have a slight tinge of the other guy doesnt he?
i swear its him.click to expand
Yeah he reminds me of WTF.🙂
Why was this thread created?
Hello beautiful ppl. Update the aqua turn up @ my work today and asked me to go for a coffee with him. I declined...15min later he rang my mobile 3times but i didnt pick up. He rang my office phone and as i didnt know who the caller was i picked up.
It was the aqua asking me why i am not answering my mobile. I told him I am preping for a app,can i help him.
He replied am in a electronics shop,just wanted to know what make was your digital camera.
OMG......you dont want to know my answer!!
It was the aqua asking me why i am not answering my mobile. I told him I am preping for a app,can i help him.
He replied am in a electronics shop,just wanted to know what make was your digital camera.
OMG......you dont want to know my answer!!
Posted by scorsagianX
Wow, he really expected you to have coffee with him after he made his threats to you...
I really cant take him seriously,he text me that he's sat waiting in the coffee shop. I can join him after work and we can go pick out a new camera.
I feel really bad.....i actually felt sorry for him. Blame my pisces moon.
Posted by scorsagianX
Lol...oh well your not promising anything to those two brothers.
Hahaha your not suggesting am been promiscous?? Are u hun?😢
Posted by scorsagianX
Nope, it's not your fault they fell for you and you cant help if there's chemistry between you and the libra. You havent acted on that chemistry so I dont know what the big deal is.
Thanks hun....i could seriously play these guys BUT its not in my dna as a scorp!!
So it pisses me off when ppl want to make out like am some femme fatale.lol
No pun intended🙂
lol @ bluemoon2. Are you male or female?
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