How to deal with angry aqurius

Me and my aqua guy had gotten into a huge fight last night.. It was just over a silly thing but it turned out into something else.. we started yelling at each other and i think i got him really mad... just now i realized that we both said hurtful things to each other and now i don't know how to deal with it.... i want to say sorry for throwing a tantrum and making him really mad but i just don't know if he will accept it... we've been together for three years and every time i apologized about something he gives me a hard time like treating me coldly... now i just don't know what's the best way to deal with him or to make it up with him... please help.. thanks!

oooppppsss its Aquarius

If I were you I'd wait for some time to pass. I don't know how long would be too long, but just give him enough time to breathe and calm down and then apologize. Thats what I'd need anyway.

I'll never understand why these aqua haters spend time perusing this board.

Hehe, kind of funny when you see this thread is supposed to be about an angry Aqua! That's good stuff right there.

Right? Thats some serious hostility. Must be draining.

Lol...way to represent, KoLs. Way to represent real aqua haters! 😄

what happened in here?

Posted by Shadows
If I were you I'd wait for some time to pass. I don't know how long would be too long, but just give him enough time to breathe and calm down and then apologize. Thats what I'd need anyway.

yup maybe i should wait for him.. it makes me upset though that he could ignore me like this

hey girlie, you've been together 3 years. I think you know by now what it's like.

Take care and just be patient. Everything will be fine.

but sometimes he is so unpredictable.. most of the time i still don't know what he wants... but i loved him for that...

Yeah, I also didn't know that he was still talking to her or that she pops back up every now and then. If you made your feelings clear, KoL...as you always do so eloquently here (😉)...then I agree. Shes very selfish to keep coming back and wanting friendship. Thats effed up.

Posted by sweetscorpiogirl

Posted by Shadows
If I were you I'd wait for some time to pass. I don't know how long would be too long, but just give him enough time to breathe and calm down and then apologize. Thats what I'd need anyway.

yup maybe i should wait for him.. it makes me upset though that he could ignore me like this

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Try not to look at it as him ignoring you. I don't know what hes like, but I know when I'm angry I totally need time to cool down. Its more a way of protecting those I love. My anger is pretty out of control so I have to get a handle on that before I talk to someone.

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Thanks shadows... after three days of not talking to me my aqua guy surprised me with a dozen of white roses with a note written to say "sorry".... it made me really happy and quite guilty at the same time because the argument we had was also my fault but then he made a way to apologized... but all is better now...

Woooooooow, awesome!

Don't feel guilty. He may very well feel in the wrong too. In fact, I don't see why he would have sent flowers if he didn't.

Good stuff.

Holy crap...I do NOT want to witness the wrath of KoL in response to those last few posts.

Actually, knowing a little bit of his situation I wouldn't blame him.

Yeah...not buying that doctor thing. This chick is nuts.