murasaki_me
@murasaki_me
10 Years
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VERY long story short, I've known this Aquarius guy for going on 4 years now. It wasn't until a year after I met him that I began to like him. He made little efforts to chat with me, and out of nowhere I began wanting to talk with him more. It never really evolved much from there while we were in high school (he's a year older than me), but we ended up going to the same university we began talking just a little more. I believe it was just the fact that we were from the same high school so we connected on that. So all that first year in college for me, we had something a little decent going. We would greet each other and pull up something small to talk about now and then. I don't know if I would say we were good friends, but it was something. Summer came and went and now back for another year, things are completely different. I try to greet him but he doesn't give me that wholehearted hi anymore. Sometimes we don't even speak. In a way, I feel he's avoiding me...
I don't know what would have happened for him to change like this. Like, we didn't see each other for 3 months because of summer, but besides that nothing should have changed. There's a possibility that he could know I like him, and, to save you the details, something recently happened that could further confirm his suspicions that I have feelings for him.
After reading a bunch of things on Aquarius men, I do understand that they can be detached or aloof a lot. From my understanding, if it's true that he also likes me, he himself doesn't really understand his feelings and is trying to figure them out. In the process, he's sort of avoiding me and showing the opposite of what he feels. He could also be afraid to show his feelings in fear of rejection, since Aquarians seem to rarely show that deep side of themselves. I do strongly believe this, but I'm also afraid that he could just outright not like me.
Anyway, I don't know what to do anymore. I try to at least greet him, but I don't get much in return. Do I step in and just tell him how I feel, risking scaring him away, or do I wait this out and hope he comes forward to tell me what he actually feels? I'm so emotionally conflicted and this is tearing me apart...