Help Me With this Aqua Guy!

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brandnewtothishehe
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This guy really confuses me.

-He says he likes me to all of his friends.

-All of his friends claim that he likes me.

-He shows subtle body language signs of liking me.

-He is CONSTANTLY STARING at me.

-He is always at my rescue; he is constantly defending me and is very protective over me. He doesn’t like it when other guys make advances on me and I heard him claim to his friends that I’m his.

Despite all of this though, he can’t talk to me like a normal human being. He won’t approach me and when I approach him, he speaks in a really awkward way and looks at anything or anyone but me. He hates confrontation and when I told him that I like him, he told me that he didn’t feel the same way but that we could still be friends, which we never were, after I heard him talking to other people saying that he does like me.

This is one of the most confident guys that I have ever met and he is loud and very confident with the opposite sex. He constantly talks to other girls and is able to be friends normally with them. He even flirts with some.

However, with me, he is super shy and quiet and he can’t be friends with me normally. He is so cold and detached yet at the same time he is always at my rescue.

Someone, help me crack his code.
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Posted by brandnewtothishehe
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What is your sign?
Capricorn Sun, Scorpio Moon, Capricorn Venus, Leo Ascendant.

He’s Aquarius Sun, Virgo Moon, Aquarius Venus, and I don’t know his Ascendant.
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I love this sun pairing. Seen it too many irl.

I don't have much luck with cap women tho.

I agree with pinkbird above. Try joking with him when you guys talk 😛
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Hear me out on this one, it was probably a stupid question but we're observers and a lot of my kind don't really make a move until we're certain (well most of the time anyway, I'm a special case because I'm retarded). I also don't generally befriend someone I have a genuine interest in or maybe you're just a 'concept' to him. He likes the idea of liking you but not actually liking you.

Food for thought. Yeah yeah I know I just gave you two conflicting ideas.
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brandnewtothishehe
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Posted by aquasnoz
Hear me out on this one, it was probably a stupid question but we're observers and a lot of my kind don't really make a move until we're certain (well most of the time anyway, I'm a special case because I'm retarded). I also don't generally befriend someone I have a genuine interest in or maybe you're just a 'concept' to him. He likes the idea of liking you but not actually liking you.

Food for thought. Yeah yeah I know I just gave you two conflicting ideas.
I doubt that I’m just a concept to him, because this isn’t something fresh. This has been going on for a while.

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Posted by brandnewtothishehe

Despite all of this though, he can’t talk to me like a normal human being. He won’t approach me and when I approach him, he speaks in a really awkward way and looks at anything or anyone but me.

This is one of the most confident guys that I have ever met and he is loud and very confident with the opposite sex. He constantly talks to other girls and is able to be friends normally with them. He even flirts with some.
He likes you, but hard to believe an Aqua who's popular with girls can get so intimidated by one, no matter how much he likes her. Doesn't make sense. He even 'flirts' with some doesnt mean he's a player. Seems to me rather the kind of Aqua who's friends with girls, the friend, not the lover.



However, with me, he is super shy and quiet and he can’t be friends with me normally. He is so cold and detached yet at the same time he is always at my rescue.

Someone, help me crack his code.
He likes you & maybe he likes helping a damsel in distress (are you a ''special case''? a ''cause''?), but he s definitely into you, wants to see you naked & everything

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No, he doesn’t help any random girl. He doesn’t even defend his friends. He only defends me, even over something very minuscule. He can’t talk to me directly, but he’s told off more people than I can count on my fingers for me. He always looks out for me.

How can I pursue him and get this rolling?