Help please? Aquarious and Pisces or.... (Page 2)

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I feel this might be a rebound, but I'm not all that sure. They're rather close and already going to eachother's houses. That can be the fact that she might have a hard time going from completely intimate to completely single. But I am not sure. This guy will defiantly not let her go so easy, he was mad that she chose me over him back in sophomore year when he tried to get us to break up. That jerk, he's probably happy he got his wish in the end. e_e

All honesty, I don't think she would want to be friends. Her saying that and the whole "It doesn't matter to me if we are friends are not" thing kinda blew my eyebrows off. One day I was the glimmer of light in her life suddenly I'm just a pebble on the ground. Or like a prized childhood toy that's being thrown away.

Aw shucks, well thank you. I kind of grew up fast in a way, my mentality and so forth. My childhood up bringing wasn't the best, and some of the worst things that happened to me, well, they made me insightful and thoughtful.

As for her being flighty... She has a decent amount of friends, but as for close friends, I really have no idea. I was the one she told all her problems and so forth too. Maybe 2 others, including this guy. But yeah... She's very emotional, doesn't take physical or mental pain well at all. A foot cramp or a paper cut can be the same to her as me being stabbed in the thigh; she has extremely low tolerance for pain. She needs that protection and guidance. She has difficulty making decisions, can fall into peer pressure easily, rather gullible, emotional, etc. And even though she did utterly crush my soul, I do wish her luck, health and happiness. I know how hard the real world is, and I fear her dreamland thinking will get her hurt and used, not everyone is going to be nice to her.

I understand where your coming from with the "best friend" ideals. I've been told a lot that she doesn't even deserve a nice attitude from me. But it isn't me to go out of my way and try and make someone miserable. She is child-like. I'll be civil, it isn't me to go on how much I hate this this and that. Yeah, I keep thinking "I should've done this, we should've done that, why didn't this happen, why did that happen", but that's all me over analyzing things. Like I stated above, she will realize what the real world is like, and she will grow up in these aspects, it's just I wonder how she will handle it all. I doubt she wants to be more than friends again, even more so as fri

as friends, but then again, she said she would never break up with me. Funny how the world works.

Posted by HazardousWalk
But yeah... She's very emotional, doesn't take physical or mental pain well at all. A foot cramp or a paper cut can be the same to her as me being stabbed in the thigh; she has extremely low tolerance for pain. She needs that protection and guidance. She has difficulty making decisions, can fall into peer pressure easily, rather gullible, emotional, etc. And even though she did utterly crush my soul, I do wish her luck, health and happiness. I know how hard the real world is, and I fear her dreamland thinking will get her hurt and used, not everyone is going to be nice to her.

She is child-like. I'll be civil, it isn't me to go on how much I hate this this and that.

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This girl SO reminds me of my Pisces cousin/good friend. Child-like is a good descriptor (again, shows a lot of insight). At first I used to think she was making a fuss for the attention, but then I realized she was just that hypersensitive that it really did impact her that much. As much as I want to be down on this girl, you're right, considering the circumstances, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. More to the point, I had a not-so-perfect childhood as well, and being dealt with cruelly when you are a child or are child-like is particularly hard. She sounds like she'd just break in half if she were actually dealt the sort of treatment an adult would receive. It's probably enough that you're leaving her alone to be bruised and battered (I mean, it will happen, no one can protect us from everything) on her own, or else to the arms of one protector after another, until she gets tired of shuffling herself around. When you think about it this way, she is already something of a burden to herself.

Hope you're feeling better about your situation.

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It has officially been a month. It's so akward being in class like this, geez.

But I'm doing better, there's not much I can really do unfortunatly =/ She wants nothing to do with me, which for some reason makes me think that she actually wants too. I don't know, I get some feeling that she actually wants my presence around.

Or that she broke up irrationally, but of course I really will never know.

I'll give her some space, maybe in a month or two I'll attempt a talk or something. Her birthday is next month, So I may make a quick sketch, art was my thing and I always made her art work.

Posted by HazardousWalk
Her birthday is next month

Is she a Decan III Pisces (between March 12-20)? If she is serious gunning for the perfect imitation of some (former) friends. Just curious.

So I may make a quick sketch, art was my thing and I always made her art work.

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That is so sweet, I teared up a little 🙂 Truly.

Her birthday is march 6th. I actually have all 3 of our charts up on here, it's on the first page if your curious about it (I myself don't know how to read charts rofl)
But I'm confused on your 2nd sentence :
"If she is serious gunning for the perfect imitation of some (former) friends. Just curious."
Maybe I'm brainfarting but I don't understand 😢

🙂 aww *gives tissue* we loved Pokemon, so maybe I'll make a charmander and squirtle painting!! hizza!!

I still want her back...grrr.... darn my stubbornness

Her birthday is march 6th. I actually have all 3 of our charts up on here, it's on the first page if your curious about it (I myself don't know how to read charts rofl)
But I'm confused on your 2nd sentence :
"If she is serious gunning for the perfect imitation of some (former) friends. Just curious."
Maybe I'm brainfarting but I don't understand 😢

🙂 aww *gives tissue* we loved Pokemon, so maybe I'll make a charmander and squirtle painting!! hizza!!

I still want her back...grrr.... darn my stubbornness

lol, my post misformatted and left some words out. I meant if she was a Decan III, she'd seriously be just like some former friends of mine. But it looks like she's Decan II, which is certainly surprising (to me). That's the Cancerian decan and you wouldn't expect the total lack of feeling (being an operative word for Cancer) she seems to have demonstrated. Really weird.

Oh lol
I think I probably will just have to give up on her unfortunatly, there isn't much I can do it seems. I just want closure, that's all. Another chance? sure, but I feel I won't get it

I think... Maybe I should just do NC. For a while. I really don't know what to do with this... My whole mind and body is drained and tired. I miss her, feel like crap. Then I'm ok. Then I'm not. I'm not purposely thinking of her, but I hear a song, or a word, or see an object or action and my mind goes back to it all.
I don't feel I have the closure I needed. I don't understand her reasonings, or her actions. Why it happened. I asked twice, at the break up and sunday, but she won't talk about it.

*smashes head on table*

Posted by HazardousWalk
I think... Maybe I should just do NC. For a while. I really don't know what to do with this... My whole mind and body is drained and tired. I miss her, feel like crap. Then I'm ok. Then I'm not. I'm not purposely thinking of her, but I hear a song, or a word, or see an object or action and my mind goes back to it all.
I don't feel I have the closure I needed. I don't understand her reasonings, or her actions. Why it happened. I asked twice, at the break up and sunday, but she won't talk about it.

*smashes head on table*

Eesh, just in time for Valentine's, huh? I'm sorry, my dear. We should have a big "Disappointment on Valentine's Day" party. Maybe we can get tbird to join us if she's game.

oh yeah, definatly e_e I wish i was in that girls head, she's contridicting herself lol

ohh, let's invite her then 😛 haha

Are you kidding me?! Of course I'm game... hell I have a sash already lol

ohhhh yeaaaaaaah!!! 😆 ROFL I need one *puts one on*

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Posted by HazardousWalk
Hey guys! I'm an Aqua girl, who dated a Pisces girl for the last 3 1/2 years of my life. We are high school seniors,and have been dating since October 2008 until January 2012.
She broke up with me on the 13th of January. And now she is dating a Sag boy.... They started dating on the 14th.
The break up was sudden, we were talking about college and the future just nights before hand. She left me saying it would never work, I don't keep her happy...

Just curious, do Aqua and Pisc make a better match or Sag and Pisc?

*I'm more focused on what pairing is better, not which gender goes with which please.

Worry more about your college ?
Hooking up with someone a day later after 3 1/2 yrs to me comes across with a certain degree of premeditation so I think making sure your studies/results come out alright should take priority.

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yeah I understand this now =/ I get the idea she wanted out for a while, but she led me on about it.
I'm focusing more on college now

Posted by aquaj
Good for you, HazardousWalk! I wish you all the best. I know heartbreak is devastating but we DO get past it.

C: Thank you!!

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by HazardousWalk

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by HazardousWalk
Hey guys! I'm an Aqua girl, who dated a Pisces girl for the last 3 1/2 years of my life. We are high school seniors,and have been dating since October 2008 until January 2012.
She broke up with me on the 13th of January. And now she is dating a Sag boy.... They started dating on the 14th.
The break up was sudden, we were talking about college and the future just nights before hand. She left me saying it would never work, I don't keep her happy...

Just curious, do Aqua and Pisc make a better match or Sag and Pisc?

*I'm more focused on what pairing is better, not which gender goes with which please.

Worry more about your college ?
Hooking up with someone a day later after 3 1/2 yrs to me comes across with a certain degree of premeditation so I think making sure your studies/results come out alright should take priority.

yeah I understand this now =/ I get the idea she wanted out for a while, but she led me on about it.
I'm focusing more on college now

What a bitch, srs (I think that's a more than fair assumption 🙂 )
Good that you're focusing on college either way.

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lol, just considering she already started dating the next day, yeah she probably was hiding stuff behidn my back =/
but still, she was like "oh I love you so much, i cant wait for college" the day before... ughghg This just sucks really bad

🙂 yeah, I'm probably going to be dormin on compus, in the city, so it'll be cool

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ouch, tough break. Easier in the long run though I guess.

yeah I agree