Aquarius + Leo =?

Hi everybody!
So, how is an aquarius/leo match? Would it work out....or is it doomed? lol.
If anyone has been in a match like this or known anyone in this match- Did it work? What were the pros/cons?
I am currently interested in this Aquarius guy & he has made it known he's interested too. Things haven't moved forward bc of me...just a little cautious, I guess.

P.S.

My placements:
Sun-Leo
Moon-Cancer
Rising-Aquarius
Venus-Cancer

His placements:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon-Virgo
Rising-Gemini
Venus-Capricorn

You'd be like the chewy centre and he'd be the hard frozen chocolate when you leave a chocolate in the freezer.

Posted by starwars
i feel like aqua males-leo females combo is less worse than aqua fem-leo males. yes offense

less worse? I'm going to confiscate your virgo license

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Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by starwars
i feel like aqua males-leo females combo is less worse than aqua fem-leo males. yes offense

less worse? I'm going to confiscate your virgo license

LOL im being mutable using little to no sense nor grammar while being im in the Aqua board 😛

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haha I like your way of thinkethness

what's your mars and his? you left that out.

It can work, yes.

You both need a lot of maturity and probably some good astrological aspects that temper each of your own egos though.

Posted by Koniucha
Sure, why not

New DXP-ism? 😛

Hi Starwars =)
When you mention intense attraction....is that a good thing?

As my Aqua sun, Pisces moon bro says: "Not the best match, but not the worst either".

He's married to a Leo sun, cancer moon like yourself.

Hi Busyeyes88 =)
That is very interesting you mention the space thing. This Aquarius guy disappears on me randomly, but not for too long maybe a few days....that's why I haven't moved forward. In the beginning of our friendship or interaction, it used to bother me a lot, but I never said anything mainly bc I think I have no right to since I always reject his advances. I just decided to act the same way he did with me. So, I created space too. Now, when he drifts....I don't take it badly anymore. I've gotten used to it. When he returns, I never ask him what happened. Mostly bc....I don't want to know lol. I don't want him to say anything I might not like. I guess, I'm sensitive lol. Tbh, when I drift from him....he becomes needy. He'll ask me 'did you miss me' or stuff like that. I wonder if that means he misses me too? Idk. lol.

Posted by smiles_247
Hi everybody!
So, how is an aquarius/leo match? Would it work out....or is it doomed? lol.
If anyone has been in a match like this or known anyone in this match- Did it work? What were the pros/cons?
I am currently interested in this Aquarius guy & he has made it known he's interested too. Things haven't moved forward bc of me...just a little cautious, I guess.

P.S.

My placements:
Sun-Leo
Moon-Cancer
Rising-Aquarius
Venus-Cancer

His placements:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon-Virgo
Rising-Gemini
Venus-Capricorn

My aqua's ex wife is a Leo. They were married about 8 years. Of course, I only get his side of the story and that is too much drama and she was bad with money and lied about what she spent, hid bills and didn't pay them timely. From what I've pieced together from what he said she complained about, I have a feeling he didn't give her enough attention.

I know another aqua male who is divorced from a Leo. Married about ten years. She had an affair. He still loved her and went back twice to try to make it work. Last I heard it didn't work out.

Sorry to post negative examples. 😢

Hi truecap =)
Thx for the input! No problem with negative examples lol. I prefer them because I might know the potential cons and learn how to approach a potential situation with this Aquarius guy. Since you are dating an Aquarius guy, are they typically a bit detached or aloof?

I've been with mine for 20+years. But I think we are rare.

We have some really great inter chart aspects and some incredibly lousy ones.

I don't doubt that there are better matches, but IME this one has been the most challenging and most rewarding.

Hey sultrykitty =)
What are the challenging aspects of being with an Aquarius male? And rewarding ones?

Posted by smiles_247
Hey sultrykitty =)
What are the challenging aspects of being with an Aquarius male? And rewarding ones?

Challenges: Adjusting to the amount of space needed and lack of overt affection (no PDA, not a big snuggler, ambitious but not a "go getter"), fairly passive about what bothers him about others but comfortable complaining about what bothers him about me. Being more outgoung and "happy" around friends (the mask) and being subdued and serious around me (real). Not being as concerned or aggressive about money issues unless they're directly his issues. Not so much "partners" as being two individuals whose personal lives connect on an intimate level at times.

Rewards: knowing that he's absolutely committed to me and our relationship (no trust issues), learning how to experience life in a carefree, innocent way. Knowing that I'm the only woman who he feels comfortable letting see the real him. Having a best friend who enjoys the same weird things I do. Knowing that if I get fat, old, and wrinkly, he's still goung to think I'm the sexiest woman in the world. Having someone around who can literally fix ANYTHING and do it right (this is more important than I thought it would be). Knowing that he will do ANYTHING to protect me and keep me safe.

Your cancer venus plus leo sun need looots of nurturing, attention etc.

Aqua with cap venus plus virgo moon will care for you and will nurture you but not like u need it. We provide food, money etc to show we love u. We take on responsibility to show that we r trustworthy. We arent into grand gestures and throwing attention ur way.

My experiences with a leo sun incl. 3 other leo positions. He needed too much attention. He played all the time and made me give him attention. Mainly because he pissed me off lol but yeh... wondering why I didnt get any gray hair.

I've been with a Leo before he was my high school captain but hooked up after high school and he didn't remember me.... we always met up on Christmas holidays because he worked far away. first time we hooked up we had sex 3 times that night and tried to do it again but fell asleep, he was a really nice guy but he just finished uni and was becoming a teacher and I was a trash bag going clubbing all the time and living a crazy life and I never felt like I could talk about my life to him, he was so freAking boring, his favourite colours were brown and orange and he's a history teacher for.ducks.sake. Mind you I've recently decided I love history....Anyways there was this one instance where I wanted to marry him, I briefly mentioned to him that I liked astrology but didn't want to divulge to this.educated.man about my bogus findings, he bought me a solid glass cube.with an Aquarius man lazered into the middle randomly...my love language is.gifts and woah boy did.He speak it that moment, I felt like dobbie from Harry potter because. I appreciate people who are observant and think about me, he's.got a.girlfriend.now, he loved to talk about.himself.a lot so I guess he found a.woman to put up with him haha

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Posted by smiles_247
Hi everybody!
So, how is an aquarius/leo match? Would it work out....or is it doomed? lol.
If anyone has been in a match like this or known anyone in this match- Did it work? What were the pros/cons?
I am currently interested in this Aquarius guy & he has made it known he's interested too. Things haven't moved forward bc of me...just a little cautious, I guess.

P.S.

My placements:
Sun-Leo
Moon-Cancer
Rising-Aquarius
Venus-Cancer

His placements:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon-Virgo
Rising-Gemini
Venus-Capricorn

My aqua's ex wife is a Leo. They were married about 8 years. Of course, I only get his side of the story and that is too much drama and she was bad with money and lied about what she spent, hid bills and didn't pay them timely. From what I've pieced together from what he said she complained about, I have a feeling he didn't give her enough attention.

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sounds like she likes to spend too much money, more than what they have.

women (no matter the sign) who have champagne and luxury tastes need to marry billionaires.

Posted by aquarius09
As my Aqua sun, Pisces moon bro says: "Not the best match, but not the worst either".

He's married to a Leo sun, cancer moon like yourself.

abraham lincoln, aqua sun/cap moon married a sag sun/cancer moon.

seeing lincoln's chart, no wonder he married and was so highly attracted to her. he was watery too.

Posted by sultrykitty
I've been with mine for 20+years. But I think we are rare.

We have some really great inter chart aspects and some incredibly lousy ones.

I don't doubt that there are better matches, but IME this one has been the most challenging and most rewarding.

i've only seen leo sun males with aqua sun females in celebrities and long term and happy too.

but i'm gonna research and find if there are leo sun females and aqua sun males long term. I'm very sure there are plenty out there. I just dont know any personally.

the two leo sun females i know in real life are with Pisces sun and Virgo sun.

i need to find out my cousin's husband's bday. lol

r /> well charts are fine, and there's some attraction it seems. and a pull...

but most importantly...and the most BASIC. is ....are you both FUNDAMENTALLY suited for eachother long term?? once you get past that, you'll be fine.

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Posted by starwars
i feel like aqua males-leo females combo is less worse than aqua fem-leo males. yes offense

less worse? I'm going to confiscate your virgo license

LOL im being mutable using little to no sense nor grammar while being im in the Aqua board 😛

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i swear you feel less earthy to me, if anything. you are very idealistic.

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Posted by aquasnoz

Posted by starwars
i feel like aqua males-leo females combo is less worse than aqua fem-leo males. yes offense

less worse? I'm going to confiscate your virgo license

LOL im being mutable using little to no sense nor grammar while being im in the Aqua board 😛

i swear you feel less earthy to me, if anything. you are very idealistic.

thatd make sense cause i have more water than earth in my chart.
idealistic? isnt that an earthy trait?

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dont play with me.

you know that's an airy trait. and also watery.

you know why i thought that?? because of some of the things you write on here on dxp.

like "shipping" and i thought to myself, the only people that don't base stuff on REALITY are usually watery/airy dominants.

you have this notion of HOW a pairing should act, do and be.

and it's like no one is that PERFECT ...like some kind of idealistic view, not based on real relationship.

EDIT remember, my husband is virgo dominant. and i'm also earth dominant.

you dont sound like a virgo at all in my opinion.

even Alyssa Sharpe, being Libra sun, has virgo venus/virgo mars, taurus moon and she is more realistic than you.

it sounds like you're more Libra than Alyssa Sharpe.

http://nuclear.ucdavis.edu/~rpicha/personal/astrology/

Libra
sep 24-oct 23

Diplomatic and urbane
Romantic and charming
Easygoing and sociable
Idealistic and peaceable

Indecisive and changeable
Gullible and easily influenced
Flirtatious and self-indulgent

Posted by starwars
ouch

it's not an insult. lol

just that you seem incredibly idealistic.

embrace that.

Posted by smiles_247
Hi truecap =)
Thx for the input! No problem with negative examples lol. I prefer them because I might know the potential cons and learn how to approach a potential situation with this Aquarius guy. Since you are dating an Aquarius guy, are they typically a bit detached or aloof?

Yes, detached and aloof. I am too, though to a smaller extent. You get used to it and learn that's it's not about you. Once you figure that out, it won't bother you.

Posted by sultrykitty

Posted by smiles_247
Hey sultrykitty =)
What are the challenging aspects of being with an Aquarius male? And rewarding ones?

Challenges: Adjusting to the amount of space needed and lack of overt affection (no PDA, not a big snuggler, ambitious but not a "go getter"), fairly passive about what bothers him about others but comfortable complaining about what bothers him about me. Being more outgoung and "happy" around friends (the mask) and being subdued and serious around me (real). Not being as concerned or aggressive about money issues unless they're directly his issues. Not so much "partners" as being two individuals whose personal lives connect on an intimate level at times.

Rewards: knowing that he's absolutely committed to me and our relationship (no trust issues), learning how to experience life in a carefree, innocent way. Knowing that I'm the only woman who he feels comfortable letting see the real him. Having a best friend who enjoys the same weird things I do. Knowing that if I get fat, old, and wrinkly, he's still goung to think I'm the sexiest woman in the world. Having someone around who can literally fix ANYTHING and do it right (this is more important than I thought it would be). Knowing that he will do ANYTHING to protect me and keep me safe.

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Yes, I agree. Perfectly said.

Posted by leow31
My least favorite match for us leos.

I'd date a cancer/taurus before I'd date an Aqua..... and that's just pure craziness.

well we know you're into Scorpios,

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by leow31
My least favorite match for us leos.

I'd date a cancer/taurus before I'd date an Aqua..... and that's just pure craziness.

well we know you're into Scorpios,

What's wrong with Scorpios? 🙂

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lol

absolutely nothing at all.

Posted by starwars
@lisabethur8

LOL im realistic, i do have spirtual side too. dont take what i say in her too literally im usually messing around while dxping 😛
i do have other factors in my chart that effect the way i am like mercury in libra and rising in aqua and maybe thats the side youve noticed of me, but believe me im a virgo 🙂

lol ok.

messing around? that might be your libra merc.

my aqua rising cousins dont mess around, they are way too serious. (they are Scorpio dominant probably why)

and my cap merc is too serious. so maybe that's the clash. the squaring merc.

also maybe what houses you have or your merc aspects.

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Posted by aquarius09
As my Aqua sun, Pisces moon bro says: "Not the best match, but not the worst either".

He's married to a Leo sun, cancer moon like yourself.

abraham lincoln, aqua sun/cap moon married a sag sun/cancer moon.

seeing lincoln's chart, no wonder he married and was so highly attracted to her. he was watery too.

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Yep! Watery aquas are different from air aquas. Sometimes he's such a doormat that I feel like smacking him. My Aqua sun and Pisces moon bro is sooo adorable though. Naive too. I feel like wrapping him in a blanket and protecting him from the bad wolves out there. He fears and avoid conflicts like a libra. He has no libra placements though. Must be the Venus in Pisces as well as moon.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by aquarius09
As my Aqua sun, Pisces moon bro says: "Not the best match, but not the worst either".

He's married to a Leo sun, cancer moon like yourself.

abraham lincoln, aqua sun/cap moon married a sag sun/cancer moon.

seeing lincoln's chart, no wonder he married and was so highly attracted to her. he was watery too.

Yep! Watery aquas are different from air aquas. Sometimes he's such a doormat that I feel like smacking him. My Aqua sun and Pisces moon bro is sooo adorable though. Naive too. I feel like wrapping him in a blanket and protecting him from the bad wolves out there. He fears and avoid conflicts like a libra. He has no libra placements though. Must be the Venus in Pisces as well as moon.

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Jokes on you! We are the wolves 😄

Posted by smiles_247
Hi everybody!
So, how is an aquarius/leo match? Would it work out....or is it doomed? lol.
If anyone has been in a match like this or known anyone in this match- Did it work? What were the pros/cons?
I am currently interested in this Aquarius guy & he has made it known he's interested too. Things haven't moved forward bc of me...just a little cautious, I guess.

P.S.

My placements:
Sun-Leo
Moon-Cancer
Rising-Aquarius
Venus-Cancer

His placements:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon-Virgo
Rising-Gemini
Venus-Capricorn

It can definitely work but like any relationship it'll have it's ups and downs. I know happy couples irl with these sun combos.

I also dated Leo men in the past and the timing was just not good for me to settle down like they wanted because I was really young and trying to establish a career. Anyway, opposites can either provide friction or balance. It all depends. Just go with the flow. 😉

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Posted by aquarius09
As my Aqua sun, Pisces moon bro says: "Not the best match, but not the worst either".

He's married to a Leo sun, cancer moon like yourself.

abraham lincoln, aqua sun/cap moon married a sag sun/cancer moon.

seeing lincoln's chart, no wonder he married and was so highly attracted to her. he was watery too.

Yep! Watery aquas are different from air aquas. Sometimes he's such a doormat that I feel like smacking him. My Aqua sun and Pisces moon bro is sooo adorable though. Naive too. I feel like wrapping him in a blanket and protecting him from the bad wolves out there. He fears and avoid conflicts like a libra. He has no libra placements though. Must be the Venus in Pisces as well as moon.

Jokes on you! We are the wolves 😄

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Yeah, the lone wolf maybe, but that's it. LOL

abraham lincoln had libra mars, aqua09, but it's in the 8th house.

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Posted by OceanBoy88
I know two couples Leo male and Aqua female. Both couples started off amazing but now they are both in a rut and just together for the hell of it. One of the couples are extremely close to @FutureSeeker. Guy is confrontational, not caring to work, and lives off her. The other is complete opposite. Guy does everything, works hard, and just wants her to take care of her physical health. Both are not working out but are still together sadly.

There has been a lot of talk about this dynamic but at the end of the day they are just too different. I hear it always starts good but then slowly implodes with time. I think being friends is fine.

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i thought you were in love with gemini women??

😕

go over there and fawn over them. 😛

we need to get you your OWN woman, grey.

someday hopefully you will be with someone and you can post on here and talk about how you love her.

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Posted by OceanBoy88
I know two couples Leo male and Aqua female. Both couples started off amazing but now they are both in a rut and just together for the hell of it. One of the couples are extremely close to @FutureSeeker. Guy is confrontational, not caring to work, and lives off her. The other is complete opposite. Guy does everything, works hard, and just wants her to take care of her physical health. Both are not working out but are still together sadly.

There has been a lot of talk about this dynamic but at the end of the day they are just too different. I hear it always starts good but then slowly implodes with time. I think being friends is fine.

i thought you were in love with gemini women??

😕

go over there and fawn over them. 😛

we need to get you your OWN woman, grey.

someday hopefully you will be with someone and you can post on here and talk about how you love her.

i am on 2 year break from women. and lol you sound kinda angry.

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but a 2 year break from women. 😕 wow. you are a TOUGH one.

was just reading some news. Ok ok. the celebrity parts caught my eye.

and i didnt know that Lady Gaga was abused.
https://gma.yahoo.com/lady-gagas-family-reacted-her-oscars-performance-150547928--abc-news-celebrities.html#

Stars and survivors of sexual abuse have been speaking out about Lady Gaga's emotional performance at the Oscars this past Sunday, but her family is also reacting.

Gaga performed the Oscar-nominated song "Til It Happens To You" alongside 50 sexual abuse survivors. The Grammy winner has been open about her sexual assault and her recovery. The theme of her performance was to raise awareness and remove the stigma that abuse victims often feel.

Read: The Stories Behind the Sexual Assault Survivors in Lady Gaga's Oscars Performance

Related: Lady Gaga on Fiance Taylor Kinney: 'He Loves the Survivor in Me'

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.Gaga touched on this theme when she spoke about a moment she shared with her grandmother and aunt the day after the show.

"My grandmother and my Aunt Sheri both called me the day after the Oscars because I never told them I was a survivor. I was too ashamed," she said. "Too afraid. And it took me a long time to even admit it to myself because I'm Catholic and I knew it was evil but I thought it was my fault. I thought it was my fault for ten years."

Gaga said she spoke to her grandmother Ronnie on Monday morning and "with tears in her eyes I could he

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Posted by OceanBoy88
I know two couples Leo male and Aqua female. Both couples started off amazing but now they are both in a rut and just together for the hell of it. One of the couples are extremely close to @FutureSeeker. Guy is confrontational, not caring to work, and lives off her. The other is complete opposite. Guy does everything, works hard, and just wants her to take care of her physical health. Both are not working out but are still together sadly.

There has been a lot of talk about this dynamic but at the end of the day they are just too different. I hear it always starts good but then slowly implodes with time. I think being friends is fine.

i thought you were in love with gemini women??

😕

go over there and fawn over them. 😛

we need to get you your OWN woman, grey.

someday hopefully you will be with someone and you can post on here and talk about how you love her.

i am on 2 year break from women. and lol you sound kinda angry.

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my husband has leo energy.

and we're both pretty boring and traditional.
but the other day he lols and tells me about how since he's been with me, it's NEVER a dull moment.

I thought to myself...what?? what is he talking about?? 😕

we are both boring and homebodies!!!

and it's the things i do. apparantly. i'm even ashamed to say it. lmao

but even his colleagues at work guffaw at my antics.

it's all harmless i know and i just smile. i'm deeply ashamed that i dont even know what i did. lol until he told me all the things..

EDIT i dont feel like sharing what the antics are....

but you can use your imagination.

Aqua and Leo is what presided on the surface, beneath we have different elements, qualities and polarity...

You might be a Leo which is a fire sign but you may have a shit load of water in other parts that makes you more a water sign and aqua don't always get along with water

Lol

*shugs*

I just met a Leo who's just the right kind of playful and fiesty and lets me spoil her the way I want to.