how do aquarius men flirt? plz help! stange situ.

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Ok so im in a strange situation.... The man im with has a cousin who is aquarius. He comes over all the time and he loves to pick on me like a third grader lol. But i have a great sense of humor and enjoy our tit for tat banters. Sometimes we will text eachother funny things. Am i just a friend or does he feel a connection with me? But doesnt say anything bc im with his cousin?? Im a cancer but my venus is in gemini. Any help would be great
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Posted by aquasnoz
pisces venus usually just love anything. To the point they don't even know what they are loving, they just do it.

Also no, I'd say as long as you don't entertain the idea, keeping it friendly, it won't escalate beyond that.
http://neptunes-aura-astrology.com/2014/05/25/venus-in-pisces-male/


Venus in Pisces male


Venus in Pisces needs a partner who is capable of giving their all to their relationship.



Venus in Pisces needs a partner with whom they can both strip away the layers of who they were until they find the real authentic self. They require a partner who is willing to go through this process with them, willing to let go of all the emotional baggage they hold as part of their bonding process they want to grow and evolve into their purest ideals as part of a couple. They are looking for someone who relates intuitive who connects on the deepest emotional levels and who is willing to strip away all the barriers they have erected and merge emotionally and spiritually. They require a lover that responds completely and intuitively on an emotional level.

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since you're pisces venus/pisces mars (and i don't know what house)

Venus in Pisces Mars in Pisces,

needs a lover who is intuitive, sensitive, empathic, authentic, and very responsive to their expressions of affection. They are attracted to strong water in the natal chart. This is due to the need to express their deep sexual undercurrents with a partner who understands their need to merge as one. They need a partner who has a wide and varied experience in relationships. They are very adaptable in their sexual expression and prefer a partner with the same quality


from the site above.
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Posted by helenthelion
Ok so im in a strange situation.... The man im with has a cousin who is aquarius. He comes over all the time and he loves to pick on me like a third grader lol. But i have a great sense of humor and enjoy our tit for tat banters. Sometimes we will text eachother funny things. Am i just a friend or does he feel a connection with me? But doesnt say anything bc im with his cousin?? Im a cancer but my venus is in gemini. Any help would be great
what's your chart?

water connects to water.....which is why.
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Yeah a wee bit like that.

Unfortunately this is where I have to say depending on other placements the tendency to 'swim away' or be fearful after that initial bonding fails, the aqua (or any sun sign with the placement) will just give up and brick themselves behind this way. I was like this and it's still hard not to just shut myself off.

I think too many people are afraid to express themselves emotionally (which I thought was always the norm) and it really scares some people at how open we can be when we do bond.
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Posted by WaterBearerer
lol i think you secretly like this aqua guy cuz hes clearly not flirting with you
+1. Just to add, he's being a typical guy testing his boundaries/seeing how far he can take his cousin's gf. He probably wouldn't hook up with you because that means screwing his cousin/family/friend (?) over for a chick. If you leave his COUSIN for him, he will not respect you because:

a) it will cause some serious insecurities/judgement from him for you "what kind of girl is she? Left my cousinfor me and tomorrow will leave me for some next dude that flirts with her" or

b) out of respect and family relations with his cousin. He wouldn't want to alienate his family. If this cousin is also a friend to him, then he's definitely not trying to get with you because we aquas hold our family and friends in high regard. He's just having fun while seeing how far he can take you and YOUR expense.
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Lol young aquarians better stay away unless they are mature enough to date. Hmm given that Aquarians eccentric nature hes probably not gonna settle down unless he is old enough or he found a woman he really love. I dont think its easy for them to find a woman who can accept their ever changing behavior haha, you have got to be really accomodative to do so but once they do Love, they are the most generous & loyal lover with full freedom for his other half due to the trust he has in you.

Everyone is different though as hes influenced by other stars & horoscopes but to make an aquarius fall in love with someone shouldnt be easy. Rarely find a woman that impresses me because we can see fake stuff & it really turns us off. Be aa NATURAL & aa real aa possible. Theres always 2 faces: social & real self. I can see genuine self amidst the smile, i dont know about others. If i see any discrepancy i am not gonn have gd feelings for u.
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Oh i forget to mention Aquarians indeed flirt with all girls, somehow boost their ego because they can feel people like them so they wanna play with u a bit but not hurting u. He is gonna be considerate & stuff but its normal he should be like that to all people so do not misunderstood his intention for u unless your really sure haha. Anyway good luck to you, if you can catch him i think aquarians make a great partner. Good luck to you.