How do you treat best friends/ppl close to you?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by xleo on Wednesday, June 26, 2013 and has 3 replies.

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@xleo
13 Years

Like... do you get bored of a relationship? What do you do if a relationship means a lot to you? What do you expect of an ideal partner? How would you treat ppl close to you?

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@xleo
13 Years

Thanks for the replies, I really appreciate them.

I noticed as well - an Aquarius I know seems to fleet from person to person... but then somehow it seems like they're not really devaluating the friendship.

But sometimes I just can't help but wonder if she has 'moved on'... you know?

Do aquarius people really stay friends forever, or do you have moments of 'moving on' once you've dissected a friend's mystery?

The aqua I know of says she treats people like cities. She wants to explore every single part of the city so that she fully understands the culture, etc. In order words... the stories and the personality of a person?

It's like... I've given so much of my own personal stories to her. I'm just afraid that if I run out of 'mysteries' to share with her, she might just detach and go in search of another person to dissect... you know what i mean?

But it's kind of true that they really do bare their all to people they are close to. It's just the validation that leaves me wondering about stuff.

Don't get me wrong - I'm actually really logical for a Leo, and while I do act with my emotions, I still check them at bay using logic. It's just that this absence... doesn't seem to validate whether i'm best friends with her. lol, not sure if you know what i mean.

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@RaeofSun
13 Years

I'm loyal to a fault, once I've committed to that friendship, I'm in it for life. So long as that friend doesn't betray my trust, or hurt me badly enough that I can't recover. I'm pretty forgiving and get over most anything, but some times there are things that I can't bounce back from, regardless of how hard I try or want to.

I don't get bored of a friendship, I don't move on from it or find someone better. However, I am just as good of a friend to anyone, if they prove worthy, which isn't always the case.

I once thought I found a friend that was loyal and gave as much as I did, but my vision was clouded with love. Now that I see clearly, it was more of a one way street, I the giver and he the taker.

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@RaeofSun
13 Years

Oh, and if that friend continues to take without giving anything back, I eventually run out of myself to give... I need fuel as well, not a lot, but some, and I fade myself out of that persons life. I can only give so much, but for there is nothing left.