Advice from the Aquarius folks out there. There was this Aquarius guy (FYI we're both gay). Long story short: everything was going great last year. We were getting close to dating, but then he started getting busy and would only hang out with this one girl over me all the time. The only time we ended up hanging out much was in his bedroom, that's it. Sometimes outside here and there but soon dragged me into meeting up with this girl continuously. Which is fine, but I'm someone that also likes to spend quality time alone with someone - cancer guy here. It was also during a hard time for me too, stress level high, the world around me was falling apart and then I just kept feeling like I'm just going to be in last place on his list. Finally I told him we should get some space and gave him the reasons. The only thing I said that really ticked him off was that it looked like he could be making out with this girl in the backseat of a car (saying I insulted her which wasn't my intention. She just clung to his arms and stuff as if they were dating). From then he grew distant, and called it officially off from me. But then next semester we met up a few times but in the end he never cared that much. Over the entire summer he never initiated a single conversation with me, if there was one I started it only little. (Embarrassing part he did confess - skip this if you get grossed out easily - that he always thinks of me when he finishes masturbating). Mixed feelings about that one. Now, I've seen that he's talking to someone else and by now I don't want anything to do with him. Especially I found this out over the summer. One of the times I was trying to get back with him I came to his room to ask to get lunch. He was mad but didn't say anything. Came and the entire time he sat there he never paid much attention to me. Just kept texting others. What I found out was that he was going behind my back telling others to save him from me cause he didn't want to say anything. That's why random people kept coming up and talking to us. I was already in bad standards at that time and he knew, but did it anyways making me look really bad.This was last fall. This is a big no for me as it hurt terribly when I heard this from close friends. Now The first day of school when he saw me he instantly stood near me, kept getting in my sight. I don't know if this was intentional. Then sits behind me in one of our classes. Sent me one snap. I was drunk that night so I ended up sending him two that night at least a half hour after opening it with hesitations. My question, what should I do? My instinct is to completely delete him from social media but I feel that does nothing. And something tells me not to. Ignoring him is a difficult thing to do cause he's everywhere and involved with everything I am. He's easily influenced by others. If someone talks highly of me his attitude changes compared to avoiding me when someone talks down about me.
