Hello, my Capricorn/Aquarius cusp friend have been dishonesty with on the long run and I'm absolutely fed up with his BS. As a Capricorn, I tend to collect things that I peep whether it's coming from anyone's mouth or just seeing how things move; that's what I am doing with Aquarius. I know his intentions and I know his emotionally-unavailable behavior he does not mean to hurt people unintentionally but I want him to really realize that he shouldn't do that to people like me who did took an interest and liking to him because it's one of those phrases 'you're not the only one who's hurting...'. Although in his words he finds me 'mad cool' as a person and we do crack jokes and gave each other nicknames and all that rainbows and butterflies cute ish'. But I still don't like the fact when I mention about his behavior and try to find the reasoning as suppose of why he was dishonesty with me when I'm always honest with him, he still lies. Yes, I profess that I find his reasoning 'bullshit' but honestly, there wasn't an event that occurred when I had the last straw. So, my fellow Aquarius, what would be the best advice for you to give me to confront this Cap/Aqua cusp male regarding on his emotionally unavailable behavior that does link to his ex-gf (briefly: longs to be with his ex-gf but keeps getting eff'ed over because she doesn't want to be with him. His reasoning why they broke up is because he said he couldn't do long distance relationships. But he does dread the fact that his ex (also a Capricorn) is not in his arms, so he downs himself with alcohol and is actively promiscuous on campus and uses his work to fill in the voids)? I don't want to come off aggressive, I don't want to get angry. But I just want him to have a wake up call.
How to confront an Aquarius?
The above is false. I'm an aqua and it doesnt matter how much I love you I won't listen to you if your trying to help me...especially if I already know what I'm doing. Also to call me out on my wacky behavior so you could have a possible shot at me? Even more reason to not care when you call me out.
Not all of the above. But you catch my drift.
Posted by AquaMermaidYes!
He is going through a post-break up phase. You need to realise that and give him his own time to heal.He has to get over it on his own. You liking him is not going to change anything. Isn't it a bit selfish to ask him to focus on you when he is obviously hurting from the rejection of his ex gf? Aquarius deal with pain differently than most signs do. He's indulging in promiscuity and alcohol to forget the pain. If he does get involved with you, it will be a rebound relationship. I don't think you want that. A hurting Aquarius is like a tornado. It destroys everything in it's way. Don't be rude and aggressive with him. If he wants to obsess over an ex gf, leave him to his own misery. He'll come back to his senses.If he chooses to come out of it, hang out with him and go to fun places and enjoy.
Posted by AquaMermaidThank you but I didn't mention him to 'focus on me', what I want from him is to be happy and just not be so destructive.
He is going through a post-break up phase. You need to realise that and give him his own time to heal.He has to get over it on his own. You liking him is not going to change anything. Isn't it a bit selfish to ask him to focus on you when he is obviously hurting from the rejection of his ex gf? Aquarius deal with pain differently than most signs do. He's indulging in promiscuity and alcohol to forget the pain. If he does get involved with you, it will be a rebound relationship. I don't think you want that. A hurting Aquarius is like a tornado. It destroys everything in it's way. Don't be rude and aggressive with him. If he wants to obsess over an ex gf, leave him to his own misery. He'll come back to his senses.If he chooses to come out of it, hang out with him and go to fun places and enjoy.
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