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Helplessinlove143
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Us cancer girls love these aquarius men. They give us a run for our money. I have the same problem mines just going on 10 yrs now lol very hard to tame. Scared of commitment. Playboy types. Let me know if it works out for you. I tried getting away and he refuses to let me go straight up said he can't loose me. So I'm living my life just like he is.. Trying the mirror back approach and see how he likes it lol
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cancerlady33
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This post reminds me so much of my Aqua sun, Gemini Moon, Aqua Venus man from a few years ago. Boy was it a rollercoaster! I'm surprised we lasted 2 years. Oh how I miss that confusing, frustrating witty man! I figured he just could not commit. Turns out, I just wasn't THE ONE. He's married to a nice Aries girl now with a family of his own. Even though I miss him dearly, I can honestly say that I'm happy he's found his happiness. Since knowing him, I have a new appreciation for your Aquas. I used to think you guys didn't feel emotions. Like you all were non human or something...I know, silly right? Even he had a soft and tender side that he began to show the more I got to know him.

"what a nice stroll down memory lane"



WTF? Well I applaud your maturity though. But, why string you along for so long. I thought Aquas were supposed to be painfully honest (well I guess it's all in the time he chose to be honest). Does not wanting to hurt someone's feelings take precedence or something? Sometimes I notice Aquas can be very empathetic and sympathetic but for some reason not towards their lover...?


What's your sign? And maybe I'm just not 'The One'. But I wish I knew the differences between: don't like, like, something to do to pass the time, strong like, love and The One. But over the weekend I've decided to leave him alone. But it sucks because he's been opening up as the time goes on and I don't know if this is his natural process and I don't want to shut it down before the fireworks happen but at the same time I don't want to torment myself.

With your ex's wife/gf: Do you know how long it took them to call themselves a couple?
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I'm a Scorpio. All I know is that he completely stopped talking to me one day and would not return my texts. (The last time we saw each other and spoke was in October) Unfortunately, I am a persistent person and in February I wished him a happy birthday and still no response. So I asked him what was going on and he finally sent me a text back saying "I'm sorry, I have a gf now and I didn't want to hurt you." Well, that was that. So the question is was he seeing her the whole time or while he was seeing me?
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cancerlady33
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Posted by confuseddlibra
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wow OP, I'm literally in almost the exact situation as you are with an aquarius man. message me if you ever need to talk about it. it's crazy how similar our situations are! lol just WOW



Confusedlibra HHHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP MMMEEEEEEEE! LOL



LOL i need help too! I don't know.... it's so hard. I know how you feel. It's so hard to walk away. I did it once before because I had too when he started dating someone new (we go to colleges 4 hrs apart). You probably feel the same way I do.. when i'm with him I feel like I'm high off some type of addicting drug! It's an amazing feeling! But not being with him sucks 😢. If you want to just vent or anything let me know. It's the hardest thing I've ever dealt with! I hate it.

But, it's been getting better. I've learned to not initiate anything and lower my expectations. I don't know if that's the best route. I let go of him once before and he came back. So, I don't know if that makes it harder or what. I kind of have just stopped trying and let him do everything. So far it's been working alright that way. Maybe you should do that too? It's exciting not knowing what will happen in the future but also frustrating!
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OMG YES! I love their unpredictability, their objective stances, their little nuances and their unordinary knowledge of random things! And you know what confusedlibra? I did the SAME thing multiple times and he just keeps coming back...and also keeps doing the "friend" dance. And what makes it worse is that his ways continue to put myself self respect in question...not gooooood.
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cancerlady33
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Posted by Helplessinlove143
Us cancer girls love these aquarius men. They give us a run for our money. I have the same problem mines just going on 10 yrs now lol very hard to tame. Scared of commitment. Playboy types. Let me know if it works out for you. I tried getting away and he refuses to let me go straight up said he can't loose me. So I'm living my life just like he is.. Trying the mirror back approach and see how he likes it lol



lol, girl 10 years!!!! OH SNAP! See that's the scary thing. I'm seriously wondering if this is how it is and how itll always be. And yes, he won't let you stay and get comfy or leave. I say pull that mirror out and let it shine, shine, shine. I find when I mirror him he gets real pissed and DEMANDS my attention until he's internally sure that he's back to being my priority.
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Posted by confuseddlibra
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OMG YES! I love their unpredictability, their objective stances, their little nuances and their unordinary knowledge of random things! And you know what confusedlibra? I did the SAME thing multiple times and he just keeps coming back...and also keeps doing the "friend" dance. And what makes it worse is that his ways continue to put myself self respect in question...not gooooood.



ughhhhhh i totally agree! i can't get enough, it's like a drug! but it's like a drug we don't go seeking out.. but someone offers it to us and we just can't say no! even if we just got out of "rehab" haha. yup the "friend" dance. My aqua says he likes me but is confused for a number of reasons i can understand that happened between us in the past.

but i know what you mean about the self respect situation, i feel the same. it's like I know i shouldn't have sex with him again, but i just can't help myself. i want to. but i consider myself to have high self esteem and no issues with confidence. so i feel bad when i hook up with him, but i just can't help it. but i'm not doing it because i get some type of self-esteem boost out of it. i have never even slept with another guy, although i could sleep around if i wanted to, but i don't! it's a conflicting situation!
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OMG YES!And I hate the stupid smirky face he gives after we're done having sex (after I've held out). It just isnt right. Ii wish I can easily move on but there arent too many other exciting guys out...or maybe I'm just too blind to see it. Man, reading lot of these posts sounds like we're all talking about the same guy. It's weird how your astrological info can be so on point.

Question though: Do you ever want kids etc etc? Will you wait and therefore forfeit those things?
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Give us more details about your relationship. How long, etc.



I'd say the biggest thing we have going for ourselves is the sex (which is good). In the beginning I thought it was all about sex
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Could this be why he thinks you're a slut? That, and the attention you give other guys.

I don't mean this to be mean, but a lot of times when a woman gives up sex rather quickly, the man assumes she's also doing it or has done it with her male friends as well. This could be why he doesn't trust you.

If you were really, really into this man, then you wouldn't be hanging out with or giving attention to other men, friends or not. You'd do whatever it takes to let your guy feel like he's the only man in your life. Pisces venus can be easily hurt, though they'll never let you know it.