How To Move On Most Efficienly?

So how do you guys totally move on from someone you really like?

Posted by ilovehim
So how do you guys totally move on from someone you really like?

What stage you at? stomach lurches and feeling miserable?.. cut myself off for a lil while, analyse it untill my brain hurts and see what self growth i can get from it so i dont make the same mistake again and come back stronger and more confident, then get all sociable and have fun again.. oh and keep remembering all the reasons why I need to move on rather than all the reasons why i wouldnt want to, EVEN if i dont want to because moving on feels much better quicker than the feeling of being stuck in limbo.

I'm at the stage where I still can't let go. But he still has an ex and I know I'd get hurt and I need to move on.

I don't understand. What does the ex have to do with it? Is it an exwife or ex girlfriend? Is he still in love with her?

To answer your question, I focus on the negative factors of the relationship. Like he hogged the remote, farted all the time, left crumbs on the kitchen counter, etc.

Posted by truecap
I don't understand. What does the ex have to do with it? Is it an exwife or ex girlfriend? Is he still in love with her?

To answer your question, I focus on the negative factors of the relationship. Like he hogged the remote, farted all the time, left crumbs on the kitchen counter, etc.

He was with his ex for six years. Ex Boyfriend. He still is in love with her.

But we spend time together everyday. After work, we'd always have dinner and spend the night away.

Posted by truecap
I don't understand. What does the ex have to do with it? Is it an exwife or ex girlfriend? Is he still in love with her?

To answer your question, I focus on the negative factors of the relationship. Like he hogged the remote, farted all the time, left crumbs on the kitchen counter, etc.

HAHA! yes just like that 😄 ... you should not be accepting crumbs, what man puts a girl through that? you should be the only one but its not even sounding like YOU are the ONLY one.. walk away, you will get over quicker than you think if you stick to no contact, he is basically showing you that you are his make do, was in a similiar situation not so long back its quick to get over if you think of the reasons that dont make you feel so good, he will phone you, they always do because you are breaking the habit they are used to and he will miss you, just keep pulling back, if he feels anything for you it will anchor him, if he doesnt then then it helps you heal quicker.

*I mean number one, only one whatever.. you should be the only one and number one!

I agree. Plus, if he's still in love with her, then he isn't ready to be in a relationship with you. He can't give to you fully until he is absolutely over her.

Pretty much.

Hahahahahhaahaa... hahaha... Yes thats the first bit 😄

Stage 1 denial : "no big deal, i mean, its just a break and we might get back together . i feel he loves me and vice versa, i'll laugh later about this ordeal with the girls"
Stage 2 Anger: "stupid ex boyfriend, stupid love, stupid life, i wanna bite every mans cock off! ugh! MEN mutha fuck'n' men!"
Stage 3 Bargaining: "ohh heavenly father, i beg of you, i never loved another man as much as i love him! please, i'll swear off sex forever"
Stage 4 Depression: "BOo hoo..BOO BOO HOOO HOO MOMMY!"
Stage 5 Acceptance: "you know something? i'm cool with this, i bet there are plenty of men out there! and i'll get my own prince and slurpy machine. I hit the bottom. Okay i'm moving on . over. done. over and out!"

hahahaha 😛 this usually occurs within 2 weeks for me! over and out. good night!

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I listen to a lot of music, hang out with friends, do creative things like paint and make jewelry. Aquarians are very creative people, they need an outlet for all their mental energy.