I need advises.

Hi guys, I'm a desperate Virgo trying to get Aquarius back. But please don't tell me I should let him go. I need a good strategy. I will explain what our situation is...
First of all, we've been dating for less than a year. Ever since end of last year, I've been feeling left-out by him. Apparently, he said I did something that made him hold back. (I didn't cheat or anything) That's when he started being cold and felt the need to put on a barrier. He went from making planned dates to last minute get together. And then I started feeling really empty and alone. So I broke up with him over the weekend... (Yeah I know I'm the one breaking up with him and trying to get him back...) It's just that when I broke up with him, I started thinking about the times when we'd have fun together and I started regretting. Something in me is holding on to the hope that he will be the old him again... So the situation right now is, first I broke up with him, we texted that night, but went to bed after talking about our own perspectives. Next day I texted explaining my regrets and why we shouldn't call it quits. I asked him " Are we over now?" in early afternoon. And at midnight he sent a text " I'm tired today, need rest and a breather."

So... what I'm trying to ask first is, does that mean we're broken up? We haven't texted at all today. I'm giving him space. I know they say virgos and aquariuses don't work well together. But... we are really similar in a lot of ways. I realized that after dating him. Could someone please tell me what I should do from now on? Should I send him a text tomorrow? It will have been a whole day that we haven't had any contact. Or should I wait for him to contact me? How long should I wait?

Do not text him. Give him as much space as he needs and talk about when he reaches out.

Ok I will try and distract myself for the time being sigh... I will update if there's any word from him...

its over. hes not coming back

You know it's actually better if I knew for sure he's not coming back. It's the uncertainty that gets to me.

I noticed too that Aquarius don't initiate even when they're really into you. And it was only when I wanted to break up when he revealed he cared. I just don't understand why...

I feel he will be annoyed if I call right now. I'm afraid I will miss the chance if I wait too long so I will give it a couple more days. Especially because he's going on birthday vacation. He may have too much fun and forget about me 😢

Posted by virgogurl
You know it's actually better if I knew for sure he's not coming back. It's the uncertainty that gets to me.

I noticed too that Aquarius don't initiate even when they're really into you. And it was only when I wanted to break up when he revealed he cared. I just don't understand why...

I feel he will be annoyed if I call right now. I'm afraid I will miss the chance if I wait too long so I will give it a couple more days. Especially because he's going on birthday vacation. He may have too much fun and forget about me 😢

You know what's really appealing to men? Confidence.

I'm working on the confidence part. Know exactly what to do.

Update though he texted "hi I just need some alone time, hope you're doing well." I know he needs space but how should I respond? A simple ok or something more?

Simple, My ears and heart are open. I'm just a text/call away.