I need help to understand an aqua girl

Hey, aries sun, aries moon, cancer rising guy here... I have a problem understanding my aquarius sun, leo moon, aries rising girl. We met in a summer camp and since then we tryed to keep a long distance thing. Our relationship last for almost 3 months and we have met just 2 times and it was amazing. I always make my love storyes to be movie-like (i have my cancer rising that is making me sweet and my aries combo that makes me hot) and I ALWAYS want the best for my partner. She have the inner leo-aquarius conflict and above all suffered from a very turbulent past (drugs, violence and emotional isolation) so when is around me she actually shines because I give her lots and lots of true and sincere love, because I just love her and I cant help it.
The problem is that she is so insecure and because of that she tries so hard to play hard to get just for me to "not lose intrest and go away"... I haved bad experiences in love till now, but I'm a confident guy. My only weakness is beeing ignored... This thing from her blow up my whole confidence and make me a f*ckin emotional wreck. When she lastly called me I heared her insecurity in her tone and *dammit* all the time she almost apologise for not calling me just from the shy way she starts the conversation, but when I try to confort her and I tell her that everything is ok she just dont respond... She avoid all emotional stuff that internally she need so mutch and at that moments I just blow up on her... Not bad things but I do a little emotional drama telling her that I dont want her to ignore me anymore. All this stuff shut her down even more and her ignorance make me feel bad about myself every time I try to make contact. She miss me because after 4-5 days of silence (when she usualy contact me again) she started to post a lot of sad melodies on her facebook along whit post regarding the things that we have in common, like cooking and gym. I know her and she suffer, but I dont want to stimulate her tendency to ignore me.

What to do? Aqua have tendency to play mind games, but I dont see the point in a long distance thing where she have nothing to win on short term and is so easy for me to break contact if things gone bad. I want so bad to call her but 5 days ago i sent her a message telling her about the things I have done this weeks that was left unanswered. She used to let me a message too after 2 weeks of silence or so that i allways answer but i got ignored. After 4 hours i sent her a message telling her that I am sick of her ignorance and not to call me again.

Is a good thing to try to contact her now? Or idk, what to do? I asked on an aquarius forum because people here are smart so pls dont start with allmighty, emotionally strong and independent comments about the aquarian girl nature. I know that is just a mask that you show to the world just to hide and protect your fragile feelings. I want just to know how i can pass this damn shield to give this poor girl the love and attention.