I said it!!

So i out the L-word out there! OOOoohh, not during a serious conversation or anything, he just said i was amazing, and i said " i love you"!! He just took a sharp breath of surprise, but he never said anything and it wasnt weird afterwards or anything. So, now he knows. We can either go forward or separate ways..i will choose the former, but its up to him now. Hmm, its such a weight off my mind anyways, feeling it strongly i was about to explode!

yup, he is indeed..he has so little experience. And also he admits that he' s scared about emotional stuff (but who isnt)??! God, i love him so much that today i have a physical pain..and i LOVE it 🙂 Christ, whats happened to me, the best ice-queen who ever lived, damn!

It actually genuinely came out, just like that. I had planned in my head how i'd wanted it to happen, but it never goes that way does it?! I hope to God he doesnt go all weird now!! I dont expect it to be spoken about, or even to hear from him, maybe for a few days. He's probably totally frieaking out in the mancave right now, eek!!

Well he loves Jessica Alba, so i hope she gives him some good advice 🙂

Hope everything goes good Sola! It's scary isn't it? popping that out and not knowing how he's going to react.

*crosses fingers and hopes for the best*

Act speak louder. Imo as an aqua, Sometimes its hard to say L word to someone, but if theres no feeling at all then it would be kind of obviously shown. If he's still around hope it such a good sign. Good luck

Hell yeah, i was scared! And i fully expected him to disappear, I was convinced. But he was over last night, and hopefully i will be seeing him again..soon 🙂 He hasnt said it, but is starting to show it 🙂

Sola, is your venus in Libra? what's your mars? I read he has Venus/Mars in Pisces. What's his moon? Jupiter?

(You've been at this for ages, back and forth, back and forth)

Tiziani, what about you? You've been grabbing bits and pieces of those who are in or NOT in a relationship, you should also do one for yourself. And youve missed alot fo people. There's quite alot of people on this site who are actually in committed relationships.

truecap is in *one* with her aqua man but you seem to have missed hers.

Lol. Thumbs up, sola, wish you the best with the man...your man

Posted by tiziani
I did put my own contribution in there from the Virgo forum. Haha i'm not sure where this passion for "committed relationships" comes from within you but if you see anything from anyone you like on the forums you're more than welcome to place them in the romance thread. That's the general idea. All comers welcome to share whatever is their general idea of love and romance in action.

uh no. I dont believe in that even if it's on the internet. If you're in a committed relationship, it should STAY in a committed relationship. You and me are gonna FIGHT if you were my brother in law (He's a libra) married to my aries sister. And if you think you can just waltz in here and start liking anyone for your leisure and supposed to be committed, what does that speak of your character??

Posted by tiziani
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I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing.

I'm saying if your idea of love and romance is a committed relationship, for instance you admire truecap's commitment to her man, you are welcome to find your favourite posts of truecap and post them in the thread as an example of what romance or love means to you.

That way more people come to the Libra forums to contribute something positive and Venusian rather than the simple Libra-bashing and controversy.

I would curate the posts I like but I can only do it as I go along.

what the heck wrong with you? No wonder lots of women HATE libra men in this site. You have no idea of commitment. My brother in law would be disappointed in you representing them.

You completely IGNORED the fact that i am MARRIED, therefore committed. And therefore, by ignoring it you were DISRESPECTING. From disrespecting you were saying it's OKAY to like anyone?

It seems as if you have no boundaries.

Hmmm but at the topic of chasing women even if they dont like you, it seems you were very kind and very polite and understood. But then you do this stunt.

You are NOT like my brother in law at all. *shakes head* thank god my aries sister married someone who believes in commitment and loyalty.

Posted by ninjafish
Lisa I think you may be misinterpreting tiziani... Wires have been crossed somewhere here.

Nope I didnt. He read what I said to my husband on his thread. I wrote it to MY HUSBAND.

Posted by tiziani
I did put my own contribution in there from the Virgo forum. Haha i'm not sure where this passion for "committed relationships" comes from within you but if you see anything from anyone you like on the forums you're more than welcome to place them in the romance thread. That's the general idea. All comers welcome to share whatever is their general idea of love and romance in action.

This. And he said that he doesn't know I'm married.

It's like a nonchalant way of saying, "Go ahead, like anyone you want." Completely ignoring that I'm married.

Most men would not even dare. They have their boundaries. They'd probably think to themselves, oh she or he is married, so i shouldnt write that.

I really do not understand his way of thinking. It's completely too blase'. about relationships.

Posted by ninjafish
I need to find this other thread, I'm lost.

go to the libra forum on his romance spring thread.

Posted by tiziani
I have to be honest. I don't know what you're talking about at this point. Me and you have never even discussed you being married before you brought it up right now. So I don't even know how I could have disrespected something I've never spoken about. You've got to be a little clearer.

I suppose my contribution on your thread was ignored? If that's the case, then I guess it was IGNORED. ah well.

Never mind then.

lol

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You've said that to a couple of people lisabethur8, what makes you think they're flirting with you though or disrespecting a marriage you only mention after someone's supposedly come on to you?

well,eee, you've respected me after I mentioned that. And I appreciate it alot 🙂

I'm SUPER PARANOID, so only those with strong intuitiveness can "get" that. I dont have any problems with any other males on this site. They keep their distance. And if they reply, it's only for a comment on liking something like a song/music/ and show, ect.

I can't really explain. There's an invisible line. I see women on here FLIRT with other men and they said they are in a committed relationship, but no one really says anything as to others it's harmless. I dont particularly like it. But, they are they.

Posted by tiziani
Yep, no offence lisabeth but the words "thou doth protest too much" come to mind.

Oh and "stunt" is another good word that you brought up.

To read something like that into what I said, when I was clearly talking about "anything from anyone that you liked" as in the POST in question that you might admire and not any person... Is outlandish.

Please don't involve me in this kind of stunt again.

We've barely spoken but three exchanges to each other and one of them was quite clearly paying homage to your marriage. I don't appreciate you coming at me left of field like this and the next time you'll just get blocked.

then block me!

i saw your post at the scorpio forum asking for NOVEMBER SUN energy. What? Dislike your energy?

It sounds like you dont like your October energy. Why dont you channel Roger Moore:
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Roger_Moore (he sounds more like your style )

Born: October 14, 1927, 12:45 AM
in: London (United Kingdom)
Sun: 19??41' Libra AS: 19??47' L?o
Moon: 4??00' Gemini MC: 4??57' Taurus
Dominants: Leo, Libra, Gemini
Neptune, Sun, Mercury
Houses 3, 4, 10 / Fire, Air / Fixed
----

Reading Roger Moore's biography, he married women that abused him, beat him up. (you should read his biography but I'm not sure how accurate it is)

Posted by ninjafish
I think you may have been perceiving flirting where it wasn't really occurring?

Like I said, his approach is too blase'. I see other SINGLE males on here and they aren't crossing boundaries on the women who are in relationships.

He completely IGNORED my contribution on his thread. It's as if, he doesn't respect other people's committed relationships.

I dont know...it's just the feeling I'm getting.

Posted by scorchedearth
november sun is a female scorpio on the board....

If so, and that is the case, then I apologize.

Posted by tiziani
I said I was harmonizing my energy. I didn't ask for anyone else's energy.

Look, you're that type that convinces herself she's happily married and yet somehow drags her husband to bars all evening looking for the next fire to start. Talking loud about how happily married you are until some no-name guy comes along asking you polite questions about you both and you scream at the top of your lungs

"HOW FUCKING DARE YOU I'M MARRIED YOU SOD"

Cue husband being asked to prove his commitment by being asked by yourself to get involved in a needless bar fight for the 7th consecutive day that week.

Please don't try this again. I didn't ask for the drama and I didn't do anything to warrant it considering I quite clearly gave you props on your marriage in the Libra thread. Unfortunately people like you confuse being gracious with being born yesterday.

whatever. You're the one who is a bachelor.

Is that how you see marriage?

You've got a long way to go, mister.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by scorchedearth
november sun is a female scorpio on the board....

If so, and that is the case, then I apologize.

http://www.dxpnet.com/users/profile.asp?username=NovemberSun

she's on my favorites. she's great. 🙂

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🙂 Oh yeah I've seen her around, she has such a nice, quiet strength.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You've said that to a couple of people lisabethur8, what makes you think they're flirting with you though or disrespecting a marriage you only mention after someone's supposedly come on to you?

well,eee, you've respected me after I mentioned that. And I appreciate it alot 🙂

I'm SUPER PARANOID, so only those with strong intuitiveness can "get" that. I dont have any problems with any other males on this site. They keep their distance. And if they reply, it's only for a comment on liking something like a song/music/ and show, ect.

I can't really explain. There's an invisible line. I see women on here FLIRT with other men and they said they are in a committed relationship, but no one really says anything as to others it's harmless. I dont particularly like it. But, they are they.

Ah but if it's an invisible line then how is one supposed to not only see it but know what your limit is? The only way to work around it is to block the person you feel is flirting with you I guess. It'd be easy to elaborate further, expecting a person to mention their marriage/s.o in every post is also a bit much imo but outside of the block function I don't think there's much else a person could do outside of just scrolling past whatever is deemed as offensive or crossing that line.

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Lol. Naw. Just mention it once is good enough. IF they continue and continue then well, that's harassment.

Posted by ninjafish
I really think you have misinterpreted tiz's amiability for flirtation though. He's really that way with everyone, males included! He's just nice... Bling is the same. Libra males 😛

I guess you're right. Jesus. That's horrible! (no offense to libra males if they are like that) I don't like it at all.

My brother-in-law must be a HUGE exception. He doesn't do that with me. Or with other women around my sister.

I can't say it's because they are single they can do that, but respecting other people's relationships should also come into it as well. They're free to do all the flirting they want to other single women on this site. (Unless the single woman dislikes it too)

I mean I see Leo males flirt here with single women but they stay away from the ones who are in relationships.

Posted by ninjafish
My experience of you has been nice, tiz. I'm not mistaking you for a pushover 😉

I dont think he is a pushover either.He's got a Mercury Moon (Gemini) so he's incredibly clever.

I just think he pushes things a bit far and pretends it's all innocent.

Posted by tiziani
You're a grade A idiot lisabeth. Seriously. Instead of just giving me an apology for something you know I haven't done you'd rather continue this masquerade. You know you're wrong and I don't appreciate you dragging my name into it. You can freely accuse or taunt me for the laundry list of offences I have committed in my life and I'll laugh alone with you. But it would have been nice for you to just apologize like a real person should.

Chill guys 😉

Posted by feb16aqua
Lisabeth what's going on? It's all good. It's a cold but beautiful Sunday 🙂 🙂 No worries!!!!

I've got to find a funny gif for you. You might like that throwing the bear one but I want to be original 😉

are you here to cause trouble too? (suspicious)

I just don't like flirtatious men. I dont care if they're flirting all over the place with other women who are single, like yourself. I see him and you flirting even though you are with an Aries.

It's all under the bridge, unless he comes back in here to call me an idiot again.

Posted by feb16aqua
Yeah I sensed that you were feeling all that about me, I don't mind though.

I'm a flirty gal, always have been, always will be. Everyone knows it too lol, especially in my non-internet life.

And no, no trouble.

I dont hate you. Jeez. I'm just being honest about really hating too flirtatiousness and having no boundaries. In real life,if men did that, there would be a boot heel to the crotch and a police call.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by feb16aqua
Yeah I sensed that you were feeling all that about me, I don't mind though.

I'm a flirty gal, always have been, always will be. Everyone knows it too lol, especially in my non-internet life.

And no, no trouble.

I dont hate you. Jeez. I'm just being honest about really hating too flirtatiousness and having no boundaries. In real life,if men did that, there would be a boot heel to the crotch and a police call.

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Actually that's what I'd IMAGINE it would be. Doing it in action is another thing. I'd have to grab a baseball bat or something, scream or something. Thankfully, men in real life are respectful around here.

I think we need to stop seeing each other... It's not fair on you and to a lesser extent los ninos...
I've grown really close to you over past couple of months but I'm still not ready to commit to a relationship. It's disrespectful to you if we continue this way...
Your better than that...

PAH!!! I— officially dumped..fucking gutted.com

Wow Sola.. I'm sorry..
I've been following your posts and I was fearing it would come to this. I think he's a jerk-off but be happy that you tried and you weren't afraid to put your feelings out there!! Time to move on sister

yeah! I just called my sister..she said the same. I guess in my heart of hearts I knew/feared it would come to this too 😢 Ah well, you cant make anyone love you, its a sad fact of life. Stay strong Sola (my mental chant)!

Awww *hug*

"You cannot make someone love you. You can only make yourself someone who can be loved.?? And you will be loved, by someone else who will make you forget you even met Mr. whatshisface

let the healing process begin.

Thank you sweetie, it helps!

So sorry Sola. I was pulling for you!

Yeah, today i dont feel sooo bad, only like i've lost a limb 😢 He has some things of mine (books) that I just KNOW he is going to use an excuse to see me. When he does, i will tell him to drop them off at the nearest charity shop! Just the sight of him will melt me, and he knows it.

Come on 2013, what else is gonna happen, wahhhh!

lots of love Sola