@AquaSun
18 Years
I'm an Aquarius and a loner--weird huh?
Are Aquarius loners?
Yes, many Aquarius people come across as loners because they value space, independence, and doing things on their own. In real situations, they may still be friendly and social, but they often step back when things feel too controlling or routine. That doesn’t always mean they dislike people; it usually means they need freedom and mental room.
*tried to contact me this year
?I'm an Aquarius and a loner--weird huh??
Not At All.
I'm Aquarius Female, And I Have A Older Aquarius Brother, And Several Aquarius Cousins, Which I've Noticed We Are All Loner's.
For Me It's Like A Switch I Can Turn On & Off. One Day I'm A Friendly Person, With Great Advance For My Close Friends, And The Next Day I'm In My Own World, Detached From All, Ignoring Emails & Phone Calls. I Have A {Pisces-Aries Cusp Female Best Friend} & She's Been My Friend For Over 20 Years And I Have A {Cancer Female Best Friend} Also, She's Been My Friend For More Than 10 Years And There Always The One Who Have To Try To Track Me Down, Because I Rarely Keep In Touch With Them, But I Guess I Choose My Friends According To Who So Ever Will Be Able To Put Up With Me Being Detached Often. I Don't Know About Any Other Aquarius Sign Person, But I Have More People Who Call Me There Friend, Than Who I Actually Consider My Friend. I Don't Have That Many Friends Either. I Enjoy Being A Loner.
🙂 🙂 🙂
aquasun...when is your birthday?
my aqua bf is also very much a loner, but his b-day is the ist day of aquarius...so, i believe that he has many capricorn characteristics.
hmmm, you know Cappy, you're quite right !
ones I know >>> Caps, Sags, Geminis , then followed closely by Scorps have many 'networks'...
- loner tendencies I've noticed - Pisces, Aries, Aqua, Taurus.
Some of the Aquas I know throw around friend a lot but if you call them friends back, they may or may not deny you - lol.
- Got no Aqua in my chart but realised I actually enjoy being alone - meh - more cookies for me
aawww really you would let me do that? lil ole me? really ? oh you so and so...
ok i'll be done in a few
It's almost as if you are speaking about me. Aquarians, contrary to what many may think, are natural loners. Natural loners is actually discussed in some astrology books. Although we are a social sign and can be quite sociable and vibrant, it all depends on our mood. When we want to be the life of the party and be friends with everyone, we get that done. It comes naturally to aquas. We don't need to buy people's friendship. However, more often than not, we isolate ourselves from people because we just love being alone. I know it's weird, but it's true.
i luv being alone and isolating myself too. I cut a lot of friends off too. I ignore every phonecall and txt too.
And at the same time i can be social too..
cool thread
Same here @ every word.
Same here. 😛
I've noticed this loner tendency in the Aqua I'm dating. He can talk to anyone and straight away be on their level, but he doesn't have many friends. He is on a few social networking sites, but only to look at what other people are doing, he hardly ever updates his own page. It's like he wants to be in the loop but he doesn't want other people to know he's in the loop. If that makes any sense 😛
I totally agree with you right back! We rather be alone if we don't find the right kind of friends and acquaintances that "get us/it". In my case, it's precisely that. I rather be alone than hang out and be pretentious with someone who doesn't understand me or isn't on my mental level. That loner aspect apparently has mystery to it that attracts people to me. Then, suddenly I find them trying hard to appeal to my senses, and I'm thinking "eww don't do that. You're repelling me more than being my friend." lol.
I also agree with you when you said that some people take it to heart. Lets face it, Epi, not many are accustomed to being alone or happy in their loneliness. Nowadays all I come across is needy people who need someone (friend or lover)in their life to feel good about themselves. So naturally, these people find natural loners to be weird and feel insulted when they don't need them as much as they need the natural loner. I suppose it is rude to feel "unwanted" or "irrelevant". When natural loners prefer to be alone others take it as a deep insult and resort to whining. "why don't you callllll meee. You disappeared for a weekkkk. Not fair!!" lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
haha, PLus it's the gang pack mentality that kicks in sometimes, *shrug*.
Or the idea that the snarky ones think 'well, they're never around so"hey guys pleez like me more..*slags loner off*"
*At some unspecified point in the future, loner decides to congregate*
"Hey, did you here what snarky said about you, is that true?"
"No ?" *shrugs*
"Are you ok ?"
"Yes, why ?"
"Well you've missed so much ! haven't seen you in a month"
"What did I miss?"
"Well, He said she said............"
"Oh, that's nice......I think I'm gonna get off in a short while..."rinse repeat 🙂
Hillarious!! That's precisely the passive-aggressive comments I get. "Oh I'd tell you what's going on in my life but you weren't around when it was happening." Why can't they just say it straight up that it hurts my feelings when you disappear because I'm freaking needy and I need u around time to time to tell me you are still my friend. It's one thing when we pull this on our friends, but imagine a significant other. Thanks to my loner tendencies, I fit those 10 or something signs mentioned if your partner is cheating on you.
For example, I did work late a lot because I cared to make money, rather than spending time with my bf all the time. Secondly, when my time alone was long overdue and I wasn't getting it, then I did act strange as in detached, tried to withdrew, which is yet another sign of someone cheating on you.lol. I did disappear for a week as the topic states during my isolation period from my bf, which he interpreted as "galavanting week", which I had a fling with someone. lol. When I explained that I was home the entire week and didn't even leave my house unless it was for work, he thought that was the worst lie he's ever heard. lol. Trust me, I fit most of those dumb cheating signs to be expected from a partner when they are cheating, all caused by wanting some alone time 😢 lol.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I concur on those points.
Ah well, sucks to be them I say !
I think the reason has to be good or a necessity these days when it comes to leaving the house heh.
LMAO @ the reason has to be good these days when it comes to leaving the house.
I got accused of cheating for not leaving my house. What is up w/ that? LOL. I guess I have a troll living under my bed who I call when I feel like cheating on my man..lol
"Hunny, I'm leaving the house because I have to get some eggs"..LOL eh E3?
My boyfriend aqua bf of 2+ is social but can cut folks off as well. He repeatedly thinks most people are stupid and would rather just not deal with stupid people. He is extremely capable of being social, but can cut it off too.
Posted by wineaux
aqua moon - TOTALLY cosigns on this one. really messes with my gem sun but as i get older, i feel the need to have some space and alone time and put the phone to bed.
LOL just like my gem sister
Posted by AquaSun
Yup, exactly what the title says. You'd think because I'm an Aqua I would have lots of friends. I don't. I'm actually friendly friendly BUT I prefer to be on my own. I've gotten a few talks from my only friend, close friend, a Taurus male, who asks why I prefer to isolate myself. Well, I don't really need friends to be happy. He says he doesn't understand why I'm like this. I don't have a problem cutting friendships at all, even if I've known you for years (I've done it before, unfortunately and those I cut off tried to contact me year after a couple of years and I haven't had the urge to talk to them. One was my best friend of 6 years (Cap) and another was a very good friend of 2-3 years (Leo).)Does the amount of Capricorn in my chart have anything to do with this? IDK, this was something I never thought about before until I read a few descriptions about Aquas. Of course, I do have some of the traits but I have more Cap traits.
im the EXACT same way. i like being alone and prefer doing things on my own. and i can also easily cut off friendships regardless of the # of years we've been friends. i think that's one interesting (but maybe bad lol) quality about aquas. that they treat EVERYONE the same equally, so regardless if ur blood or not if u treat us unfairly or poorly, we can write u off.
Good point. Ur right. 15+ years then slip ups r forgivable. Bt if they've always bn a bad fren the whole time THEN ther history lol
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Always isn't a very determined length of time.
I like the 3 riends I've got, the rest will come and go usually, whether through effort on my part or not and it doesn't worry me.
The comments made earlier + A09's still hold weight/make the most sense imo.
Hi epi. The comments made earlier and your comments do for me too 🙂
Damn!! I don't feel so special anymore 😢..I thought it was just me who was able to write people off in a second 😭
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Hahahaha, no no, mine are slightly different, if that helps ?
Let me rephrase. I agree with some of the things that you said in the forum. I don't recall the entire convo and I'm too lazy to re-read this but I do recall agreeing with you.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oh shit, don't cry ! look, watch !
*runs into wall*(it usually works on small children, no offense A09) 🙂
I don't get it. What are you talking about? lol
I'm the same way. I'm friendly and don't mind meeting new people, but only when I have to.
I usually like to be alone, unless I absolutely need other people to be around me. Like right now, being alone just makes me kind of depressed. So I've been trying to meet new people, but I find it a little difficult now.. It's so strange.
I don't mind cutting off friends either. Even for no reason at all. I'm just not that connected with anyone, so I guess that's normal. Unless I've let you in as an important part of my life, like as a boyfriend, then I find it extremely difficult to let go.
I'm the same way. I have a Cap moon and it's easy for me to cut from friends or distance myself away, no matter how long I've known them. I prefer to do things alone and I'm actually a homebody. But I'm very much like an Aquarius so I always wondered if I was just odd ball out. Glad to see I'm not lol.
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Yup, exactly what the title says. You'd think because I'm an Aqua I would have lots of friends. I don't. I'm actually friendly friendly BUT I prefer to be on my own. I've gotten a few talks from my only friend, close friend, a Taurus male, who asks why I prefer to isolate myself. Well, I don't really need friends to be happy. He says he doesn't understand why I'm like this. I don't have a problem cutting friendships at all, even if I've known you for years (I've done it before, unfortunately and those I cut off tried to contact me year after a couple of years and I haven't had the urge to talk to them. One was my best friend of 6 years (Cap) and another was a very good friend of 2-3 years (Leo).)
Does the amount of Capricorn in my chart have anything to do with this? IDK, this was something I never thought about before until I read a few descriptions about Aquas. Of course, I do have some of the traits but I have more Cap traits.