Im sure this Aqua man won't be able to get a grip after I made him regret and realise.

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I have question as a Scorpio woman, This aquarius man I'm seeing seems attracted to me (we're kind of ON and Off situation) But t's just difficult to function all this flattery words etc and that he doesn't want any relationship; he had too many reasons not to have any serious relationship because of the past but don't get me wrong I have the same baggage as him too. So we cool I/he understand- but at the same time he keep missing around with other women and with me. The last time i've seen him was that he admitted he was sleeping with this woman for 4 weeks which is very unfair for me to keep seeing this man when his screwing with others. I had given him so many chances but I just don't know what he did/see to those chances. I do feel like i was taking for granted; His selfish and greedy and I was stupid to let him keep using me and get what he wanted- likewise it was the right decision for me to walk away and a hard truth about his actions wast acceptable to me after that I sent him a Heartfelt message after why I have to let go and to made him realise what he done wasn't very smart of him like he think he is. CHILDISH and FOOLISH!

He read the message but did not reply as I expected because I know his just probably laughing his ass off or just plain like a waste man and probably regrets things of what he did- All i can remember was his disappointed face looking at me. this time I never heard from him because I know he realise what I meant and his scared to grow some balls (like always).

So Why go chasing me after all this time when you screwing with others?

I know some of the aquarius guys doesn't behave like this and I am sorry if I am a bit harsh to this one

but seriously why can't he MAN-UP.

So I'm assuming this man is done too; since I haven't heard from him for a while. He won't come back right?

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He might come back, especially if there is anything of Sagittarius on his chart.

If you feel comfortable without him, go ahead and shut him down. Block him on social media, phone as well as email, but this can vary. Make sure to tell him to never return or something along those lines, so that he doesn't surprise you in your workplace or at home.

The other option is to give him one last chance (which he will most likely fuck up, given the track record), but I wouldn't advise it.
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Posted by TheGreatSearcher
He might come back, especially if there is anything of Sagittarius on his chart.

If you feel comfortable without him, go ahead and shut him down. Block him on social media, phone as well as email, but this can vary. Make sure to tell him to never return or something along those lines, so that he doesn't surprise you in your workplace or at home.

The other option is to give him one last chance (which he will most likely fuck up, given the track record), but I wouldn't advise it.


My goodness! how do you know? Lucky guess.

He got at least 3 Sag on his placement and that's what he keeps coming back. His just literally making it more difficult for himself. well yes I would agree, given him another chance isn't advisable. not unless if I look up some of my actions that triggers him to act that way then fine, that means I have my FAULTS too not just on him. But to think about it



is it fair?
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...he had too many reasons not to have any serious relationship because of the past but don't get me wrong I have the same baggage as him too. So we cool I/he understand...

So Why go chasing me after all this time when you screwing with others?

He won't come back right?


He didn't want any serious relationship and you agreed, what's the problem now? He was chasing you because in his mind you both were cool with being just friends/f** buddies. I'm sure you understood, that you mislead him badly.

Right, he won't come back.
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Right, all i wanted to know that he won't go chasing/coming back to me again.
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The questions is, do you want him to come back?

I'm assuming your answer is yes because you wish he would man up and form a relationship with you.

But this is where your essential natures come into play.

#1 - aquarius don't commit easily. we like to take our time. we don't like to feel restricted or confined to a relationship. we love our freedom.

#2 - you slept with him knowing damn well he wasn't in a relationship with you and on top of that you KNEW he was sleeping with someone else. It doesn't matter whether he's Aquarius or not...Men will not hesitate to commit to a woman who gives herself respect and who they view as high value. After all, men love to chase after what they can't have. Why would he committ when he can get it from you, with no strings attached?

Now, I'm not saying it's a done deal. Chances are you can still get him back. But, you need to play it smart and take your feelings out the door.

#1 - cease all contact. go MIA. show you're having a good time (even if you're not).

#2 - Do NC for 30 days and in that time focus on yourself.

#3 - if he does come around, make it hard for him. Don't sleep with him, don't bring up the past, and treat him as a friend. trust me that works.

Remember that men love a woman whos unattainable. Men will commit to a woman they can't have and women will commit to a man who they already have. And if you do get him back do not sleep with him until he's committed to you, officially.

If you have any questions...feel free to message me 🙂
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Thank you sweetie, You're on point. I mislead him and i will take the responsibility that it's my fault. But the funny thing you have said is that they don't commit easily and want their freedom right?

Now things are re-calling back to me when I gave him the 2nd chance. He made it so clear that he does not want any emotion attachment and wants to be friend which basically leads me to believing him that his RETURN was meant for me probably 50% since I quiet get where his coming from so were cool (CASUAL).

That because probably just probably his already involved in a relationship with someone while chasing me again but the question is why? when his already involved so WHY?

and NO i don't want him back because I already walk away on his face. I just want to clarify it and have some insight with others people advise/opinion etc. NO MORE OF HIS GAME. I AM DONE.

I'm already damaged deep down.

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
The questions is, do you want him to come back?

I'm assuming your answer is yes because you wish he would man up and form a relationship with you.

But this is where your essential natures come into play.

#1 - aquarius don't commit easily. we like to take our time. we don't like to feel restricted or confined to a relationship. we love our freedom.

#2 - you slept with him knowing damn well he wasn't in a relationship with you and on top of that you KNEW he was sleeping with someone else. It doesn't matter whether he's Aquarius or not...Men will not hesitate to commit to a woman who gives herself respect and who they view as high value. After all, men love to chase after what they can't have. Why would he committ when he can get it from you, with no strings attached?

Now, I'm not saying it's a done deal. Chances are you can still get him back. But, you need to play it smart and take your feelings out the door.



#1 - cease all contact. go MIA. show you're having a good time (even if you're not).

#2 - Do NC for 30 days and in that time focus on yourself.

#3 - if he does come around, make it hard for him. Don't sleep with him, don't bring up the past, and treat him as a friend. trust me that works.

Remember that men love a woman whos unattainable. Men will commit to a woman they can't have and women will commit to a man who they already have. And if you do get him back do not sleep with him until he's committed to you, officially.

If you have any questions...feel free to message me 🙂
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also to add it all up His been chasing me since Day1 non-stop until this Sep (I hope its the last one) and that is why his involved with another victim.