SmartOnTheRocks
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Every time I read one of these "Baby Momma" threads I think about the Baby Momma who was so jealous of the Baby Daddys new girlfriend so she killed the baby and posted the dead baby's picture on facebook.
smh
smh
No not be there be there but be around. But shop and help out where I can. .. my man wants me to be there when he meets the baby for the 1st time. .. lol I'm scared but I just want to be there for him when he needs me
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds to me as if she's using you. Why? "You must throw me a baby shower" she said. I don't like the word MUST. You have no OBLIGATION to do so. Why? You're not her BFF, family member, or sister of the baby's father. You're the girlfriend. Lay down the law. Enough said.
Now, about going through your boyfriend's cell phone....what the treetrunk for? Yeah, you are insecure. You tend to believe the baby Momma (let's call her Minnie Mouse) instead of your boyfriend. How did it made you feel when you found NOTHING? Embarrassed, right? There has GOT to be some trust in your relationship, or it will simply NOT work!
Second, are you REALLY, really, really, really, really, ready for her? When the baby is born that child will be HIS obligation. Minnie Mouse has an ace in the hole each and every time the baby is sick, needs a ride, needs money, needs your boyfriend's social security number, etc, etc, etc. Again, are you READY for this? He created a life and please, please if you don't have a form of protection; please start now and/or continue to be protected. God help you if you get pregnant. He loves you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It doe not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice gut rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
🤗 cyber hug!
PS: Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
Now, about going through your boyfriend's cell phone....what the treetrunk for? Yeah, you are insecure. You tend to believe the baby Momma (let's call her Minnie Mouse) instead of your boyfriend. How did it made you feel when you found NOTHING? Embarrassed, right? There has GOT to be some trust in your relationship, or it will simply NOT work!
Second, are you REALLY, really, really, really, really, ready for her? When the baby is born that child will be HIS obligation. Minnie Mouse has an ace in the hole each and every time the baby is sick, needs a ride, needs money, needs your boyfriend's social security number, etc, etc, etc. Again, are you READY for this? He created a life and please, please if you don't have a form of protection; please start now and/or continue to be protected. God help you if you get pregnant. He loves you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It doe not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice gut rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
🤗 cyber hug!
PS: Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
Hmmmm - be friendly but never friends - "Union"? - please - she is psychotic and will try every trick in the book to get to you - first she befriends you then she sticks you - you owe her absolutely nothing and don't need to be around her or in contact with her. Be aware of her and do not get involved or you will pay dearly. She is not better or bigger because she is having a child. And I do pity the child.
There is no "Union" - that is her word she is using to play her game and she will use many words and things to stab you in the back every chance she gets. You owe her nothing. You owe yourself a decent life without drama and stress. Your relationship is with him and him alone so handle that and be with him - not her.
She will twists and turn and lie and smile and stab and be crazy and more and more. He didn't say you had to like her so wtf are you doing like "we hit it off" of course you hit it off - that was her intention? Do you really think she thinks you both hit it off and are now friends? NOT !
There is no "Union" - that is her word she is using to play her game and she will use many words and things to stab you in the back every chance she gets. You owe her nothing. You owe yourself a decent life without drama and stress. Your relationship is with him and him alone so handle that and be with him - not her.
She will twists and turn and lie and smile and stab and be crazy and more and more. He didn't say you had to like her so wtf are you doing like "we hit it off" of course you hit it off - that was her intention? Do you really think she thinks you both hit it off and are now friends? NOT !
^^ This exactly what @tcta said. This girl is looking to move you right on out, so proceed with caution, she is going to twist everything you ever say and do. Keep an eye on her but keep her at a distance.
She played on your insecurity and she won. She had you stealing his phone, accusing him of lying, etc. She is destroying your relationship by playing on your insecurity.
In the future be cordial, be friendly but don't make the mistake of being her friend. She will use it against you. She wants him back and will use any means necessary to try to make that happen.
Remember. You're in an alliance with him, not her.
And realize it will only get worse after the baby is born. Just keep in mind it's not the child's fault and operate in the best interest of the child even if it benefits her instead of you.
Have your drama shield ready at all times!
Good luck!
In the future be cordial, be friendly but don't make the mistake of being her friend. She will use it against you. She wants him back and will use any means necessary to try to make that happen.
Remember. You're in an alliance with him, not her.
And realize it will only get worse after the baby is born. Just keep in mind it's not the child's fault and operate in the best interest of the child even if it benefits her instead of you.
Have your drama shield ready at all times!
Good luck!
She's a snake in the grass and should be thought of accordingly.
Don't let her win by trusting him and being a good person.
Don't let her win by trusting him and being a good person.
Posted by WynterI imagine a woman with curls in her hair wearing a gown and slippers and demanding child support or demanding er need to take the child because she's going partying
Every time I read one of these "Baby Momma" threads I think about the Baby Momma who was so jealous of the Baby Daddys new girlfriend so she killed the baby and posted the dead baby's picture on facebook.
smh
Posted by EvatheDivaOh my word
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds to me as if she's using you. Why? "You must throw me a baby shower" she said. I don't like the word MUST. You have no OBLIGATION to do so. Why? You're not her BFF, family member, or sister of the baby's father. You're the girlfriend. Lay down the law. Enough said.
Now, about going through your boyfriend's cell phone....what the treetrunk for? Yeah, you are insecure. You tend to believe the baby Momma (let's call her Minnie Mouse) instead of your boyfriend. How did it made you feel when you found NOTHING? Embarrassed, right? There has GOT to be some trust in your relationship, or it will simply NOT work!
Second, are you REALLY, really, really, really, really, ready for her? When the baby is born that child will be HIS obligation. Minnie Mouse has an ace in the hole each and every time the baby is sick, needs a ride, needs money, needs your boyfriend's social security number, etc, etc, etc. Again, are you READY for this? He created a life and please, please if you don't have a form of protection; please start now and/or continue to be protected. God help you if you get pregnant. He loves you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It doe not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice gut rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
PS: Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hug right back! !! I'm in awe because when he came at 3am he asks we pray and read that scripture... He told me it is going to get tough once the baby is born but he prays for my patience and love. .. He's really thankful for my support. ..
Posted by tctaI am learning. .. At this rate I decided not for her to know anything about my life or my thoughts. I'm just going to be there for my man and forget about her. Any decision needs needed for the baby will be taken by the baby's parents and I will only help out when my man says I can. .. From now on she's just another human
Hmmmm - be friendly but never friends - "Union"? - please - she is psychotic and will try every trick in the book to get to you - first she befriends you then she sticks you - you owe her absolutely nothing and don't need to be around her or in contact with her. Be aware of her and do not get involved or you will pay dearly. She is not better or bigger because she is having a child. And I do pity the child.
There is no "Union" - that is her word she is using to play her game and she will use many words and things to stab you in the back every chance she gets. You owe her nothing. You owe yourself a decent life without drama and stress. Your relationship is with him and him alone so handle that and be with him - not her.
She will twists and turn and lie and smile and stab and be crazy and more and more. He didn't say you had to like her so wtf are you doing like "we hit it off" of course you hit it off - that was her intention? Do you really think she thinks you both hit it off and are now friends? NOT !
Posted by younowhooooh you guessed wrong. .. Does having an Aqua moon count. ..? But finally you guessed damn took you long enough
OP so you are aqua too ?
Posted by truecapThank you for your wisdom. .. honestly before I react from now in I'm quickly going to come on this forum so I must not go crazy too. .. She's now threatening that he won't see the baby knowing that he loves that child so much... He's gone MIA on me again. But I take it he's having his space since he did ask for it on the weekend.
She played on your insecurity and she won. She had you stealing his phone, accusing him of lying, etc. She is destroying your relationship by playing on your insecurity.
In the future be cordial, be friendly but don't make the mistake of being her friend. She will use it against you. She wants him back and will use any means necessary to try to make that happen.
Remember. You're in an alliance with him, not her.
And realize it will only get worse after the baby is born. Just keep in mind it's not the child's fault and operate in the best interest of the child even if it benefits her instead of you.
Have your drama shield ready at all times!
Good luck!
Posted by PlutoMars44FULL STOP! !!!!!!!
Stay the hell away from her she is crazy. End of story.
You stole his phone. And took it with you for a whole day.
You're not right in the head. You probably think that's ok because of your insecurities with this woman.
There are conversations that were private between him and family members or friends or coworkers that were meant to stay private.
You took that from him.
You saw everything...you're so fucking selfish.
You're not right in the head. You probably think that's ok because of your insecurities with this woman.
There are conversations that were private between him and family members or friends or coworkers that were meant to stay private.
You took that from him.
You saw everything...you're so fucking selfish.
I know you didn't leave your phone behind while you stole his.
So he could go through all of your shit like you went through his.
Selfish ass
So he could go through all of your shit like you went through his.
Selfish ass
I got curious about this topic. lol
so I started reading the first paragraph and that was ENOUGH.
lmao!!!
he is playing you like a fiddle.
a man who talks smack and puts his ex down, but still fucks her??
hahahhaa
who is playing the fool now? *smh*
so I started reading the first paragraph and that was ENOUGH.
lmao!!!
he is playing you like a fiddle.
a man who talks smack and puts his ex down, but still fucks her??
hahahhaa
who is playing the fool now? *smh*
Posted by happyface1violation of the worst kind.
You stole his phone. And took it with you for a whole day.
You're not right in the head. You probably think that's ok because of your insecurities with this woman.
There are conversations that were private between him and family members or friends or coworkers that were meant to stay private.
You took that from him.
You saw everything...you're so fucking selfish.
Posted by truecapshe was the one who had her stealing the phone—
She played on your insecurity and she won. She had you stealing his phone, accusing him of lying, etc. She is destroying your relationship by playing on your insecurity.
In the future be cordial, be friendly but don't make the mistake of being her friend. She will use it against you. She wants him back and will use any means necessary to try to make that happen.
Remember. You're in an alliance with him, not her.
And realize it will only get worse after the baby is born. Just keep in mind it's not the child's fault and operate in the best interest of the child even if it benefits her instead of you.
Have your drama shield ready at all times!
Good luck!
who is controlling who?
EDIT- I mean, don't you think it's CHOICE if she wanted to do that or not?
everyone has a choice, not go cray cray and say, holy shit i'm gonna sneak on his ass and violate his stuff.
omg and she is pregnant??
maybe it's baby hormone?
no excuse!!! gaaah even i'm getting weak thinking it's baby hormones. NO excuse.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksYou're welcome 😄 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaOh my word
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds to me as if she's using you. Why? "You must throw me a baby shower" she said. I don't like the word MUST. You have no OBLIGATION to do so. Why? You're not her BFF, family member, or sister of the baby's father. You're the girlfriend. Lay down the law. Enough said.
Now, about going through your boyfriend's cell phone....what the treetrunk for? Yeah, you are insecure. You tend to believe the baby Momma (let's call her Minnie Mouse) instead of your boyfriend. How did it made you feel when you found NOTHING? Embarrassed, right? There has GOT to be some trust in your relationship, or it will simply NOT work!
Second, are you REALLY, really, really, really, really, ready for her? When the baby is born that child will be HIS obligation. Minnie Mouse has an ace in the hole each and every time the baby is sick, needs a ride, needs money, needs your boyfriend's social security number, etc, etc, etc. Again, are you READY for this? He created a life and please, please if you don't have a form of protection; please start now and/or continue to be protected. God help you if you get pregnant. He loves you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It doe not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice gut rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
PS: Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hug right back! !! I'm in awe because when he came at 3am he asks we pray and read that scripture... He told me it is going to get tough once the baby is born but he prays for my patience and love. .. He's really thankful for my support. ..click to expand
Love,
Eva
PS: TOLD YA! He loves you. And it sounds to me as if yeah, you are ready after the baby is born. Remember, the "devil" hides in disguises. She will be "trouble" with a capital "T" for you. Stay strong or leave...your choice.
Gurl youre being played.
When did you meet him? While he was messing with her. And you got with a man with a new born on the way??
Id be way too insecure for that. Thats nuts to mess with a man who is going to be entangled seriously for quite some time.
You sound like you have your shit together, there are better problems to have than this.
Never understood why women sign up to be in this kind of hell.
When did you meet him? While he was messing with her. And you got with a man with a new born on the way??
Id be way too insecure for that. Thats nuts to mess with a man who is going to be entangled seriously for quite some time.
You sound like you have your shit together, there are better problems to have than this.
Never understood why women sign up to be in this kind of hell.
I am learning. .. At this rate I decided not for her to know anything about my life or my thoughts. I'm just going to be there for my man and forget about her. Any decision needs needed for the baby will be taken by the baby's parents and I will only help out when my man says I can. .. From now on she's just another human
You do need to learn a lot - you truly have no idea what you are in for in life - and I mean life because it will never end as the child grows, goes to college, marries and has grandchildren etc. I'm not sure either you or your man understands the complexities of dealing with someone that is psychotic.
And she's going to be raising a child and that is the most horrible thing to me - how does any child grow up strong when their mother is immature and has mental issues.
I've had personal experiences with these types of people and I have won by gaining knowledge through reading and therapy.
You do need to learn a lot - you truly have no idea what you are in for in life - and I mean life because it will never end as the child grows, goes to college, marries and has grandchildren etc. I'm not sure either you or your man understands the complexities of dealing with someone that is psychotic.
And she's going to be raising a child and that is the most horrible thing to me - how does any child grow up strong when their mother is immature and has mental issues.
I've had personal experiences with these types of people and I have won by gaining knowledge through reading and therapy.
Posted by DMVthat raises RED FLAGS to me too, with a new born baby.
Gurl youre being played.
When did you meet him? While he was messing with her. And you got with a man with a new born on the way??
Id be way too insecure for that. Thats nuts to mess with a man who is going to be entangled seriously for quite some time.
You sound like you have your shit together, there are better problems to have than this.
Never understood why women sign up to be in this kind of hell.
it seems like he is still attached to this baby momma and will always be.
I dont know how many times i get hit on with men who have newborns on the way.
I run the other way quickly.
I run the other way quickly.
Posted by younowhoI can't imagine dropping my world for a relationship so nope. .. And I love being untidy and being wrong so nope not a virgo...Posted by SmartOnTheRocksPosted by younowhooooh you guessed wrong. .. Does having an Aqua moon count. ..? But finally you guessed damn took you long enough
OP so you are aqua too ?
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Posted by happyface1wow okay so you were with me when I went and read other messages on his phone. I clearly said I went through baby mamas things only. 1 of the reasons my man loves me is that I respect him. With all I have. But my insecurities got to me I'm ashamed but I don't have to explain myself so I'm just going to say okay. ..
You stole his phone. And took it with you for a whole day.
You're not right in the head. You probably think that's ok because of your insecurities with this woman.
There are conversations that were private between him and family members or friends or coworkers that were meant to stay private.
You took that from him.
You saw everything...you're so fucking selfish.
Posted by lisabethur8okay
I got curious about this topic. lol
so I started reading the first paragraph and that was ENOUGH.
lmao!!!
he is playing you like a fiddle.
a man who talks smack and puts his ex down, but still fucks her??
hahahhaa
who is playing the fool now? *smh*
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by SmartOnTheRocksYou're welcome 😄 🤗 cyber hug!Posted by EvatheDivaOh my word
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds to me as if she's using you. Why? "You must throw me a baby shower" she said. I don't like the word MUST. You have no OBLIGATION to do so. Why? You're not her BFF, family member, or sister of the baby's father. You're the girlfriend. Lay down the law. Enough said.
Now, about going through your boyfriend's cell phone....what the treetrunk for? Yeah, you are insecure. You tend to believe the baby Momma (let's call her Minnie Mouse) instead of your boyfriend. How did it made you feel when you found NOTHING? Embarrassed, right? There has GOT to be some trust in your relationship, or it will simply NOT work!
Second, are you REALLY, really, really, really, really, ready for her? When the baby is born that child will be HIS obligation. Minnie Mouse has an ace in the hole each and every time the baby is sick, needs a ride, needs money, needs your boyfriend's social security number, etc, etc, etc. Again, are you READY for this? He created a life and please, please if you don't have a form of protection; please start now and/or continue to be protected. God help you if you get pregnant. He loves you.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It doe not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice gut rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
PS: Keep us posted.
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hug right back! !! I'm in awe because when he came at 3am he asks we pray and read that scripture... He told me it is going to get tough once the baby is born but he prays for my patience and love. .. He's really thankful for my support. ..click to expand
Love,
Eva
PS: TOLD YA! He loves you. And it sounds to me as if yeah, you are ready after the baby is born. Remember, the "devil" hides in disguises. She will be "trouble" with a capital "T" for you. Stay strong or leave...your choice.
Posted by DMVit's still early but he knew I was the 1 from day 1. And he's been consistent that's why I'm so mad at myself for letting insecurities get to me. nigga loves me and I'm loving him back. .. He only found out about the baby when she was 4 months and we had already been dating. I couldn't leave because 1 he didn't know 2 I also have a child and he adores him.
Gurl youre being played.
When did you meet him? While he was messing with her. And you got with a man with a new born on the way??
Id be way too insecure for that. Thats nuts to mess with a man who is going to be entangled seriously for quite some time.
You sound like you have your shit together, there are better problems to have than this.
Never understood why women sign up to be in this kind of hell.
Posted by cheekyfaerieyes you see. .. Brilliant idea. .. Yes I asked him how he feels about being a daddy he is so happy and can't wait. I love the fact he's so responsible and in love with his unborn. .. That in itself shows his strong character
This is a clusterfuck if I ever heard of one. If you're gonna stay tho, you can't be pullin that phone shit anymore. If you're gonna stay, you're gonna be a step-mom to this baby and you have an obligation to provide a peaceful environment for it. You need to let him deal with her tho. If you wanna throw a baby shower? Throw it for your man with his family. He's gonna be just as much a daddy as she is a mommy and I wish more people would encourage that.
Posted by DMVI used to be like you. . When we got together he didn't have or know he had a child
I dont know how many times i get hit on with men who have newborns on the way.
I run the other way quickly.
Posted by younowhoMesmerise me like Nagini and speak to be in Parseltongue... Maybe just maybe. ..
" Reveal your secrets " with snape's voice !
Posted by younowhoOh my word. .. No no no. .. You want to limit it to 3 signs. .. lol if I tell you I have to kill you. .. told you I'm in my embarrassing phase with my sign right now. .. I'm still ashamed. ..Posted by SmartOnTheRocksmasculine sign ?Posted by younowhoI can't imagine dropping my world for a relationship so nope. .. And I love being untidy and being wrong so nope not a virgo...Posted by SmartOnTheRocksPosted by younowhooooh you guessed wrong. .. Does having an Aqua moon count. ..? But finally you guessed damn took you long enough
OP so you are aqua too ?
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Posted by moondusthe's an Aquarius! !!
What's his sign?
Posted by younowholol okay fine if my star sign was a house it would be Slytherin... I gave it away if you can't get it now I don't knowPosted by SmartOnTheRockscheck my username ...... i m the dark lord 🙂 !Posted by younowhoMesmerise me like Nagini and speak to be in Parseltongue... Maybe just maybe. ..
" Reveal your secrets " with snape's voice !click to expand
Posted by moondustwell she just met her match. She called me earlier and asked me about the baby shower. .. I told her that she must return the favour in Jan next year. .. She tried to stay calm but you could tell I got to her. my fiance says we changing numbers and from now on she's going to deal with his momPosted by SmartOnTheRocksOh. They're both Aquas? How can you handle it? 😛Posted by moondusthe's an Aquarius! !!
What's his sign?
We can be manipulative...specially when we get obsessed. Almost to the point of being a psychopath. I did stuff like that only once, when I decided I WAS getting what I wanted no matter what. But it really has to be worth it.
I really have no idea how you can stop her though. Nothing can stop me when I want something.click to expand
So you're both knocked up by this guy?
smfh
smfh
Alright, my sister is an Aquarius. She always feels the need to do any ridiculous thing she has to in order to get attention. Sometimes she is quite shameless. She tells white lies a lot and I've never understood it, but that's just how she is. She can't own up to anything. I think I can only remember a few times when she took responsibility for her actions ever. She is now 25 and married.
But she still makes the same mistakes. She can't take responsibility for anything. I always hoped she would marry someone who would put her in her place or open her eyes, but then she married someone just like her. Hahaha
But one more important thing is that she ALWAYS needs to control everything, probably because of her need for attention.
I fear that on the day the baby is born, your fiance's baby mama will be showing off their baby like crazy. She will probably FREAK out as you hold the baby, making a scene to tell you to be careful, and that you have no idea what you're doing. She will also probably try every single moment of that child's life to talk down to you, and make sure you feel like you are nothing to that child and that you are horrible at taking care of that child. Which is sad because you will be a huge part of it's life if you marry the father. Don't underestimate a crazy Aquarius woman. No offense to any normal aquarius' out there.
I think my sister is pretty normal, so that's a little scary.
If you wanna stay in their lives, you'll have to deal with her. She will be very stubborn, and she won't own up to any of her mistakes.
As for the phone thing... Girl, we all slip up sometimes. Sometimes things happen and there will always be moments in life with trust issues. But you can bounce back from them, and that's the important thing. But in order to create trust, you need to have faith. So you have to believe in him without seeing proof, and resist checking his phone again. It might be hard at first, but you can do it. But you have to decide if you really want all this. You are only at the beginning. Are you strong enough to handle a lifetime of this baby mama and her child? Good luck, girl! 🙂 Hope it all works out for you.
But she still makes the same mistakes. She can't take responsibility for anything. I always hoped she would marry someone who would put her in her place or open her eyes, but then she married someone just like her. Hahaha
But one more important thing is that she ALWAYS needs to control everything, probably because of her need for attention.
I fear that on the day the baby is born, your fiance's baby mama will be showing off their baby like crazy. She will probably FREAK out as you hold the baby, making a scene to tell you to be careful, and that you have no idea what you're doing. She will also probably try every single moment of that child's life to talk down to you, and make sure you feel like you are nothing to that child and that you are horrible at taking care of that child. Which is sad because you will be a huge part of it's life if you marry the father. Don't underestimate a crazy Aquarius woman. No offense to any normal aquarius' out there.
I think my sister is pretty normal, so that's a little scary.
If you wanna stay in their lives, you'll have to deal with her. She will be very stubborn, and she won't own up to any of her mistakes.
As for the phone thing... Girl, we all slip up sometimes. Sometimes things happen and there will always be moments in life with trust issues. But you can bounce back from them, and that's the important thing. But in order to create trust, you need to have faith. So you have to believe in him without seeing proof, and resist checking his phone again. It might be hard at first, but you can do it. But you have to decide if you really want all this. You are only at the beginning. Are you strong enough to handle a lifetime of this baby mama and her child? Good luck, girl! 🙂 Hope it all works out for you.
Posted by Wynter
So you're both knocked up by this guy?
smfh
nope no. .. I just did what she does best. . lied. my fiance was listening and he was in tears with laughter. .. He said I made his day. He made mine. .. He got us matching watches engraved with the date we met. ..
Posted by younowhonope. .. I ain't agreeing to anything from now on. ...Posted by SmartOnTheRocksScorpihoe ?Posted by younowholol okay fine if my star sign was a house it would be Slytherin... I gave it away if you can't get it now I don't knowPosted by SmartOnTheRockscheck my username ...... i m the dark lord 🙂 !Posted by younowhoMesmerise me like Nagini and speak to be in Parseltongue... Maybe just maybe. ..
" Reveal your secrets " with snape's voice !click to expand
I have to play the devil's advocate here. How do you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he wasn't with her before rolling forward onto you? How do you KNOW that perhaps she felt that they were in a relationship, but then he ups and leaves, she's pregnant but he gave YOU the ring? How do you KNOW she has done, what she has done, because she feels wronged and NOT because she's crazy.
You don't. This is why I don't get involved with shit like this. Also, for her to be pregnant and not delivered means they were involved in something in what? 8 months or less. No, something isn't right.
You don't. This is why I don't get involved with shit like this. Also, for her to be pregnant and not delivered means they were involved in something in what? 8 months or less. No, something isn't right.
Posted by scorpio24356you really prepared me. .. I'm not going anywhere
Alright, my sister is an Aquarius. She always feels the need to do any ridiculous thing she has to in order to get attention. Sometimes she is quite shameless. She tells white lies a lot and I've never understood it, but that's just how she is. She can't own up to anything. I think I can only remember a few times when she took responsibility for her actions ever. She is now 25 and married.
But she still makes the same mistakes. She can't take responsibility for anything. I always hoped she would marry someone who would put her in her place or open her eyes, but then she married someone just like her. Hahaha
But one more important thing is that she ALWAYS needs to control everything, probably because of her need for attention.
I fear that on the day the baby is born, your fiance's baby mama will be showing off their baby like crazy. She will probably FREAK out as you hold the baby, making a scene to tell you to be careful, and that you have no idea what you're doing. She will also probably try every single moment of that child's life to talk down to you, and make sure you feel like you are nothing to that child and that you are horrible at taking care of that child. Which is sad because you will be a huge part of it's life if you marry the father. Don't underestimate a crazy Aquarius woman. No offense to any normal aquarius' out there.
I think my sister is pretty normal, so that's a little scary.
If you wanna stay in their lives, you'll have to deal with her. She will be very stubborn, and she won't own up to any of her mistakes.
As for the phone thing... Girl, we all slip up sometimes. Sometimes things happen and there will always be moments in life with trust issues. But you can bounce back from them, and that's the important thing. But in order to create trust, you need to have faith. So you have to believe in him without seeing proof, and resist checking his phone again. It might be hard at first, but you can do it. But you have to decide if you really want all this. You are only at the beginning. Are you strong enough to handle a lifetime of this baby mama and her child? Good luck, girl! 🙂 Hope it all works out for you.
Posted by Genniethey were friend's with benefits and she told him she loved him and that's when he decided to ditch her in dec... He said he would chill with her but not have sex with her anymore until he went to work in Jan then he just completely ignored her and wouldn't take her calls. 1 time the condom broke and he told her to drink morning afters and she said she was on the pill.
I have to play the devil's advocate here. How do you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he wasn't with her before rolling forward onto you? How do you KNOW that perhaps she felt that they were in a relationship, but then he ups and leaves, she's pregnant but he gave YOU the ring? How do you KNOW she has done, what she has done, because she feels wronged and NOT because she's crazy.
You don't. This is why I don't get involved with shit like this. Also, for her to be pregnant and not delivered means they were involved in something in what? 8 months or less. No, something isn't right.
In April when I was already in the picture that's when he found out he was going to be a father. The reason she friendly with me she 1st confirmed they were friends with benefits then that they dated. clearly her record shows that she's a pathological liar even after my man warned me I didn't believe him but yet in the months I have been with him he's been nothing but honest loyal respectful and loving. ..
I don't even know her but her record of lies she told me personally is degrading. ..
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksThanks my angel. .. We praying about it this weekend. .. He just said a couple that prays together stays old togetherPosted by scorpio24356you really prepared me. .. I'm not going anywhere
Alright, my sister is an Aquarius. She always feels the need to do any ridiculous thing she has to in order to get attention. Sometimes she is quite shameless. She tells white lies a lot and I've never understood it, but that's just how she is. She can't own up to anything. I think I can only remember a few times when she took responsibility for her actions ever. She is now 25 and married.
But she still makes the same mistakes. She can't take responsibility for anything. I always hoped she would marry someone who would put her in her place or open her eyes, but then she married someone just like her. Hahaha
But one more important thing is that she ALWAYS needs to control everything, probably because of her need for attention.
I fear that on the day the baby is born, your fiance's baby mama will be showing off their baby like crazy. She will probably FREAK out as you hold the baby, making a scene to tell you to be careful, and that you have no idea what you're doing. She will also probably try every single moment of that child's life to talk down to you, and make sure you feel like you are nothing to that child and that you are horrible at taking care of that child. Which is sad because you will be a huge part of it's life if you marry the father. Don't underestimate a crazy Aquarius woman. No offense to any normal aquarius' out there.
I think my sister is pretty normal, so that's a little scary.
If you wanna stay in their lives, you'll have to deal with her. She will be very stubborn, and she won't own up to any of her mistakes.
As for the phone thing... Girl, we all slip up sometimes. Sometimes things happen and there will always be moments in life with trust issues. But you can bounce back from them, and that's the important thing. But in order to create trust, you need to have faith. So you have to believe in him without seeing proof, and resist checking his phone again. It might be hard at first, but you can do it. But you have to decide if you really want all this. You are only at the beginning. Are you strong enough to handle a lifetime of this baby mama and her child? Good luck, girl! 🙂 Hope it all works out for you.click to expand
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksJust be careful that she's not telling little white lies and he's not telling little white lies. Her, to ruin him, him to keep you. Eyes peeled in a sitch like this that is so...dayum.Posted by Genniethey were friend's with benefits and she told him she loved him and that's when he decided to ditch her in dec... He said he would chill with her but not have sex with her anymore until he went to work in Jan then he just completely ignored her and wouldn't take her calls. 1 time the condom broke and he told her to drink morning afters and she said she was on the pill.
I have to play the devil's advocate here. How do you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt, that he wasn't with her before rolling forward onto you? How do you KNOW that perhaps she felt that they were in a relationship, but then he ups and leaves, she's pregnant but he gave YOU the ring? How do you KNOW she has done, what she has done, because she feels wronged and NOT because she's crazy.
You don't. This is why I don't get involved with shit like this. Also, for her to be pregnant and not delivered means they were involved in something in what? 8 months or less. No, something isn't right.
In April when I was already in the picture that's when he found out he was going to be a father. The reason she friendly with me she 1st confirmed they were friends with benefits then that they dated. clearly her record shows that she's a pathological liar even after my man warned me I didn't believe him but yet in the months I have been with him he's been nothing but honest loyal respectful and loving. ..
I don't even know her but her record of lies she told me personally is degrading. ..click to expand
There are red flags all over this relationship.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
Posted by butterfly30your poor brother.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
sounds like drama llama. almost as bad as the OP's problems. except you are not involved.
when I read these things I feel like I want to dip into a pool of CLEANSING.
so many crappy relationships.
Posted by SagiScorpJust because I won't reveal my star sign.... wow okay! !!! lose interest emotional blackmail whatever I do things when I want to right now I don't want to reveal my star sign. It's called freedom of choice like it's freedom choice whether you comment or not. I need advice on an Aquarius because I'm not. And I don't want opinions based on my star sign. I already know who I am.Posted by Gennie^This.
for her to be pregnant and not delivered means they were involved in something in what? 8 months or less. No, something isn't right.
I dunno how you gals deal with aquas, their harems, and baby mommas, lol. Is he really worth all of that drama?Posted by truecapYou want help from dxpnet but won't trust your helpers with your sign? Lol. Maybe you really are meant for this guy.
There are red flags all over this relationship.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8I think I'm going into my cleansing stage. Just got a big promotion at work yesterday and I will be working on a big project out of the country until November. . I know this is my answer to all my drama and honestly I want his voice out of my head too. I want to make a solid decision for my son and myself without love clouding my judgement...Posted by butterfly30your poor brother.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
sounds like drama llama. almost as bad as the OP's problems. except you are not involved.
when I read these things I feel like I want to dip into a pool of CLEANSING.
so many crappy relationships.click to expand
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