Posted by SmartOnTheRocksi'm happy to hear it!! you need to think first of your son and yourself. he needs you and your guidance.Posted by lisabethur8I think I'm going into my cleansing stage. Just got a big promotion at work yesterday and I will be working on a big project out of the country until November. . I know this is my answer to all my drama and honestly I want his voice out of my head too. I want to make a solid decision for my son and myself without love clouding my judgement...Posted by butterfly30your poor brother.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
sounds like drama llama. almost as bad as the OP's problems. except you are not involved.
when I read these things I feel like I want to dip into a pool of CLEANSING.
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Posted by lisabethur8Thanks my angel. .. honestly I'm still in awe I just joined the company officially in May. .. And to be trusted with such a big role. .. I'm like life's too short to be having baby mama problems. .. I feel selfish because he just opened a franchise around my area where I moved and it opened yesterday so now it's like I'm taking decisions in my interest while he had always included me in hisPosted by SmartOnTheRocksi'm happy to hear it!! you need to think first of your son and yourself. he needs you and your guidance.Posted by lisabethur8I think I'm going into my cleansing stage. Just got a big promotion at work yesterday and I will be working on a big project out of the country until November. . I know this is my answer to all my drama and honestly I want his voice out of my head too. I want to make a solid decision for my son and myself without love clouding my judgement...Posted by butterfly30your poor brother.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
sounds like drama llama. almost as bad as the OP's problems. except you are not involved.
when I read these things I feel like I want to dip into a pool of CLEANSING.
so many crappy relationships.
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Posted by SmartOnTheRocksUmmm something doesnt sound right herePosted by DMVit's still early but he knew I was the 1 from day 1. And he's been consistent that's why I'm so mad at myself for letting insecurities get to me. nigga loves me and I'm loving him back. .. He only found out about the baby when she was 4 months and we had already been dating. I couldn't leave because 1 he didn't know 2 I also have a child and he adores him.
Gurl youre being played.
When did you meet him? While he was messing with her. And you got with a man with a new born on the way??
Id be way too insecure for that. Thats nuts to mess with a man who is going to be entangled seriously for quite some time.
You sound like you have your shit together, there are better problems to have than this.
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Posted by truecapNo star sign, no advice.
There are red flags all over this relationship.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.
Posted by DMVPosted by truecapNo star sign, no advice.
There are red flags all over this relationship.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.
Shame, true cap drops alot of knowledge
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Posted by lisabethur8Posted by butterfly30your poor brother.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
sounds like drama llama. almost as bad as the OP's problems. except you are not involved.
when I read these things I feel like I want to dip into a pool of CLEANSING.
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Posted by ScenicThanks my angel. .. I am recovering from a good doze of celebrations. All I know is that Jesus my rock my All has given me this opportunity because He wants the best for my life. I can't stop praising Him. I am rooted in unconditional love and favor that means I can't settle for anything less than what He blesses me with. I know this is Him and I am listening. .. Thanks you very sweet
Definitely best to focus on yourself and your job. That child will be used as leverage for a decade + and being that the dude's so excited for the kid, that would be stressful on both of you. Who knows, if you leave him he might even go be with her for the kid.
Anyway, congrats on your promotion and take some time away from the drama!
Posted by DMVwhich I agree 100% she's very clued up and gives solid advice. I like her approach on most big upsPosted by truecapNo star sign, no advice.
There are red flags all over this relationship.
And frankly, I lost interest when you refused to reveal your sign.
Shame, true cap drops alot of knowledge
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Posted by SagiScorpOh wow very profound Thanks for your help mwaaahPosted by SmartOnTheRocksEmotional blackmail? You're kidding, right? I'm a stranger probably 1000s of miles away from you, I'd find it concerning if I were able to incite any emotions in you at all. Keep your star sign to yourself, it's not going to affect me. I was making a point that it's illogical for you to hide it on an astrological forum you're asking for assistance from.
Just because I won't reveal my star sign.... wow okay! !!! lose interest emotional blackmail whatever I do things when I want to right now I don't want to reveal my star sign. It's called freedom of choice like it's freedom choice whether you comment or not. I need advice on an Aquarius because I'm not. And I don't want opinions based on my star sign. I already know who I am.
And since we're on the topic of emotions, your aqua wouldn't cope well with someone that's too emotional. I helped you out after all.
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Posted by DMVlol you crazy but I get you. We can't be settling. ... When I do my jog this evening I'm going to dream about The 1. Then I won't ever think about another guy until he comes along.
Gurl you are Karruche. Beautiful and smart. Quit this Chris Brown and go get your Nigel
Posted by NemiliciousLooks up the words GOING THROUGH..... Aaaah thought so. ... OkayPosted by SmartOnTheRocksLmao@EvolvedPosted by butterfly30but I'm also going through my evolved stage where I do not get emotionally involved in anyone's life.
Just my opinion ..he's not worth it. In a few months you really don't no him. I wouldn't even trust him or her. I also say it might not be his baby. I seen aquarius people do crazy shit in relationships.my brother who is a aquarius and his girl friend is a aquarius it's just filled with drama. This chic is crazy when he left her for a month she pop up saying she's pregnant . Now my niece is 6 months and she do crazy shit to get his attention like bringing the baby up his job when my brother work long hours yelling at his boss saying ...he has a baby..It's like a game and they are sick.I remember one time my brother lift her for a week and stead with this girl he was fucking with. His aquarius girlfriend hunt him down ,found out where the girl live and went to get my brother. They both was nonchalant about it. I never seen know shit like that in my life. His girlfriend also befriended all his ex girlfriends because she want to keep a eye on them. I telling you I seen some weird shit with those aquarius.
Now that's really debatable.
Cheers to that.
Somebody who steals a phone, violates another persons privacy (people are entitled to privacy in relationships too), should not even be allowed to utter the word evolved. You are out of control.
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Posted by younowhoSEE WHAT YOU STARTED!!!!!!! You stew supposed to give up after the 1st tryPosted by SmartOnTheRocksli braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaPosted by younowhonope. .. I ain't agreeing to anything from now on. ...Posted by SmartOnTheRocksScorpihoe ?Posted by younowholol okay fine if my star sign was a house it would be Slytherin... I gave it away if you can't get it now I don't knowPosted by SmartOnTheRockscheck my username ...... i m the dark lord 🙂 !Posted by younowhoMesmerise me like Nagini and speak to be in Parseltongue... Maybe just maybe. ..
" Reveal your secrets " with snape's voice !
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
What his and your star sign?
I just hope he's not a Virgo and you're not a crab....
jfc
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anyways so two aquas made a baby, is the baby an ice sculpture?
anyways you're lucky it's not a weak zodiac sign, i believe an Aqua can handle another Aqua very well.
i wouldn't even throw her a baby shower, id tell him you're not interested in that, you don't know her...and keep it moving.
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI meant to say were not stew. .. And To the FORBIDDEN FOREST NOW! !!!!Posted by younowhoSEE WHAT YOU STARTED!!!!!!! You stew supposed to give up after the 1st tryPosted by SmartOnTheRocksli braaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaPosted by younowhonope. .. I ain't agreeing to anything from now on. ...Posted by SmartOnTheRocksScorpihoe ?Posted by younowholol okay fine if my star sign was a house it would be Slytherin... I gave it away if you can't get it now I don't knowPosted by SmartOnTheRockscheck my username ...... i m the dark lord 🙂 !Posted by younowhoMesmerise me like Nagini and speak to be in Parseltongue... Maybe just maybe. ..
" Reveal your secrets " with snape's voice !
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Posted by SensitiveBluesnot friendly as per say. honestly we got along when we met so thinking she's going to be in my life why not be nice. Then the lies started and the demands of the baby shower. The next time she called and tried to mention the baby shower I told her that. It was supposed to be a harmless joke but my fiancee loved it so much that he said we should keep it. And it looks like it worked. Oh well honestly I had such a great weekend and coming back here reminded me of what can be my reality.Posted by SmartOnTheRocksyou're playing a CRAZY GAME here and you will lose. Youre trying to play friendly with someone who see's you as a threat.Posted by SensitiveBlues
anyways so two aquas made a baby, is the baby an ice sculpture?
anyways you're lucky it's not a weak zodiac sign, i believe an Aqua can handle another Aqua very well.
i wouldn't even throw her a baby shower, id tell him you're not interested in that, you don't know her...and keep it moving.
I pray the baby is a Libra So they can be a family of air signs. .. She's due in September. lol the baby is going to be gorgeous and intelligent just from the dad alone. The mom liked handy and in control of running a great household.
She must return the favour. lol she's been quite since I pranked her in pregnant. even on my fiances side. No phone calls no I am sick messages nothing. ...
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Posted by SmartOnTheRockstrying to get CC"s goat?Posted by SensitiveBlues
What his and your star sign?
I just hope he's not a Virgo and you're not a crab....
jfc
no we not. But I heard libra and cancer the fireworks are amazing. ..click to expand
Posted by SmartOnTheRocks
When people read a thread and still choose to bring back the negative energy. .. When you trying to move forward and look forward to emancipation they focus on the past present and not the end goal. .. Just in this makes me not want to reveal my sign because now the negative vines will be focused on my sign and how I think and not the situation itself. .. Oh well
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksOne thing I do with my sister is, when she makes a scene or tries to embarrass me, I just say like "calm down, I'm not hurting anything" or "you're overreacting, knock it off" just say it in a calm but almost belittling way. When I do that, she feels embarrassed because I've publicly called her out and made her look like the overreacting one. Then she stops because she doesn't know what to do next.Posted by scorpio24356you really prepared me. .. I'm not going anywhere
Alright, my sister is an Aquarius. She always feels the need to do any ridiculous thing she has to in order to get attention. Sometimes she is quite shameless. She tells white lies a lot and I've never understood it, but that's just how she is. She can't own up to anything. I think I can only remember a few times when she took responsibility for her actions ever. She is now 25 and married.
But she still makes the same mistakes. She can't take responsibility for anything. I always hoped she would marry someone who would put her in her place or open her eyes, but then she married someone just like her. Hahaha
But one more important thing is that she ALWAYS needs to control everything, probably because of her need for attention.
I fear that on the day the baby is born, your fiance's baby mama will be showing off their baby like crazy. She will probably FREAK out as you hold the baby, making a scene to tell you to be careful, and that you have no idea what you're doing. She will also probably try every single moment of that child's life to talk down to you, and make sure you feel like you are nothing to that child and that you are horrible at taking care of that child. Which is sad because you will be a huge part of it's life if you marry the father. Don't underestimate a crazy Aquarius woman. No offense to any normal aquarius' out there.
I think my sister is pretty normal, so that's a little scary.
If you wanna stay in their lives, you'll have to deal with her. She will be very stubborn, and she won't own up to any of her mistakes.
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Posted by truecapPosted by SmartOnTheRocks
When people read a thread and still choose to bring back the negative energy. .. When you trying to move forward and look forward to emancipation they focus on the past present and not the end goal. .. Just in this makes me not want to reveal my sign because now the negative vines will be focused on my sign and how I think and not the situation itself. .. Oh well
*eyeroll*
It does matter what your sign is because it gives us a place to start with giving you advice. If your sign is known, then we would have an idea of how your sign generally interacts with aquarius and could offer tips on dealing with them. Someone else with the same sign as you may have some valuable experience and know what did and didn't work for them. Plus, we would understand that what worked for our core traits might not work for yours and could adjust our advice more catered to you.
For instance, an Aries would tell me to go in guns a blazing on something, shoot now, ask questions later, but that would be in contrast with my core traits, whereas a Virgo advice from an analytical standpoint would be more in line with my personality.
But, oh, well. Your loss. Do it your way.
You sound very Sagittarius to me, jumping in full force not realizing the baggage that comes with it until much later when you're in too deep.
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Posted by SmartOnTheRocksEff all that noise. I knew it! I knew something was up with him!!
I had such a busy week preparing for my detour tomorrow. anyways drama time. .. We broke up. He wanted to come with me and I said no. This is too much. He can't keep coming with me everywhere I go. Then he said for someone whose about to make a lifetime commitment in selfish considering I just took the job without consulting him. I told him those decisions will be made official once we married but for now I will just love his support.
He gave me an ultimatum either he comes with me or we take a break on our relationship till I come back. I told him rather he has a permanent break because love doesn't come with conditions.
I couldn't invest into my emotions as my work needs me strong. I took a pregnancy test on Thursday it came positive told him about it and he was ecstatic. Friday I woke up on my periods now I'm the ecstatic 1. He's really devastated I told him a child never fixed problems. We spent the weekend together and he wants us to plan the wedding when I get back. I didn't tell him this but I was serious about the break up.
honestly this all happened too quick too fast and him now giving conditions is making me feel edgy. He gave me lots. 1 of them is I can never be a Pastor If I get married to him. I never said I wanted to be a Pastor but He says my faith and relationship with God scares him. made me wonder 10 years from now what if I really want to be a Pastor meaning I won't ever have his support if life throws us in a different direction.
I have considered a lot of things I'm going all in in my career. I want to move mountains in my own life before I can settle down. I'm just going to miss being treated like a queen and feeling protected at all times. And the friendship part of it. He could make me laugh for hours at end and gave me space. He's my perfect human being.
I just think if we meant to be we will be when the time is right. Right now he's got so much the baby. He's really excited about the baby. even though he's really hurt I'm not. I saw the hurt in his eyes last night. He said he wished I was the pregnant 1... He's going to make an amazing father. He said he is scared that if I leave life might lead us apart. He always wants me close. That's why he wants to be where I am.
Today is our last day together as I leave tomorrow. a part of me knows this is our last time until whatever the future has in store for us. Right now investing in myself us my number 1 priority.
p.s baby mama sent me a pic of 2 women loving the same man laughing together the man reading a newspaper with a smile. caption says once we both accept that he's ours then we both love in peace and create a strong bond for our family
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