Is this a typical Aquarius man behavior?

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that's aquarius men for you :/ always confusing, always putting you on a pedestal. My advice is that you move on from him. took me 2 years to move on from the aquarius i was so attracted to but i'm so happy it finally happened.

seriously, these kind of men are not worth your time. do yourself a favor and walk away. you are clearly a woman that can do so much better than him.
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It's you UNBLOCKING him, right?

Is that what you want, a virtual relationship for years, with a weirdo? He told you from the first date that he is a rude, disrespectful twat who shortly dated a relationship-inexperienced woman with a 2-page complaint about him.

Is money that makes you blind? You talk about him like he is some billionaire company CEO. He is not! He is just the a doc who puts patients to sleep. Big deal! He probably still pays a mortgage or has little savings after paying it. He is cheap and not even hiding it, which is surprising knowing that Aquas are notorious liars. Those earrings were probably $ 40 and bought in a supermarket.

If you want a child or more, you have no time to waste on twats like him. You are approaching your pre-menopausal years (the 10 year period before the menopause sets in, at 45-50). Go find a decent bloke to breed. Someone who will put you and your child first. These are the things in life that money cannot buy!
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that's aquarius men for you :/ always confusing, always putting you on a pedestal. My advice is that you move on from him. took me 2 years to move on from the aquarius i was so attracted to but i'm so happy it finally happened.

seriously, these kind of men are not worth your time. do yourself a favor and walk away. you are clearly a woman that can do so much better than him.
thank you....yes i got fed up with him and walked away plus i ended up deleting and blocking his # too. He caused me so much confusion, sadness and headache. It is VERY hard because i feel alone and it sso ahrd for me to be attracted to someone regardless of a number of men who like me so i hate when im into someone and it doesn't work out for no reason basically.
i understand completely i went through the same emotions, but know that you deserve better 🙂 i know attraction is a very mysterious and tricky thing.. it's either there or it isn't and it's very unlikely for it to develop over time but the key is patience here. be patient and you will find someone who you are attracted to physically and mentally.

from what you wrote and told us about this man... he seems like such an asshole. no matter what a woman is like, she does not deserve to be treated like the way he treated his ex especially since he is a mature, grown up guy i think it's safe to say that this is just his personality, it would be unlikely for him to change.

know your worth and know that you made the right decision to walk away 🙂
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Yup...now that I look back he is a total asshole. You know what he used to do? He would text me on Sat afternoon, for example, ask me what I was doing, so if I said I was getting ready to go out or was waiting for guests, he would say the following "oh, and I was going to ask you out today!" He did this several times

and it was obvious that he had no plans to ask me out and only used my plans to pretend that he was going to ask me out but due to my plans, we can't meet up.....so manipulative...i called him out on this. Then...he would say he was going to the movies with friends or to a football game, t show me that he had a busy weekend, and then tell me that 'if i didn't have plans to see a movie, i would have invited u over." LOL as if he couldn't go to the movies with me or cancel the movies to hang out with me, right!? It's as if he wanted to show me 'my place' as if i wasn't a priority and he had his own life. It's like...hellooo why the hell even chase me then or keep coming back u idiot if this is how you 'date' if i can even call it that. I feel now like I got mindf*cked by him the whole year quite honestly and felt so depressed and now looking back i pity that year i emotionally felt drained by him and felt really down as if i was depressed. The fact that he told me that story with his ex-gf when she wanted a drink and he kept the bottle to himself and made her walk downstairs to the garage to grab her own drink in his own house should have been a red flag for me the first 30 minutes of our 1st date. I suppose he was giving me a preview of what an ass he is lol. I wish I can take back my year but i can't and have to live feeling lonely and stupid now for falling for him. Thanks for tthe encouraging words..they are a great emotional help for me now 🙂))) I guess my block now should tell him something if he ever texts me again.
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Sorry i didn't read...too long

I bumped into an Aqua man yesterday who lives in my village. When he saw me he says *fortuitous* and then said *didn't you read my chart a while back and will you do it again*. I know he is getting married in September and asked him did he want the reading for anything particular, as i had already read it for him. He said *yes*, then *no*, then *just general*

He is still chasing his ex and sending her sexy texts and i know when they were together she found him having sex with another woman. He is very very attractive and highly intelligent but a bit of a lost soul

I am deciding whether to do the reading or not? If i do, it may give me a good chance of kicking him up the arse.

He is in his 50s....doubt he will ever settle with someone. When i asked him about getting married, he tells me *it's for companionship*. He has one of the strongest sexual vibes i have seen on a man.......

Poor woman..rather her than me.

What i am saying is (after having two rships with Aqua men)......always expect the unexpected

Crazy Uranus

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I'm sorry butnwith Aqua I heard it's all about action for them. And I'm sorry you wasted one whole year with this guy. He's been using you to boost his ego and I have a feeling there's another woman on the side somewhere... that's why he hasn't been like that with you. Time to move and if he ever contact u again you r wise enough not to respond or reply. Tell him u r dating someone seriously . That will hurt him enough to stop with that stupid game of his. Good luck
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that's aquarius men for you :/ always confusing, always putting you on a pedestal. My advice is that you move on from him. took me 2 years to move on from the aquarius i was so attracted to but i'm so happy it finally happened.

seriously, these kind of men are not worth your time. do yourself a favor and walk away. you are clearly a woman that can do so much better than him.
thank you....yes i got fed up with him and walked away plus i ended up deleting and blocking his # too. He caused me so much confusion, sadness and headache. It is VERY hard because i feel alone and it sso ahrd for me to be attracted to someone regardless of a number of men who like me so i hate when im into someone and it doesn't work out for no reason basically.
i understand completely i went through the same emotions, but know that you deserve better 🙂 i know attraction is a very mysterious and tricky thing.. it's either there or it isn't and it's very unlikely for it to develop over time but the key is patience here. be patient and you will find someone who you are attracted to physically and mentally.

from what you wrote and told us about this man... he seems like such an asshole. no matter what a woman is like, she does not deserve to be treated like the way he treated his ex especially since he is a mature, grown up guy i think it's safe to say that this is just his personality, it would be unlikely for him to change.

know your worth and know that you made the right decision to walk away 🙂


Yup...now that I look back he is a total asshole. You know what he used to do? He would text me on Sat afternoon, for example, ask me what I was doing, so if I said I was getting ready to go out or was waiting for guests, he would say the following "oh, and I was going to ask you out today!" He did this several times

and it was obvious that he had no plans to ask me out and only used my plans to pretend that he was going to ask me out but due to my plans, we can't meet up.....so manipulative...i called him out on this. Then...he would say he was going to the movies with friends or to a football game, t show me that he had a busy weekend, and then tell me that 'if i didn't have plans to see a movie, i would have invited u over." LOL as if he couldn't go to the movies with me or cancel the movies to hang out with me, right!? It's as if he wanted to show me 'my place' as if i wasn't a priority and he had his own life. It's like...hellooo why the hell even chase me then or keep coming back u idiot if this is how you 'date' if i can even call it that. I feel now like I got mindf*cked by him the whole year quite honestly and felt so depressed and now looking back i pity that year i emotionally felt drained by him and felt really down as if i was depressed. The fact that he told me that story with his ex-gf when she wanted a drink and he kept the bottle to himself and made her walk downstairs to the garage to grab her own drink in his own house should have been a red flag for me the first 30 minutes of our 1st date. I suppose he was giving me a preview of what an ass he is lol. I wish I can take back my year but i can't and have to live feeling lonely and stupid now for falling for him. Thanks for tthe encouraging words..they are a great emotional help for me now 🙂))) I guess my block now should tell him something if he ever texts me again.
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my god... that is terrible! what a jerk 😢 i'm so sorry you had to go through his mind games. I felt the same about wasting 2 years of my life on that aqua guy. i, too, got very depressed over him. don't feel stupid for falling for him.. guys can be very manipulative. some of them know what strings to pull to get a woman hung up on them. but think of it this way... you learned your lesson now and you won't fall for a guy who plays games like this ever again and you are strong, you can get through this. i know how when you fall for someone, you keep having that slightest bit of hope deep down inside that they might after all have some decency to them , or they might change, or that it is you who is the problem ( i thought all of those things when i was hung up on that aqua guy) but trust me all you need is someone who is unaffected by any emotions to judge the situation and tell you what to do, and bring you back to reality.

No worries at all, if you ever felt sad, or felt like you needed to tell me about him again feel free to inbox me. i will listen and do my best to help make you feel better.
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Sorry i didn't read...too long

I bumped into an Aqua man yesterday who lives in my village. When he saw me he says *fortuitous* and then said *didn't you read my chart a while back and will you do it again*. I know he is getting married in September and asked him did he want the reading for anything particular, as i had already read it for him. He said *yes*, then *no*, then *just general*

He is still chasing his ex and sending her sexy texts and i know when they were together she found him having sex with another woman. He is very very attractive and highly intelligent but a bit of a lost soul

I am deciding whether to do the reading or not? If i do, it may give me a good chance of kicking him up the arse.

He is in his 50s....doubt he will ever settle with someone. When i asked him about getting married, he tells me *it's for companionship*. He has one of the strongest sexual vibes i have seen on a man.......

Poor woman..rather her than me.

What i am saying is (after having two rships with Aqua men)......always expect the unexpected

Crazy Uranus

✨


Shocked by Uranus bolt. âš¡
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Just met up with the Aqua guy's ex who told me he said to her he is getting married because he figured "anything is better than being alone"


That's quite a nice thing to say...to an ex 😄

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Haha Undine,,she just rolled her eyes and said "good luck" .... He is still sexy texting her even though she ended it with him because he couldn't behave himself. I remember one night he came onto me right in front of her. I said to him *you have to be kidding* and asked her if she wa sure about this guy? Luckily she finished it

She is a beautiful Pisces lady 🙂