Is this Aquarius Guy into me? (Page 2)

sorry im back! had customers!!
hmmmmmm, how to act with him again? hmmmmmm, well i was always distant with mine, at the start-as he told me we were only friends the first month, so i was trying to not to show how much i liked him, i think this kept him close, as he wasn't at all ready, although i could see the way he looked at me. i acted like a complete friend, just friend" even though i had feelings, so u could say i wasn't being myself-however i do treat a boyfriend like a best buddy-as thats what i want them to be anyway-
now the last months its like we're together-i still act alittle distant when we go out ect-but that is my general behaviour, plus we;re always with his best friends and we got on great, he loves that-again meaning pressure off.
so i just suggest, sit tight, get on with your stuff, build a nice friendship-as frindships are more concrete-+i never have expectations with anyone, so i never get let down. try that.
You asked how we are now? - i messed up a bit last week, as a girlfriend brainwashed me into thinking what i have with him is not good, ect, i should ask what we are ect, i did not want to, as he was behaviour was sooo lovely, but i went ahead and messed up, and asked him, ( even though i was just fine with how it was) now hes backed off alittle!!!AQUA MAN! LOL, but we 're meeting later today, so i can explain my stupidity last week, i have the feeling, i will not loose him at all. we will c, whatever happens with us, i want him in my life somewhere, as a friend-im strong enough to deal with it, if it came to that, as he is important to my somehow-i cant speak for him.

Arian, just an after thought-as im off to work now-i belive everyone in your life (those u are drawn to more than others) have some meaning, they are there for a reason-u just have to figure out the reason. He could be there for a lesson for u, a teaching, a friendship-whatever-so dont push anything-as u may loose a moment. relax, and u'll be fine. learn learn learn!!! thats what we're all here for.

Prime, if you need fiber, leave the peel on. Once you have a good thing going (lol) I would leave it off. If you are gonna cleanse, leave them on. The cucmber will still have the same benefits, but the peel is a LOT of fiber.

On your salads, you might want to STOP eating lettuce. Go for the other members of that family- Romaine, etc. I get the big bags of all the different types in one.

I dont know if this is feminine, but for your skin, you NEED organic RAW coconut oil. Also, aloe eternally wouldnt hurt. But see if you can get some cold pressed raw coconut oil. I get mine from www.vitacost.com

If you really do want some book titles, I can give you those, but I spent a load of money for nothing. The real stuff is through learning from experience. The books arent wrong- but you have to eventually put them down & apply things to your life. That's when thigs started happening for me.

Elly,
"He could be there for a lesson for u, a teaching, a friendship-whatever-so dont push anything-as u may loose a moment. relax, and u'll be fine. learn learn learn!!! thats what we're all here for".

Wow, this is just what I needed to see. I'm going through a similar situation with a guy and what you wrote really hit home for me.

mystical, good!

Elly,

Now I know why you are so smart. It's because you are an Aquarian. I am also. Sometimes we need someone else's words to see the light.

lol, maybe! they say we're a fine line between mentally disturbed-and genius! most mental wards around the globe are filled with aquas, how funny is that?!
needing someone else's words, yes i agree, and i dont alwyas follow my own advice.

Elly,

I'm with you regarding not following my own advice. I'm so good at helping everyone else's problems but when it comes to mine I suddenly get confused and lose my logical thinking. This has especially happened with this one particular guy which has scared me because I'm such a logical person. Not so with him which makes no sense.

me to....i have alittle office at the hotel where i sit, and i have cutomers come down day after day with their problems...turning into a little phycolgy room:-) and i dont mind, i love helping, i dont advice exactly im no expert-but i listen-i think thats what people need -alot.
When it comes to a man, i can also loose all logial reasoning-i think when i have no control of how i feel, there has to be alot of feelings there..... maybe thats how ur right now?

Yes, I am. He frustrates me very much. He didn't call me last Monday like he said he would. Therefore I tried him later on on Monday and he didn't answer. I'm thinking he's really mad at me (because I was being honest with I know how he operates). Then on Wednesday I sent him a very small text message asking how he was and that I was thinking of him and wanted to say hi. Do you know what? He didn't even respond to that either. I'm not getting what is going on. Then I tried one last time on Thursday night to call him and again he doesn't answer the phone. You know what I decided then and there? I said to myself I'm done. I can't do anything more. He's obviously mad at me for being honest. I'm not going to do one more thing until he contacts me if that ever was going to happen.

Then you know what? He calls me at 1 AM on Saturday morning. I couldn't believe it. Now he's calling me I thought but I didn't say anything nasty to him. I asked him what he's been up to lately. He said he had been at sea. He told me he was home and there was going to be some partying going on but that it was going to be boring. Then he tells me his neighbor doesn't like him because all the girls are interested in him (my friend). I told him he's then very lucky to have girls interested in him. You know what he told me? No, he wasn't lucky with that. Now I can't for the life of me figure out why he's telling me he's popular among girls. What he thinks he going to gain by telling me that I have no idea. Then he said something that afterwards I thought was so funny I had to laugh. He told he'd call me when he had time. Now I'm thinking "when he has time." Oh, boy. I didn't laugh when he said it but it has popped in my head because it sounds so funny. He's never said that before. Now I have no idea when he'll have time to take contact with me at all. I have snickered at different times of the day because it's hilarious. At least when he did call me I found out he wasn't mad at me. That was bothering me as I wasn't sure of what was going on. I will not be taking contact with him because I'm done with trying. I know he'll take contact with me (I think) again but I don't understand what his agenda is. This is something I'll have to try to figure out. Our "friendship" is very surreal and difficult. I think he had a feeling he'd better take contact with me otherwise he'd never hear from me again.

Elly,

Ohh..I do take the advice on this forum to heart. It is quite interesting to read everyone's comments. Really helps to understand a sign and also myself. I am very impatient and I suppose this experience is really making me understand myself better and to not jump into things and let it happen naturally. You know, not to be too pushy (as I usually am with guys I like). But then I have to tell myself, if it was meant to be between my Aquaguy then it will happen. If not, then I guess it was nice to have met him. He doesn't live in the same city as me, so it gets harder to "see him". I've only met him once. About a month ago. We talk, email, and text. But that's not as much as I would like (as I've said on another forum). But alas, I must understand this thing called "PATIENCE" and if he is truly into me and want something more, I hope he comes around. If not, oh well! 😛

ok, alittle difficult to comment, as i dont know how long-or have u been romanticly invloved with this guy?-maybe u called to much....men re of sign-like to chase alittle-the thing he said about girls wanting him, sounds like hes just bragging, and his ego had kicked in, although i m not sure of what message he wanted to put across exactly

Aries,
its almost 6 months with mine, and im still adjusting and being patient-i have aries girlfriends -and they kinda like to know now! from the start how the guy likes them-well who does'nt when they like someone?-but the point is-its like asking a blind mouse what his favourite colour is? u know? a month is way to early-for anyone. I remember primgen said -an aqua doesn't fall in love, he'll walk in real slow, i liked that.so let him get to know u slowly-and visa versa-maybe hes not everything u want at this early stage. They say the aqua man likes a closed book, so dont give too much away about yourself either-in any situation that will give u a stronger stance.😉

I've known him since January and am not romantically involved with him at all. I do like him very much. I normally don't do the calling as he doesn't like that at all. When he called me last Sunday the conversation was fine but I knew he was drunk. Anyway, suddenly he got cranky saying I don't know anybody like him because he's different. I replied I know a few people who are like him. He is unique in his own way but I didn't tell him that. Then he tells me I don't really know him or what's he done. He told me he gets pissed off at me because I'm too positive. He sees things always negative and I try to turn them in something positive. He has never been pissed off at me before and therefore I didn't understand what was wrong. We lost the phone connection on Sunday night so I hung up on him. Then I called him back and asked if he could call me back. He said he couldn't because he was going to work (he works at sea). He told me he'd call me on Monday and then you know the rest. I couldn't understand why he would be mad at me.

guys got to go to class bye!-remember perfect control of feeling makes you king of yourself-u dont have to neutralize desires and feelings-just try to keep a balanced attitude.

mystical-ill write to u in the morning sorry-running really late, ill think over what u said-also primegem, should be awake soon, and after hes drunk his green tea 😉, he may just help u with a pearl of wisdom.

That would be great. Looking forward to it. Hopefully, Primegen will help with his pearl of wisdom.

I suppose a month is too soon to know if you really like someone or not. I know for me..I know right away if a guy is worth my time or not. But that's not for everyone. So my Aquaguy and I just emailed back and forth a little while ago. Nothing exciting.. but at least it was something.

Elly,
You've been with your Aquaguy for 6 months and still have to be patient with him? sheesh.. Yes..you can say I am just like your aries girlfriends. I need to know now! hahahaha! 🙂