Libra1984
@Libra1984
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Libra guy misses his Aquarius girl bad. Help!!!
I left the door open each time like please on,y contact me if you would like to pursue something more than friendship.
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I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
Sounds like she misses your friendship but doesn’t want more. Ignore her and please move on. Maybe then she’ll take notice. 😄
Posted by iFemmeI'm sorry how could they not be anymore clear to her? I was very direct in what I wanted.
Are you sure, that your intentions are clear to her?
Aquariums are inanimate objects which house sea life
Posted by tctaoFind yourself a woman like tctao. Taureans can be amazing for librans
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I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
Posted by LibWmanI don't even know what that means...lol
Aquariums are inanimate objects which house sea life
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
Posted by HarukkaPosted by Libra1984You can't force anyone, she is not ready for u
I left the door open each time like please on,y contact me if you would like to pursue something more than friendship.
She is hooking up with someone else because she takes seriously.
If you are her friend still, maybe she will fall for u, but all u did is hurt her feelings, why—!!click to expand
"..hooking up with someone else because she takes seriously." What do you mean by that?
All I did was not hurt her feelings. She choose to be hurt by me setting a boundary that very few men set with her because she is very pretty and also very attention seeking.
Posted by waterbearer_femWe were friends for awhile beforehand and then like I said I asked her out when she became available but right out of something serious, I pushed her away because I didn't think it was a good idea.
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
My point in all this rambling is is Aquarius the type to come back around if even there was a little interest? I have no intention of contact and moving on.
Posted by hazyFloYeah, we're on the same page obviously.Posted by waterbearer_femThat sounds selfish on her part and she needs to consider his feelings.. That’s the part that makes aquas so damn detached lol
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.click to expand
But that's just how a typical Aqua female works: I need to be friends first, I wanna trust you, I wanna enjoy our mutual sympathy and interests.
Posted by Libra1984She will be back if she feels some kind of urgency. I'd leave it at that as well if I were in your shoes.
My point in all this rambling is is Aquarius the type to come back around if even there was a little interest? I have no intention of contact and moving on.
Posted by Ravishingreminds me of "Pearl Harbor" movie...
Sounds like the most immature relationship I've heard.
I would stay away from her. What kind of whore sleeps with her dead boyfriends best friend? And then flirts with you on the side too? Gross.
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Posted by LibWmanor taurus moons. lol my sister is married to one happily. also has pisces mars.Posted by tctaoFind yourself a woman like tctao. Taureans can be amazing for librans
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I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
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Posted by hazyFloOmg, I read over that completely. How eerie.Posted by waterbearer_femHer sleeping with her dead boyfriends best friend gives me the cringes, I wouldn’t trust her at all.Posted by hazyFloYeah, we're on the same page obviously.Posted by waterbearer_femThat sounds selfish on her part and she needs to consider his feelings.. That’s the part that makes aquas so damn detached lol
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
But that's just how a typical Aqua female works: I need to be friends first, I wanna trust you, I wanna enjoy our mutual sympathy and interests.
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Posted by hazyFloNext!Posted by waterbearer_femYeah.. you see that lol 🚩Posted by hazyFloOmg, I read over that completely. How eerie.Posted by waterbearer_femHer sleeping with her dead boyfriends best friend gives me the cringes, I wouldn’t trust her at all.Posted by hazyFloYeah, we're on the same page obviously.Posted by waterbearer_femThat sounds selfish on her part and she needs to consider his feelings.. That’s the part that makes aquas so damn detached lol
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
But that's just how a typical Aqua female works: I need to be friends first, I wanna trust you, I wanna enjoy our mutual sympathy and interests.
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Posted by LibWmanPosted by tctaoFind yourself a woman like tctao. Taureans can be amazing for librans
smdh
I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
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Funny you say that. I dated a Taurus in college and we had awesome chemistry and 4 years of amazing sex but for whatever reason things came to an end.
Posted by hazyFloFlo, what does this mean?Posted by waterbearer_fem
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.click to expand
I just told the exact same thing to the Aqua I'm talking to. I told him that Wednesday and he reached out yesterday (Sat).
I'm confused and he seems to be confused too. All he says is I don't know what to tell you.
I asked him what he expected out of our friendship and he said "he doesn't know"
We were in exactly the same place as when I told him I couldn't do this anymore. Then he sent me a message saying another family member has died. Now I'm roped into at least another couple of months of sticking by his side to help him through it. smh.
I just don't know what the hell he wants from me. It's been almost a damn year.
Posted by Libra1984there's some single aqua/gemini/pisces ladies here,Posted by LibWmanPosted by tctaoFind yourself a woman like tctao. Taureans can be amazing for librans
smdh
I think that was pretty clear - she isn't ready to settle down and there's nothing you can do about that - so sorry and I hope you find another woman who wants you as much as you want her ...
Funny you say that. I dated a Taurus in college and we had awesome chemistry and 4 years of amazing sex but for whatever reason things came to an end.
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i'm hoping you guys hook up. you've been searching for one of these ladies, i remember on your chart astrolgoy forum.
Posted by hazyFloHe doesn't want the sex either, he cut that out too lolPosted by saggurl88He wants the connection and sex, not commitment. If He wanted to be serious he would of done it by now, but instead feeds you excuses to keep you around.Posted by hazyFloFlo, what does this mean?Posted by waterbearer_fem
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
I just told the exact same thing to the Aqua I'm talking to. I told him that Wednesday and he reached out yesterday (Sat).
I'm confused and he seems to be confused too. All he says is I don't know what to tell you.
I asked him what he expected out of our friendship and he said "he doesn't know"
We were in exactly the same place as when I told him I couldn't do this anymore. Then he sent me a message saying another family member has died. Now I'm roped into at least another couple of months of sticking by his side to help him through it. smh.
I just don't know what the hell he wants from me. It's been almost a damn year.click to expand
He wants the connection of talking everyday without seeing me or having sex.
I asked him if he was sexually attracted to me and he said yes. Then he asked how I could feel this way about him and we're not dating. I felt like telling him, the same way you can like someone and pretend like you don't.
He's never admitted anything to me, that he likes me, that he doesn't. Just wants me hanging around for support and conversations. I told him it won't work cause I'm attracted to him.
I told him I'n not trying to take him to Vegas and get married but if we are gonna be friends he needs to see me and I want sex. 😆
We'll see how that goes.
Dude her boyfriend just passed away!
like get it through your head its not about you at allll, im sure she still wants you in her life and you're not like in this "friend zone" that you think. You need to be more patient, i honestly dont see how shes in the wrong when she needs time to get over her boyfriend passing away, that could take up to a year.
If you want her in your life you would need to be there for her through this difficult time, maybe then will she grow feelings for you.
And i dont think she is hooking up with the bestfriend, maybe shes sees him as comfort?
like get it through your head its not about you at allll, im sure she still wants you in her life and you're not like in this "friend zone" that you think. You need to be more patient, i honestly dont see how shes in the wrong when she needs time to get over her boyfriend passing away, that could take up to a year.
If you want her in your life you would need to be there for her through this difficult time, maybe then will she grow feelings for you.
And i dont think she is hooking up with the bestfriend, maybe shes sees him as comfort?
Posted by hazyFloI know!!! That's why I tried cutting him off. But he always pulls me back in with excuses.Posted by saggurl88This sounds messy, y’all are going in circles.Posted by hazyFloHe doesn't want the sex either, he cut that out too lolPosted by saggurl88He wants the connection and sex, not commitment. If He wanted to be serious he would of done it by now, but instead feeds you excuses to keep you around.Posted by hazyFloFlo, what does this mean?Posted by waterbearer_fem
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
I just told the exact same thing to the Aqua I'm talking to. I told him that Wednesday and he reached out yesterday (Sat).
I'm confused and he seems to be confused too. All he says is I don't know what to tell you.
I asked him what he expected out of our friendship and he said "he doesn't know"
We were in exactly the same place as when I told him I couldn't do this anymore. Then he sent me a message saying another family member has died. Now I'm roped into at least another couple of months of sticking by his side to help him through it. smh.
I just don't know what the hell he wants from me. It's been almost a damn year.
He wants the connection of talking everyday without seeing me or having sex.
I asked him if he was sexually attracted to me and he said yes. Then he asked how I could feel this way about him and we're not dating. I felt like telling him, the same way you can like someone and pretend like you don't.
He's never admitted anything to me, that he likes me, that he doesn't. Just wants me hanging around for support and conversations. I told him it won't work cause I'm attracted to him.
I told him I'n not trying to take him to Vegas and get married but if we are gonna be friends he needs to see me and I want sex. 😆
We'll see how that goes.
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I told him that I take things day by day, but the basics need to be met in this friendship
Posted by hazyFloAs you can see. I suck at doing that cause I'm too emotionally involved and I do actually really like him.Posted by saggurl88Than cut him off.Posted by hazyFloI know!!! That's why I tried cutting him off. But he always pulls me back in with excuses.Posted by saggurl88This sounds messy, y’all are going in circles.Posted by hazyFloHe doesn't want the sex either, he cut that out too lolPosted by saggurl88He wants the connection and sex, not commitment. If He wanted to be serious he would of done it by now, but instead feeds you excuses to keep you around.Posted by hazyFloFlo, what does this mean?Posted by waterbearer_fem
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
I just told the exact same thing to the Aqua I'm talking to. I told him that Wednesday and he reached out yesterday (Sat).
I'm confused and he seems to be confused too. All he says is I don't know what to tell you.
I asked him what he expected out of our friendship and he said "he doesn't know"
We were in exactly the same place as when I told him I couldn't do this anymore. Then he sent me a message saying another family member has died. Now I'm roped into at least another couple of months of sticking by his side to help him through it. smh.
I just don't know what the hell he wants from me. It's been almost a damn year.
He wants the connection of talking everyday without seeing me or having sex.
I asked him if he was sexually attracted to me and he said yes. Then he asked how I could feel this way about him and we're not dating. I felt like telling him, the same way you can like someone and pretend like you don't.
He's never admitted anything to me, that he likes me, that he doesn't. Just wants me hanging around for support and conversations. I told him it won't work cause I'm attracted to him.
I told him I'n not trying to take him to Vegas and get married but if we are gonna be friends he needs to see me and I want sex. 😆
We'll see how that goes.
I told him that I take things day by day, but the basics need to be met in this friendship
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I guess I'll just start being more demanding and annoying so he can cut me off.
It's like a never-ending cycle with him. I hate being strung along, which is why I just tried cutting him off and now his family member died and I'm roped right back in again.
@hazyFlo You know as simple as you guys pretend to be, you guys really aren't. This is the second Aqua that I've dealt with that had the same issues of just going with the flow and doing things naturally.
Both of their charts were similar, almost identical.
I don't understand why we can't just hang out, have fun, have sex and be friends. What the fuck is the big deal. 😢
Both of their charts were similar, almost identical.
I don't understand why we can't just hang out, have fun, have sex and be friends. What the fuck is the big deal. 😢
Posted by MoonshineLeoNo no. She's definitely not "in the wrong" at all. And she is hooking up with the best friend because we have mutual friends and I hear the 411. She told me she can't be and doesn't want romance with anyone right now and then 3 weeks later she was banging him. Maybe that was her way of saying she doesn't want anything with me but then she has acted as I've described above. I have compassion for her and I know she's hurting and grieving but I think it's my responbiljty as a man to say hey this is what I want and I want to see where it goes and if you're not interested, I can't do this anymore. Please only contact me if you change your mind.
Dude her boyfriend just passed away!
like get it through your head its not about you at allll, im sure she still wants you in her life and you're not like in this "friend zone" that you think. You need to be more patient, i honestly dont see how shes in the wrong when she needs time to get over her boyfriend passing away, that could take up to a year.
If you want her in your life you would need to be there for her through this difficult time, maybe then will she grow feelings for you.
And i dont think she is hooking up with the bestfriend, maybe shes sees him as comfort?
I was just writing because I didn't know if Aquarius is the type to put themselves back in your/my oribit.
Posted by saggurl88Confusing aquas. Sheesh I know it's difficult to be the one to walk away and I think it's harder to be that then the leaves behind. Sometimes it's tough though and I can't figure out why the hell I still think about her and miss her. Iim sure il find someone whom I connect with soon and then this will all just fade but ...:Posted by hazyFloPosted by saggurl88He wants the connection and sex, not commitment. If He wanted to be serious he would of done it by now, but instead feeds you excuses to keep you around.Posted by hazyFloFlo, what does this mean?Posted by waterbearer_fem
She's an Aqua! We appreciate friendship more than anything else. To reject her friendship means rejection of her personally and that's what she did: she took it personally and was hurt because you don't have the guts to build up on your friendship first.
I recently told myself I couldn’t do the friendship bs with someone because the feelings are too strong.
I just told the exact same thing to the Aqua I'm talking to. I told him that Wednesday and he reached out yesterday (Sat).
I'm confused and he seems to be confused too. All he says is I don't know what to tell you.
I asked him what he expected out of our friendship and he said "he doesn't know"
We were in exactly the same place as when I told him I couldn't do this anymore. Then he sent me a message saying another family member has died. Now I'm roped into at least another couple of months of sticking by his side to help him through it. smh.
I just don't know what the hell he wants from me. It's been almost a damn year.
He doesn't want the sex either, he cut that out too lol
He wants the connection of talking everyday without seeing me or having sex.
I asked him if he was sexually attracted to me and he said yes. Then he asked how I could feel this way about him and we're not dating. I felt like telling him, the same way you can like someone and pretend like you don't.
He's never admitted anything to me, that he likes me, that he doesn't. Just wants me hanging around for support and conversations. I told him it won't work cause I'm attracted to him.
I told him I'n not trying to take him to Vegas and get married but if we are gonna be friends he needs to see me and I want sex. 😆
We'll see how that goes.
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I think if you feel like you need to set your boundary and explain this is what I want and if you're not willing to give me that, I need to go find someone who will who values me is 100% all in and avaible. I can't do that if I'm spending time with you.
Posted by iFemmeI don't understand. How do I hurt her? If anything, I was the one that was led on.Posted by Libra1984There is a conflict in your behaviour. You want something more than friendship and yet, you hurt her.Posted by iFemmeI'm sorry how could they not be anymore clear to her? I was very direct in what I wanted.
Are you sure, that your intentions are clear to her?
Would you be willing to have romance with a woman who's hurting you?click to expand
Hurt her by setting my boundary and telling her what I want? This is where I don't understand how she's the one so hurt and angry..:
Explain?
Posted by iFemmeYou meaning me or you meaning the both of us because I've been pretty straight forward about how I felt and what I want. She just didn't give me the time to talk with her face to face.Posted by Libra1984I don't know. Must be something you said to her. Anyway, it's obvious that you can't communicate easily, you don't 'get' each other. And, people don't change... in case you wonder, is this may work between you two later on.Posted by iFemmeI don't understand. How do I hurt her? If anything, I was the one that was led on.Posted by Libra1984There is a conflict in your behaviour. You want something more than friendship and yet, you hurt her.Posted by iFemmeI'm sorry how could they not be anymore clear to her? I was very direct in what I wanted.
Are you sure, that your intentions are clear to her?
Would you be willing to have romance with a woman who's hurting you?
Hurt her by setting my boundary and telling her what I want? This is where I don't understand how she's the one so hurt and angry..:
Explain?
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This is all probably lost cause anyways because I don't even know if she thinks about me or misses me anyways. It's been four months and we've barely spoken on the phone or face to face. I would have figured if I was that important or it bothered you enough, you would reach out or call or text by now. I don't want to come off needy or pathetic but I've thought about texting her myself. I just think it would be weird....
Posted by Libra1984Soo youre pushing her away so she can chase you? yea idk about that one...if you wanted to be understanding and there for her you would of respected her wishes and left it at that, but instead you go and block her ?? Am i missing something? the way you handled that doesn't seem very responsible...Posted by MoonshineLeoNo no. She's definitely not "in the wrong" at all. And she is hooking up with the best friend because we have mutual friends and I hear the 411. She told me she can't be and doesn't want romance with anyone right now and then 3 weeks later she was banging him. Maybe that was her way of saying she doesn't want anything with me but then she has acted as I've described above. I have compassion for her and I know she's hurting and grieving but I think it's my responbiljty as a man to say hey this is what I want and I want to see where it goes and if you're not interested, I can't do this anymore. Please only contact me if you change your mind.
Dude her boyfriend just passed away!
like get it through your head its not about you at allll, im sure she still wants you in her life and you're not like in this "friend zone" that you think. You need to be more patient, i honestly dont see how shes in the wrong when she needs time to get over her boyfriend passing away, that could take up to a year.
If you want her in your life you would need to be there for her through this difficult time, maybe then will she grow feelings for you.
And i dont think she is hooking up with the bestfriend, maybe shes sees him as comfort?
I was just writing because I didn't know if Aquarius is the type to put themselves back in your/my oribit.
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Posted by hazyFloI am so sorry I don't take dxp as seriously as you doPosted by Libra1984Don’t listen to her she’s fuckin weird..Posted by LibWmanI don't even know what that means...lol
Aquariums are inanimate objects which house sea life
Anyways, there’s red flags everywhere about your situation. The problem may not be that she doesn’t want something serious, the problem is she doesn’t want that with you and sees you as a friend. You might have been friend zoned.
How is it that’s shes okay fuckin the ex best friend but not you? I think she was trying to let you down easily but you keep pushing it and she’s getting pissed. She also sounds immature and confused.click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoWait. Pushing her away? Is that really what it seems? No I guess my thought was if you wanted something and if you felt something genuine, you (being her) would make the effort to whenever and if ever that day would come, you would reach out. Respected her wishes of hey be my friend?Posted by Libra1984Soo youre pushing her away so she can chase you? yea idk about that one...if you wanted to be understanding and there for her you would of respected her wishes and left it at that, but instead you go and block her ?? Am i missing something? the way you handled that doesn't seem very responsible...Posted by MoonshineLeoNo no. She's definitely not "in the wrong" at all. And she is hooking up with the best friend because we have mutual friends and I hear the 411. She told me she can't be and doesn't want romance with anyone right now and then 3 weeks later she was banging him. Maybe that was her way of saying she doesn't want anything with me but then she has acted as I've described above. I have compassion for her and I know she's hurting and grieving but I think it's my responbiljty as a man to say hey this is what I want and I want to see where it goes and if you're not interested, I can't do this anymore. Please only contact me if you change your mind.
Dude her boyfriend just passed away!
like get it through your head its not about you at allll, im sure she still wants you in her life and you're not like in this "friend zone" that you think. You need to be more patient, i honestly dont see how shes in the wrong when she needs time to get over her boyfriend passing away, that could take up to a year.
If you want her in your life you would need to be there for her through this difficult time, maybe then will she grow feelings for you.
And i dont think she is hooking up with the bestfriend, maybe shes sees him as comfort?
I was just writing because I didn't know if Aquarius is the type to put themselves back in your/my oribit.
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What do you mean "block her". I've stated what I wanted because being her friend became too hard for me. She has my number. If it was that important, don't you think she would reach out?
I think setting boundaries in relationships and being open about how you feel and honesty is very responsible and with all due respect how I think adult relationships work. You don't?
I know it seems harsh that in her time of need or grieving I would give her an altimatum but then again I was and still upset that you tell me these things about not doing anything romantic and then u start hooking up with his best friend on the reg.. I felt lied too and that stung
Posted by tizianiWe had very natural fun childish chemistry together. We smile and have a lot of fun together. We share love of reading and writing music philosophy eastern religions. You meet someone and you just really click.
What were your shared interests? Because the rest of the story sounds grim and it's hard to see where your attraction to her comes into play.
Posted by tizianiI understand. It was on until I put my foot down to say no more mixed signals no more games what's the deal. I like spending time with you and going out together and whatever else but I want something more and that is when all the drama started.Posted by Libra1984Well I don't know man. You say you miss her but probably 95% of what you wrote about your time together is bad news compared to these two lines.Posted by tizianiWe had very natural fun childish chemistry together. We smile and have a lot of fun together. We share love of reading and writing music philosophy eastern religions. You meet someone and you just really click.
What were your shared interests? Because the rest of the story sounds grim and it's hard to see where your attraction to her comes into play.
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Posted by waterbearer_femI said earlier that I've not spoken to her in four months and I unfriended her on social media. She still yesterday commented on a post I wrote on friends wall and "liked" my comment about a book I suggested and then said "Hey (my name) you should read this book if you really love that author. It's good stuff and I know you would love it."Posted by Libra1984She will be back if she feels some kind of urgency. I'd leave it at that as well if I were in your shoes.
My point in all this rambling is is Aquarius the type to come back around if even there was a little interest? I have no intention of contact and moving on.
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Is that Aquarius trying to put herself into my orbit? I would have thought you got the hint when I unfriended you that I'm serious about not wanting to be just friends?
Posted by Aquarelleas an aquarius myself
I didn't read all the comments due to lack of time. I can offer you my perspective as an Aquarius though. Personally I click really well with Libra men and somehow we always seem to get along really well. Probably because both are Air signs and we have the same interestes, basically the same way of communicating etc. It can make you feel very "at home"with each other. But that doesn't mean that there's always more than friendship.
From your story I get the impression that you want to be more than friends and your Aqua friend just wants to be friends and nothing else. I've had people confuse my friendship for something more while there were no romantic feelings involved from my side. I am beginning to feel the same thing is happening to you.
My guess is she still wants to be friends with you, share books, philosophy and music, but she doesn't want to be romantic or physical with you. To an Aqua, friendship can mean more sometimes than a relationship. I think your firendship means a lot to her, so much that she doesn't want to turn it into a relationship. Because that would ruin the friendship all together. I know this may be hard to understand but I don't know how else to put it.
I think you both differ in where that line is being drawn between friends and "more". I think that's where the confusion comes from.
The only way I can see this going anywhere is when you accept that you cannot be more than friends. If there are too many feelings involved form your side then it may be better to step back and keep your distance for a while. It will be hard but you have to let go.
i would never want to be "friends" with males who are attracted to me and want more
so that i can keep them on a STRING?
that's some serious shit you are pulling, when you have to keep stringing men along when you have NO intentions of doing more.
in my book, that's a no no. and i dont give two fucks about friendship that way.
you all take that to another level to serve your ego, when you dont consider other people's feelings.
i would seriously be PISSED off if someone kept stringing me along and NO intentions of taking it further.
so this is really bad advise in my opinion because of the selfishness.
and i've never been attracted to libra men in friendship or relationship, and i'm not married to one. so maybe just you. so don't pull the rest of us in, just because of "air" sign thing. because that's the truth on my end.
if i know for a fact the other man starts showing signs of attraction and love, and i feel NOTHING?
i will either :
1) USE YOU and abuse you and that is BAD.
2) or LEAVE.
but in the first place if you were just a 'friend" you should have stayed there. or else get USED.
luckily if you found a woman who has a CONSCIENCE and doesn't USE you, you are lucky.
and i will go for other men I am in love with ..while USING your ass!! (if i am a bad woman)
trust me, that's what bad women do.
i will either :
1) USE YOU and abuse you and that is BAD.
2) or LEAVE.
but in the first place if you were just a 'friend" you should have stayed there. or else get USED.
luckily if you found a woman who has a CONSCIENCE and doesn't USE you, you are lucky.
and i will go for other men I am in love with ..while USING your ass!! (if i am a bad woman)
trust me, that's what bad women do.
OP i'm tellng you TRUTHFULLY if i had a brother and he was going through this shit,
i would see through that bullshit, or my son gets involved. you better believe it i'm gonna warn your ass.
you better be careful out there with your heart because there are women who really want to be with you and NOT string you along.
i would see through that bullshit, or my son gets involved. you better believe it i'm gonna warn your ass.
you better be careful out there with your heart because there are women who really want to be with you and NOT string you along.
Posted by lisabethur8I know. I understand all that. That's why I walked away from her by her way is start liking all my Facebook posts after a month and then commenting on my shit. I don't know how to convey that you don't want something more than move on with your life and stop trying to eek your way back in. Do I have to block her? That sounds so immature but I want to seriously get my point across.Posted by Aquarelleas an aquarius myself
I didn't read all the comments due to lack of time. I can offer you my perspective as an Aquarius though. Personally I click really well with Libra men and somehow we always seem to get along really well. Probably because both are Air signs and we have the same interestes, basically the same way of communicating etc. It can make you feel very "at home"with each other. But that doesn't mean that there's always more than friendship.
From your story I get the impression that you want to be more than friends and your Aqua friend just wants to be friends and nothing else. I've had people confuse my friendship for something more while there were no romantic feelings involved from my side. I am beginning to feel the same thing is happening to you.
My guess is she still wants to be friends with you, share books, philosophy and music, but she doesn't want to be romantic or physical with you. To an Aqua, friendship can mean more sometimes than a relationship. I think your firendship means a lot to her, so much that she doesn't want to turn it into a relationship. Because that would ruin the friendship all together. I know this may be hard to understand but I don't know how else to put it.
I think you both differ in where that line is being drawn between friends and "more". I think that's where the confusion comes from.
The only way I can see this going anywhere is when you accept that you cannot be more than friends. If there are too many feelings involved form your side then it may be better to step back and keep your distance for a while. It will be hard but you have to let go.
i would never want to be "friends" with males who are attracted to me and want more
so that i can keep them on a STRING?
that's some serious shit you are pulling, when you have to keep stringing men along when you have NO intentions of doing more.
in my book, that's a no no. and i dont give two fucks about friendship that way.
you all take that to another level to serve your ego, when you dont consider other people's feelings.
i would seriously be PISSED off if someone kept stringing me along and NO intentions of taking it further.
so this is really bad advise in my opinion because of the selfishness.
and i've never been attracted to libra men in friendship or relationship, and i'm not married to one. so maybe just you. so don't pull the rest of us in, just because of "air" sign thing. because that's the truth on my end.
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yeah she sounds like she is using you. her ego wants the attention. cause she knows you want her. Ego does that to alot of people, they LOVE the attention and it's selfish.
try to be strong and move on to someone who wants more from what you would offer in a loving relationship.
you have to be strong or else get used and you will end up hating yourself and resenting her.
try to be strong and move on to someone who wants more from what you would offer in a loving relationship.
you have to be strong or else get used and you will end up hating yourself and resenting her.
Posted by Aquarelle
I didn't read all the comments due to lack of time. I can offer you my perspective as an Aquarius though. Personally I click really well with Libra men and somehow we always seem to get along really well. Probably because both are Air signs and we have the same interestes, basically the same way of communicating etc. It can make you feel very "at home"with each other. But that doesn't mean that there's always more than friendship.
From your story I get the impression that you want to be more than friends and your Aqua friend just wants to be friends and nothing else. I've had people confuse my friendship for something more while there were no romantic feelings involved from my side. I am beginning to feel the same thing is happening to you.
My guess is she still wants to be friends with you, share books, philosophy and music, but she doesn't want to be romantic or physical with you. To an Aqua, friendship can mean more sometimes than a relationship. I think your firendship means a lot to her, so much that she doesn't want to turn it into a relationship. Because that would ruin the friendship all together. I know this may be hard to understand but I don't know how else to put it.
I think you both differ in where that line is being drawn between friends and "more". I think that's where the confusion comes from.
The only way I can see this going anywhere is when you accept that you cannot be more than friends. If there are too many feelings involved form your side then it may be better to step back and keep your distance for a while. It will be hard but you have to let go.
I mean I understand all that. There was intense physical attraction because like I stated before I turned down her sexual advance a number of times previously because it wasn't a good time and she just got out of a terrible relationship. I am accepting that we can't be friends. I am walking away and never looking back.
I guess if one day she wanted to be friends again fine but by continually trying to "nonchalantly" put herself in my orbit, you aren't allowing me to do that. Give me awhile. I care about her. I need some room for Christ sake if you want to be friends in the future. You feel me? You are pushing my friendship away by trying to continue to do everything you can to stay connected.
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