Love him and let him go...

The funny thing is, I've asked him about being elusive and he told me that hes so busy when he does have free time he just does "him" things and I told him if he didn't have romantic feelings for to just tell me and it was okay I'd just rather know to which he replied " You worry too much. "

After 10 years, I am walking away with nothing but fond memories... I feel like I am losing the friendship component all together and it sucks.

Thanks. I have others who are interested but I didn't want to pursue any of it until he and I talked in person but he just doesn't want to, I guess.

He can be. It hurts because he feels like home and is truly wonderful but he doesn't have much responsibility other than his job.

I miss him terribly.

Just conversing and being present together.