Me Aqua, He Virgo..oh my!

Well I've tried posting here a few times without much success, so here I am again.

I am a aqua female seeing a virgo male & so far so good, you know how virgos are lol. And I've read it here how aquas are as well.

I know mostly I am just feeling insecure but my virgo male is/was having financial problems & is now talking about moving in with an ex g/f who he went out with for 5 years. She lives closer to his work, he can live there rent free & so forth.

I always knew he kept contact with her from our 1st day together & that didn't bother me. Him living with her does. I somehow feel in the back of my brain though I shouldn't say anything to him about his choices. I am afraid of making him feel 'boxed in' & we have no commitment so how can I?

I guess my question is, he says he really does not want to live with her but plans on doing it just a few months till he saves enuf $ $ $ to move into his own place closer to work. He claims they have not slept together in 2 yrs - this I believe for some reason. I somehow feel however if he is living there he'll be more apt at doing things with her than with me. We're very close & I know he feels comfortable with me. But will he drive the 1 1/2 hrs on the weekend to do things with me? Will he still call at least 1-2 X per day?

Not sure what to do from here, but my mouth is closed for now at least lol.

actually, for you aqua out there, if you know what virgo is, they are super loyal, they do almost anything to make the relation happen if they have to. and if he truly loves you, he will listen to everyword you say, even tho hes not showing he understands you, but deep inside he listen to every words and just trying to process out all the information you giving her. just dont act engry at him b/c he will get confuse. and he will forget the main issue and working on why you are angry at him.