Mixed signals or disinterest?

I used to see this aquarius guy for 5 months, and we had a break up in April. I stopped all contacts with him until he popped up again and started talking to me again in June. As we talk I asked him if we are gonna start seeing each other again, and I told him I won't if he is with anyone. He said "I'm single", so I assume he likes us to see each other again. But then its been almost two months now since we started talking to each other, he would flirt with me and sexting but we still haven't see each other one on one. He would ignore me in two occasions that we saw each other but at the same day we would text each other and flirt on text. I'm confuse with the mixed signals he is giving me, I thought if he only wants sex from me, then why he hasn't see me yet to have sex with me? Or maybe he is really not interested anymore? Then why even appear and talk to me, flirt and sexting with me? OH this aqua man is so confusing I wanna ignore him too but I'm so in love with him. He has venus and moon in Capricorn if that helps.

If a man wants to see you, he will see you. If he doesn't, he wont. Actions speak louder than words.

I know. On July 15 I texted him that the summer camp was super fun, it's the same event he was supposed to be in but because of his work he did not join, then July 17 he just showed up without giving any notice. I was surprised and didn't expect that he will go there. I asked him why he came that day. And his response was that he was visiting the kids that was part of the event. I think though he visited to see them he also wanted to see me how I'm mingling with the people in the camp. I was there for a week. Then the next day he came to the camp again, didn't talk to me but I always catch him in the corner of my eye staring at me or checking what I'm doing or who I'm talking to. It's weird and yet he ignored me the whole time but texted me that day.

Been there, done that. I was once interested in an Aquarius whom would also send me mixed signals. Comes out, he was in love with his ex still and attempted to work things out with her but it failed because she's in love with someone else (I had to find out on the internet). After that situation, I totally exited him out of my life, bad part is, he goes to the same college as me. Air signs lowkey like people who are clingy, and for instance, you're giving them the exact attention that he wants that maybe 'another' women whom he may wish he pursues with isn't giving him any. I'm not saying all Aquarius, but Aquarius liked to have their cake and eat it too. So if someone is giving them the attention that they wanted, their mentality would be like 'why should I even try?At the end of the day she will always come back.' Aquarius have this charming spell because they're very charismatic people, don't be trapped on that spell. My advice to you is, cut him off quickly as soon as possible, if you want to cut him off in a way of addressing him on his weird mixed signals...you go do that but I may warn you, they will not care (esp when they can detect emotions being display through your rant) or you can cut him off silently. Aquarius hate the fact that you're not giving them attention, do what he did to you. Don't give them that attention, do your own thing, and they'll weasel their way back. But keep in mind, if you do this and they want to be back into your radar again, make them work for it. That also means, no more sexting, sex, etc.

^I hope you know that you described men in general where you said that men don't make effort with women who readily make themselves available meanwhile they chase the ones that are not paying any heed to them. Just sayin. Not an aqua thing. This particular trait can be found in all men.

Or I can just describe from my experience of an Aquarius man. but okay 🙂

Mixed signals = emotionally unavailable for various reasons. Therefore, I would chalk that to disinterest and move on.