Moon in Cancer, Venus in Aquarius,Mars in Scorpio Relationship Patterns (Starz and love)

Removing/lowering expectations of your partner is not easy, especially for women because women are programmed to think that if they don’t have expectations they won’t be respected or treated right. But the opposite actually gives results so women keep your norms up and don’t settle for less than absolute best.

Please don’t blame your boyfriend if he does not give what you expected.Sometimes your cues are so mixed up and of that he does not even know what it is that you expect, and sometimes it simply is not in his capacity to give. Nicely ask what you need and be damn sure that you will get it if he is able to give you this. Men never lie, men always say the best thing about them is the fact that they do not sugarcoat the truth, they never lead anyone on. Men say when they are not ready for relationship,marriage,when they are after a fling.

Self help books trying to explain how they will never be ready will just bring you further in illusions hoping that if you play him and deceive him you might trick him.

This is also wrong. Wonder why? Because you will end up losing someone you cared once he finds out you played him. After all lying and being deceitful and playing games rates high on the relationship/marriage top sins.

Be realistic in your evaluation of him when you first start dating him. Once you start sleeping with him you will be high on hormones that you will forgive him half of the things you might seem to notice when you haven’t slept with him. So be quick to judge him if you plan to sleep with him. Ask him all the mandatory questions on the first few dates and hope he will answer you with 100% honesty. Don’t expect him to give you something he does not have. You cannot expect cow to give you eggs. Boyfriend can offer only what he is. Ask him. Straight out make it clear and known to him what you expect and want from him.

Want to travel? Tell him. Want to see him everyday? Say that you expect it, ask if he thinks he will be able to do it to meet your needs. Tell him you need to see girlfriends and regularly go out of the town, is that ok with him. Say that you have plenty of men after you, ask if it bothers him. When you don’t make anything known to him, yet you have high expectations you are stressed and acting like a train wreck.

When you are honest you are soft, inviting, grateful and easy to please and that attracts him. He becomes motivated to do the right thing for you without you even asking just because he is hooked on getting high on your approval and gratitude you show once he does the right thing. Thank you does miracles, practice this miracle word often. Thank him for everything.

Also be cute aloof feminine and self confident… My experience has taught me that the more confident you are about your desirability the less you need assurance from your partner and the easier your relationship is. Also the dating process is easier on both .When you are sweet you can attract him emotionally to open up to you, and that he is less inspired to look for other women. Men also want to fall in love. They need sex admiration and fantasy woman. They are also prone to fantasies yet their fantasy is about woman who is not a stalker and who can manage her own time by herself also when he is away without calling, interrupting, begging, texting, yelling and nagging.

So there, it is TRUE one thing.

It ALL starts from you! Not him. No man can make you feel loved if you don’t have that capacity to love yourself within yourself. If you are the women men adore, your relationship will be easy and smooth sailing because you have the power over yourself, and then also adversely over him in the relationship. Your self-control is high. You are pleasure to be with. All the insecurities you see in advance and you get rid of them because you do not want them to become a turn of and deal breaker with your man. Little lack of self-confidence and self-esteem kills the sex drive and in a long term romance yet if you are super hot yet insecure this might in the beginning serve as a turn on. Once you get a hang of insecurities and what it means for men that you are insecure, everything becomes easy. Your man eats out of your hand so easy it is.