My Aquariud man was suddenly fussy last night

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Hi i am Libra woman,been dating with Aqua man for a month.

We have good times together n spend times doing nice things together.

Sometimes he cud be so open and emotional about his feeling like saying he really likes me,and so gratefull he can share many things with me.i love it when he tell me his feelings.

We text each other almost daily.but sometimes i let him doing his things n i understand it if he sometimes not really excited to text.i know he need his spaces

Last night i went to our fav place alone to have some beers after work whole day,we didnt talk bcz we were busy working.But then he texted me n asked if i was in our fav place i said yes n he joined me for drinking.afterwards he brought me to his fav resto for dinner n then back to his place.

We talked about so many things n planned some things to do together this weekend.it was late in the night he said he was tired n wanted to sleep so i asked him if he wanted me to leave so he cud rest.Suddenly he got a bit upset n he felt that i made distance.but he also mentioned that i texted him all the timez.i really confused n dont understand what he meant.seemed like he complained that i made distance with him which its not true i thought it was him that made distance.we argued about that n i decided to leave but he stopped me n asked me to stay with him last night so i stayed.

Im still confused about his behavior last night.i never seen him upset before

This morning he acted normal n i told him im not happy we got fight last night n he said its alright sometimes it happens he said

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Thanks! 🙂

Yes he said excatly the same like u said,from first time we met he told me to be myself with him bcz he likes me the way i am.so i keep being myself n it feels so good.

Are you Libra too?

If yes then i guess understand how Libra really likes to talk n spends times with somebody they like.I do.but since we had fight last night im a bit worried if im too clingy to him.but i wwnt him to know that i try my best to not being clingy n give him spaces whenever he needs it.But maybe im still too clingy n need to resist to not texting him too much..

What shud i do to make him feeling more comfortable and not feeling insecure with me?

I sent him text this morning after i came back home from his place,i said im sorry we got fight last night n i asked him about what he meant about he thought i made distance with him but then he also seemed complained about i texyed him all the times.and i asked if im too clingy..he hasnt answered my questions bcz he said he needed to get ready to work today..so now i just can wait untill he text me n talk about my message..im feeling nervous n worried now..

Big question in my head is : Why did he say he felt that i made distance while he also said i texted him all the time?
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Posted by Yoctapra
Thanks! 🙂

Yes he said excatly the same like u said,from first time we met he told me to be myself with him bcz he likes me the way i am.so i keep being myself n it feels so good.

Are you Libra too?

If yes then i guess understand how Libra really likes to talk n spends times with somebody they like.I do.but since we had fight last night im a bit worried if im too clingy to him.but i wwnt him to know that i try my best to not being clingy n give him spaces whenever he needs it.But maybe im still too clingy n need to resist to not texting him too much..

What shud i do to make him feeling more comfortable and not feeling insecure with me?

I sent him text this morning after i came back home from his place,i said im sorry we got fight last night n i asked him about what he meant about he thought i made distance with him but then he also seemed complained about i texyed him all the times.and i asked if im too clingy..he hasnt answered my questions bcz he said he needed to get ready to work today..so now i just can wait untill he text me n talk about my message..im feeling nervous n worried now..

Big question in my head is : Why did he say he felt that i made distance while he also said i texted him all the time?
Well Aqua males will put you through tests to see if you are who you say you are. That's why I said for you to just be you; stay warm and loving to him.

I'm a Sun Capricorn with a Libra Moon so yea I like to talk and am clingy with the one I love. I also live in my head too.

He may not be insecure with you in particular. I'm saying that Aqua men at times can be insecure within themselves.... For example, u slowed down on your texting to him when he was used to you texting him often. To him, it could be a MILLION things going on in his mind as to WHY u stopped texting him often like u used to. One reason could be: Is she interested in or talking to someone else?

I believe that once you start thinking like an Aquarius, you'll be fine. You'll understand him.
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I do love him as the way he is. But he also said he is not looking for a relationship at the moment but he wud like to stay friends with me n meet me so i guess Aqua man likes to have friendship first before they decide to love somebody?

Anyway about u mentioned about what he wud think if i slowed down my texting to him.So is it good think or not if he thinks im texting another guy or interested with other guy?

Im also confused with his behavior,he treats me like im his girlfriend.seriously.but he said he is not looking for relationship..from beginning he told me he cant kiss,cuddle or sex with more than one girl at a time.And he kisses me,hugged me,cuddles with me n sex with me.But i can feel sex is not everything bcz we often also just cuddle n sleep together n we do nice things together also.what does Aqua wants from me with this ?

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You are fine. It's a good that he wants to be friends first. He treats u like his girlfriend b/c low-key you actually are lol.

So ride along with him. Let him lead the relationship. My Aqua will one minute treat me like his friend and then his girlfriend. It's normal. But remember that even though he says you all are 'friends', do not claim or act like you are giving other guys attention. This will make him a little jealous. For Aqua, the word friends is very big for them. Even when they 'wife you', they will still

Consider you as a friend.

Sex is something that Aquas love to do. Your guy may really think you are very very special to him b/c he would prefer to cuddle/sleep with you. That's not a bad thing. This shows too that you are dealing with a mature Aqua guy. My Aqua guy is very mature and does not treat me like a piece of ass. We have fun together in and out the bed.

How old is he and when is his birthday? My Aqua bday is Feb. 6.
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Posted by CapLovinAquaz
You are fine. It's a good that he wants to be friends first. He treats u like his girlfriend b/c low-key you actually are lol.

So ride along with him. Let him lead the relationship. My Aqua will one minute treat me like his friend and then his girlfriend. It's normal. But remember that even though he says you all are 'friends', do not claim or act like you are giving other guys attention. This will make him a little jealous. For Aqua, the word friends is very big for them. Even when they 'wife you', they will still

Consider you as a friend.

Sex is something that Aquas love to do. Your guy may really think you are very very special to him b/c he would prefer to cuddle/sleep with you. That's not a bad thing. This shows too that you are dealing with a mature Aqua guy. My Aqua guy is very mature and does not treat me like a piece of ass. We have fun together in and out the bed.

How old is he and when is his birthday? My Aqua bday is Feb. 6.
wow, you seem to really know your aqua man to a tea hey!

my moon in aqua struggle to understand my aqua... i think its like i can't understand myself at times too lol

i just unintionally fwb my aqua guy lol... though thats coz he said he cud't be exclusive with me..though asked me to behave when i had to drop one of my guys friend home...

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this story is indeed very cute..

aqua is a sensitive soul..i think esp in the beginning when things r a little unclear ...

yes just keep being you... i think libra goes well with him because u dun mind doing the contacting...him first...like making moves on him..

aqua doesn't mind being chased...

i struggle with that ALOT so i don't see me and my aqua working out as much...

so keep being you, enjoy it as it is...

i do think giving him space after u had an intimate night is a little funny though...

give him space when apart...when together give it YOUR ALL

🙂

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Posted by CapLovinAquaz
You are fine. It's a good that he wants to be friends first. He treats u like his girlfriend b/c low-key you actually are lol.

So ride along with him. Let him lead the relationship. My Aqua will one minute treat me like his friend and then his girlfriend. It's normal. But remember that even though he says you all are 'friends', do not claim or act like you are giving other guys attention. This will make him a little jealous. For Aqua, the word friends is very big for them. Even when they 'wife you', they will still

Consider you as a friend.

Sex is something that Aquas love to do. Your guy may really think you are very very special to him b/c he would prefer to cuddle/sleep with you. That's not a bad thing. This shows too that you are dealing with a mature Aqua guy. My Aqua guy is very mature and does not treat me like a piece of ass. We have fun together in and out the bed.

How old is he and when is his birthday? My Aqua bday is Feb. 6.
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wow, you seem to really know your aqua man to a tea hey!

my moon in aqua struggle to understand my aqua... i think its like i can't understand myself at times too lol

i just unintionally fwb my aqua guy lol... though thats coz he said he cud't be exclusive with me..though asked me to behave when i had to drop one of my guys friend home...

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Wow @caplovinaquaz! U cud read my mind.!

Yes his way to treat me is sometimes so confusing me sometimes he treats me like normal friend,n then he treats me like his gf.he is the sweetest man i ever met!

And i can feel that he is sometimes also confused about what he wants from us.i can see he was a bit worried if i made distance from him but then he said something different after like he said tried to not showing his real feeling which is so cute 🙂 i mean he often said we shud take it slow n no rush but he is the one who act like a lover.But mostly he treat me like lover when we are both alone..he doesnt really act like that in public,just sometimes like when we are having dinner he likes to hug me,touch me,kiss my hand or shoulder,rub my hair or just stares into my eyes n im dying hahahaha.he is so sweet ,isnt he?

So do u mean his "im not looking for a relationship" sentence is just to cover up n hide his real feeling?bcz his action is opposite from that..

He just turned 35 yo on 31st of January —
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Wow @caplovinaquaz! U cud read my mind.!

Yes his way to treat me is sometimes so confusing me sometimes he treats me like normal friend,n then he treats me like his gf.he is the sweetest man i ever met!

And i can feel that he is sometimes also confused about what he wants from us.i can see he was a bit worried if i made distance from him but then he said something different after like he said tried to not showing his real feeling which is so cute 🙂 i mean he often said we shud take it slow n no rush but he is the one who act like a lover.But mostly he treat me like lover when we are both alone..he doesnt really act like that in public,just sometimes like when we are having dinner he likes to hug me,touch me,kiss my hand or shoulder,rub my hair or just stares into my eyes n im dying hahahaha.he is so sweet ,isnt he?

So do u mean his "im not looking for a relationship" sentence is just to cover up n hide his real feeling?bcz his action is opposite from that..

He just turned 35 yo on 31st of January —
He is right. He is not looking for a relationship. He is looking for a friend. But understand that Aqua's language is different from all the other zodiac signs. They are huge on friendship, even when they get married. If there spouse is not a friend to them they will look for a friend somewhere else. So take it easy and be his best friend. That's all he needs right now is what he is saying. And being his best friend will lead you into a very long relationship with him.