Need serious help for my love with a Cancer girl

Hello all,

I am an aqua male, deeply in love with a cancer female for over 3 years. I know our signs don't match and completely opposite etc etc. But we are truly in deep love . But we have been facing problems for few months now and just a few days back she broke up with me. I'm devastated. I truly love her. Her sole reason was : She wants space and complete control on her life.

We were having problems on couple of things . She lies on my face . If i ask her a question , she is not comfortable with , she lies instantly without hesitation and that not only to me , to others also. This created a lot of trust issues. Then she starled lying about a male friend of her in her tuition. Like hanging out with him , taking notes from him etc but then if I ask her questions , she gets annoyed . Although she completely denies that she has anything to with him in terms of love or relationship and the fact that she loves me and me only . Even when she broke up she said she loves me and she won't be able to think of anyone else in terms of love.

But yet she broke up with me . I tried so many times. Went to her place to talk with her again and again. She just said she wants to be alone . Though we had fun as a couple like even few weeks back. Suddenly she has no feelings for me ? Suddenly she betrays me like this ? Just to stay alone ?


How can I win her back ? I just don't know. It's so pathetic . Two weeks back I caught her lying on my face again and yet I went back to her because I love her. I want things to be fixed. I miss her like mad.

Isn't it a bit selfish from her side? While she was breaking up with me , she was crying and telling she doesn;t want to lie anymore to me . SO i said then don't lie . JUst stay with me , We can start fresh . I will give you your space and whatever you want .

Please help me.

You don't want to win a liar back...

Please don't believe anything she says. The whole relationship is based on lies. Her feelings are too fickle to be real. You are only missing the few good moments you had... Please walk away my friend

Cancers side step any question they don't want to answer. Your intuition is telling you there is something going on between her and the other guy. Listen to that gut - it's seldom wrong.

Why would you want to be with someone who flat out lies to you? You can do so much better! You deserve someone who is honest and trustworthy.