ok so any opinions...

I was seeing another aqua for a while (he was my Fwb in my eyes...apparently he did not see it that way, I'm still not sure how he saw it) I had a brief stint with a leo,and I dropped said aqua once the leo became a prominent part of my life. The aqua told me I was an idiot for being with this guy...essentially, and at this point i must agree. We started seeing each other again quickly once I kicked the leo out. Now a few nights ago we had made plans to hang out on Monday and he cancelled (he has always cancelled every single Monday we've made plans) so I told him the arrangement wasn't working for me, thinking he must have some other "engagement" on Mondays. Turns out that, since he works as a bounty hunter, that is apparently the worst day of the week for them. Btw, he's aqua sun and venus, leo moon. He then told me about how he'd been dreading telling me something for a long time because he was afraid it would ruin how much fun we'd been having,and said he had feelings for me. It turns out he has to move a decent distance away in the winter, the latest spring. The problem I have is we kinda moved past the fwb stage, and I'm definitely swooning...I find myself with a big stupid grin every time one of us leaves the other. Part of me says to break it off before I get more attached, the other part says to enjoy it while it lasts. He seems quite eager to enjoy it while it lasts. Any opinions?

Ahh, just what I needed to hear. Still pains me though...dammit I wish he woulda told me before I fell. Ouch. Instead he decided to keep it all a secret so I could fall and be disappointed

I generally think men are action based. if they want to work out, they'll make a plan and stick with it. If they want a new car they'll do anything to get it and maintain it.

Applying it to dating...what kind of guy goes "oh god, i love her, she makes me so happy, we have so much fun...IM SCARED of being happy". Guys who aren't looking for anything serious.

only women do that shit, and some guys know its better than saying "i dont see you that way" (hoping to not lose you, they'll say a better version of the "truth" Of course i'm not saying men don't have emotional baggage, i dont think they even know what they are feeling till years later. So gauge him based on his actions: fact:he's seems based on the way you mentioned him generally only making excuses to not get involved. Not to say that those excuses arent true. I just dont see solid actions of a man in love going for the long haul. I see a man wanting you around because yes you guys are aweomse together. I see that he thinks its not the right time because of the move etc. However, its when a man makes the time that you'll know he likes you for the way you would want.

If it were me, i would stay and have fun. But im very good at compartmentalizing and not get attached. If it were me and i was looking for a long term relationship, then i would drop him.

Essentially, the only thing you have to figure out is what you want then set specific plan to get it.