Before you totally destroy the woman who confessed her pain, don't forget it was the boyfriend's partner who wanted the threesome. Stick to the facts. Stop passing judgements on people. Most men have the same fantasy. Would you rather have people making love or war? The world would be a much better place with the former. If it is between consenting adults, where is your problem? And please don't shove your religous bull-# $ % # $ in my face. She said she made a mistake, so all of you out there judging her never have?? She sounded like a nice person who was looking for some honest help, not to be called a bunch of hurtful names. GOOD GOING!!! See how many other people you can destroy!