Should I be worried?

That my Aqua guys friends all "wishing me luck"...

Firstly, I'm completely head-over-heels for the Aquarius guy that I'm dating.

I've meet his friends a few different times, in different settings (for dinner, at park, shows etc.) and as each one gets more comfortable with me they give me some version of the same speech.

"He is aloof/ difficult and can be a shit but he is a really great person. You could be so good for him. Good luck/ please stay around." (this ranges from "aloof" to "arrogant" to "mean" to "sometimes I can't fucking stand him")

It makes me wonder if he's done some seriously crappy things to women in the past.

Is it normal for your friends to talk about you like that?

oh boy, you have so much to learn about aquarius men.

I've been dealing with them all my life and i've just about sussed all that i can out. The part I don't understand well, que sera sera!

Take the positive from it. His friends like you, they know he's probably difficult, but hey, I think us Aquas are worth it.

I don't know too many other Aquarius guys, but i know the thing that gets me in "trouble" the most is that i will say things as accurately as i can, and this often means not sugar coating it. if he's anything similar, try not to hold it against him and take it at literal value, they're not trying to cause offence.