Should I give up?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by sunire16 on Saturday, July 29, 2017 and has 1 replies.

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@sunire16
9 Years

I know.. I made 2 posts earlier about the same guy. But this time I need advice.. as things are so messy right now and very out of places.. I don't understand, it has been 14months and I got stuck in the "back and forth". someone earlier told me that I created an illusion to myself thinking that he likes me even though there's no clear evidence.. but you know what? If something is meant to be , or supposed to be.. you can feel it from miles away.

Recently he blocked my number because my SMS didn't deliver. I know he doesn't like confrontation so I gave him times. We don't have friend on facebook now.. because I unfriended him.. thinking that if he sees my posts that would make him stresses even more , so I builded a wall. I gave him less attention, I did not talk to him or come up to him. And I can see him trying to break the wall that I've build. Whenever In a group chat, he keeps track of my conversations with everyone else. I saw him seen every of my conversations. Just my conversation, then he never seen anyone else. Yesterday, he talked to me very sweet, I replied normally. He laughed when everyone made a joke about me, then I found out that he told his friends about my confession, cuz his friends recently roasted us together, "these 2 are sweet couples".. . And even photoshop us together.. and what seems to bother me is that he said nothing and it seems like he's enjoying it..too?? Today.. he stands near my table. Came up to my table and write something on my desk, (ofc I was there sitting in my table) it seems like he wanted to say hi but could not, he then acted shy, and he's also provoke jealousy as well.. like trying to make me jealous... I don't understand, (he has stop being so cold now) I wanted to put the wall back down.. but I'm not ready for another heart breaking moment, yesterday he just lied to me about going to a party.. I'm not a big fan of "miscommunication"... until his younger brother(younger than a year) came and had a conversation with me..

I asked him should I move up..

he said "why? Why too soon"

I said I don't want to move on.. but if that is what he might want ,then I'm willing to do it..

he said "might? "

I was very curious to his younger brother facial expressions.. then he continued

"Whatever you do.. please don't give up on him, wait for this semester to end please!"

I'm totally lost at this point ...

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@Firefighter
9 Years

Yes you should

you seem to young to be confused by love. Trust me guys aren't going anywhere.

"In fact you have

....you know what "im not goining to go there. But little lady focuse on you. Find what makes you happy inside and nothing outside can break you down. Do what makes you happy. Do what makes you smile. Who care what some 1 feels or thinks. Just be you.