Simple yet Interesting Quote

"The scariest thing about distance is that you don't know whether they??ll miss you or forget you".

Can Aquas relate to this? I know they can be a little cold and distant very randomly, but are those the thoughts at come to your mind when you are in a relationship or like someone?

It depends on the reason for the distance

If he's going through something that doesn't involve me, I make sure to be extra understanding b/c there's nothing worse than somebody always making it about them even though you're the 1 whose really down & out.

If he's going through something that directly involves me (rocky relationship), then I may not like it but I'll respect it. With wisdom, you'll learn that if they left b/c of the distance that just provided time & opportunity to go be with someone else or not wanna be with you anymore at all, chances are that was going to happen eventually anyways.

So distance is a win/win sometimes. If they decide you are not worth it or that their inner problems are too powerful to have a fulfilling relationship, at least they can let you go now/early.

If they just need some thoughts to recharge & refuel, they will come back to the situation with a lot more spunk, fuel & energy. Energy they wouldn't have had if you wouldn't have respected the fact that they needed space.

I agree with Ceu that it's understandable to see distance as both a good thing or a negative thing. Both are understandable, given specific circumstances

I think even the most secure people have these thoughts. When someone who was once a part of your daily life/routine suddenly stops being a part of it, you notice & it does affect you. Maybe it shouldn't to the point where you're freaking out, going crazy & acting like your whole life revolves around them. But nonetheless, you do notice.

Well said, ceu.