lisabeth
@lisabethur8
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Posted by AquaNextDooroh look at you. a lovey dovey couple you both are. lol
My mothers moon is in aqua, same as my fathers. Both weren't all lovey dovey with me. But very practical and always supported me.
Posted by AquaMermaidthat's really awesome, AM.Posted by lisabethur8
this is really crucial that women should never have children unless they are willing to sacrifice ALOT.
This is true. Having a kid is not like having a pet. They need a lot of care,nurturing and attention. I've decided to be a full time mom when I have kids. But I'll work from home until they start going to school. It's not a sacrifice for me,it's the greatest joy of my life.click to expand
Posted by AquaMermaidthanks for sharing, AM.
I don't judge my parents by their sun sign. There are good and crappy parents in every sign.
Posted by AquaMermaiddon't worry about it.
How come what I shared got translated into an "abandonment issue"—
Posted by AquaMermaidi'm very earth dominant. so if i Judge and have an OPINION about what i said on here about children who grow up to be adults and put their parents down, the parents who have been there with them through the thick and the thin, didnt abandon them, didnt abuse them. And I read or hear their nasty ass remarks about their parents. Makes me think, "Ohhhhh yeahhhhh then you have NEVER known true abuse." it's like they are ungrateful.
Lisa can I be honest and straightforward with you? Sometimes you go overboard with your judging and assumptions about people.That's why you keep rubbing them the wrong way.I have always supported you even when at times when other people were mean to you. I feel you really say meanest things and then laugh it off.I have no abandonment issues. I've Cancer moon in 7th house. I live for partnership and romance. There is no fear. I lived alone a long time in intial days of my 20s and after my break up with my Scorp ex bf. If I had abandonment issues I wouldn't have left him at all. I stayed single and celibate for two years before I met my husband.
Posted by AquaMermaidare you still hanging ON to that?? 😕
No one has ever said that you are overly attached to your husband. Atleast I share his placements openly to everyone but you're so secretive that you don't even share it here with anyone. But then you keep questioning me how come my Cap moon husband was rushing things and I'm the slow one based on my chart information. You are so guarded and sensitive about your life but you over analyze other people's life. We are not objects of astrology study. If you don't allow other people to do it to you and your husband then you should respect other people's privacy too.
Posted by AquaMermaidok this is weird.
I am not worried what you say to others. I never was really but please don't direct it at me. I'm too protective about my loved ones.
Posted by AquaMermaidthe abandonment thing was just an afterthought.
I've never put you down or tried to take revenge. See you're assuming again. I didn't like when you translated my story into abandonment issue. I shared about my family Lisa.Everyone in my house was brought up close to family and we learnt to respect tradition. That overly aggressive and independent woman life isn't for me. I tried to live that but it didn't work. I know I value family life more. Now that isn't so hard to understand.I'm just saying there doesn't have to be an "issue" in everything.
Posted by AquaMermaidi crave emotional closeness. thats why i needed a man and a family that was like that. Well, i'm very happy with the outcome. 🙂
Well in that aspect my family is different. We're not poor by any means. Both my parents come from well do to families.Like I said, it's all about respecting the culture and tradition. My brother and I got most things we demanded from our parents, they never said no to us but they also taught us to value people and relations more than money. My parents are VERY emotional, I learnt protectiveness and respect for family from them. My mind may be a wild wild place but my heart is very old fashioned,lol.
Posted by AquaMermaidhm maybe she just came in there to rile me up.
Take off the boxing gloves ladies 😄 Please let's not fight.
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not to pinpoint here, FW....
but, if you were raised by loving grandparents, like your sweet grandmother, where was the abuse?? are you talking about the abuse that is "abandonment"?