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Posted by AquaNextDoor
My mothers moon is in aqua, same as my fathers. Both weren't all lovey dovey with me. But very practical and always supported me.
oh look at you. a lovey dovey couple you both are. lol
is that your new boyfriend, AquaNextDoor—
hmmm yeah......😕
i re-read what i wrote and i think FW's Aries moon, gemini mars just assumed the WORST.
there's alot of pent up feelings about your own mother, FW.
really honestly that's too bad. and it's terrible. 😢
it's very very good that you have wonderful grandparents though.
of all the years i've read stuff on dxp here, i've read lots of complaints about women on their mothers and the women's parents are different sun signs.
so i'm just thinking to myself, alot of people out there still have unresolved mother or father issues.
really really deeply and painfully. it's horrible. i dont think this can be healed/fixed unless they get some inside help.
it reminds me of my ex who had deep deep mother issues. He could NEVER heal from it.
this is really crucial that women should never have children unless they are willing to sacrifice ALOT.
that means, don't abandon your children, don't physically abuse or mentally abuse them either, make sure they have a healthy environment.
OR ELSE. they're gonna get alot of children pissed off as adults and blaming their parents for their pains.
parenting is hard work. Jeeeeeez. *smh*
I'm guessing lots of single folks out there readin this go, "i'm SO NOT having kids."
Posted by lisabethur8
this is really crucial that women should never have children unless they are willing to sacrifice ALOT.This is true. Having a kid is not like having a pet. They need a lot of care,nurturing and attention. I've decided to be a full time mom when I have kids. But I'll work from home until they start going to school. It's not a sacrifice for me,it's the greatest joy of my life.
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that's really awesome, AM.
there are European countries who believe strongly that the mother should be with their babies full time, such as Sweden laws have, where mothers who work (and helps for mothers who don't have a husband, partner ect) can take leave up to a year or two with pay. Not sure of the exact laws but they are strong in encouraging parent-child.
But still, according to alot of statistics, many Westerners are not having as much children, compared to third world countries.
this subject is a very very sensitive topic i notice.
alot of people who go to astrology, want to find answers why, and sometimes they want to understand why we choose this path and that path and why our parents are the way they are, and who we chose ect.
it's kind of religious, but not.
Posted by AquaMermaid
I don't judge my parents by their sun sign. There are good and crappy parents in every sign.
thanks for sharing, AM.
I did a post /topic the other day on Rockefeller, because over the weekend I was reading a bit on his biography - him being a huge tycoon, and in the oil industry.
I was really horrified reading that his Baptist mother beat him while he was tied up. His father was a con-artist according to other writers /biographers, and Wikipedia mention.
Still, plenty of that sun sign and moon sign and other placements have good upbringings and didnt go through that torture.
The only thing that stood out with him is that he became the most recognizable name in the U.S. as the "royaltys" there, next to the Kennedys, VanderBilts, Fords, Carnegies:
http://www.amazon.com/Six-Tycoons-Cornelius-Vanderbilt-Rockefeller/dp/1904905854
Six Tycoons: The Lives of John Jacob Astor, Cornelius Vanderbilt, Andrew Carnegie, John D. Rockefeller, Henry Ford and Joseph P. Kennedy.
i haven't read much of the Kennedys but they are also very very big.
is it me or do i detect that Scorpio dominant with libra in their charts are afraid of abandonment? 😕
something ive noticed; it's like an inner fear even though their parents did not abandon them at all.
lmao. 😆
i dont know why that hit me. It was so random. -_-
something i felt.
Posted by AquaMermaid
How come what I shared got translated into an "abandonment issue"—
don't worry about it.
it's just random like i said. it had nothing to do with what your post.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Lisa can I be honest and straightforward with you? Sometimes you go overboard with your judging and assumptions about people.That's why you keep rubbing them the wrong way.I have always supported you even when at times when other people were mean to you. I feel you really say meanest things and then laugh it off.I have no abandonment issues. I've Cancer moon in 7th house. I live for partnership and romance. There is no fear. I lived alone a long time in intial days of my 20s and after my break up with my Scorp ex bf. If I had abandonment issues I wouldn't have left him at all. I stayed single and celibate for two years before I met my husband.
i'm very earth dominant. so if i Judge and have an OPINION about what i said on here about children who grow up to be adults and put their parents down, the parents who have been there with them through the thick and the thin, didnt abandon them, didnt abuse them. And I read or hear their nasty ass remarks about their parents. Makes me think, "Ohhhhh yeahhhhh then you have NEVER known true abuse." it's like they are ungrateful.
it's just an opinion.
if you're upset over what FW said. If you read carefully. she just came here getting upset over what i said with children who put their parents down who have NOT abandoned them or treated them good, or even perhaps spoiled them.
Maybe their crime is spoiling.
And, did you read carefully what i wrote either. I mean, i said nothing mean to FW and she just came in here charging. I was like, HUH!!!!?? 😕
she was accusing me of being selfish. I'm like wha?? i was making an opinion on grown adults who put their parents down that have been good to them.
the ones who are cruel and abandoned them, well that's a given.
Posted by AquaMermaid
No one has ever said that you are overly attached to your husband. Atleast I share his placements openly to everyone but you're so secretive that you don't even share it here with anyone. But then you keep questioning me how come my Cap moon husband was rushing things and I'm the slow one based on my chart information. You are so guarded and sensitive about your life but you over analyze other people's life. We are not objects of astrology study. If you don't allow other people to do it to you and your husband then you should respect other people's privacy too.
are you still hanging ON to that?? 😕
my god, i had forgotten about that. I was like, okaaay that's great.
It's just that i was with a cap moon, so it automatically went to that. but then i composed myself and started to move away from MYSELF, outside myself and realize...ohhhh yeah everyone is different.
it's HARD to detach.UGH.
Posted by AquaMermaid
I am not worried what you say to others. I never was really but please don't direct it at me. I'm too protective about my loved ones.
ok this is weird.
what did i say mean about your husband—
i've had people on here call me names and put me down constantly. But i dont go and follow them around and get revenge.
and i'm like, why are you bothering with me?? if they dont like me, then block me. People usually start with me. But I guess I "touched a trigger"
*shrug*
that's all i can think of. I mean WHY get upset? and plus the things i wrote, is not in relation to THEM.
but they have to take it out on someone. Maybe bad day?? energy release. bad energy needs to get out too.
oooohhh is this in relation to the dominant Scorpio thing with libra in the charts that have abandonment issues?/
oh my god. you THOUGHT it was about your husband??
nooooo. i was thinking of my family members, and also people i have known, even my husband's family. It's just something I feel.
Nothing BAD. its something i feel. I can't help it. They have this deep fear.
it isn't about YOUR husband at all. I was thinking about my own circle of family and my husband's family.
Posted by AquaMermaid
I've never put you down or tried to take revenge. See you're assuming again. I didn't like when you translated my story into abandonment issue. I shared about my family Lisa.Everyone in my house was brought up close to family and we learnt to respect tradition. That overly aggressive and independent woman life isn't for me. I tried to live that but it didn't work. I know I value family life more. Now that isn't so hard to understand.I'm just saying there doesn't have to be an "issue" in everything.
the abandonment thing was just an afterthought.
like i mentioned below.
and that's awesome about your family.
I've lived with TWO types of family types. The POOR and the very well off, rich..
trust me, the RICH are cold and hard and while lots of materialism and great support, you shall never go hungry and you have what others dont have.
it can NEVER replace the warmth and love and closeness of the poor and full of loving support.
i love that!!!!
but i wish there was a way it could merge, because the rich have good food, transportation, money, good bed, clothing, ect.
and the poor, it's so hard, but the closenes is WONDERFUL. i loved it alot. I miss my grandparents too.
it's just like the U.S.Tycoons.
Lots of ROOMS in their mansion, and lots of cars, clothes but it's COLD ....sooooo cold. YUCK.
anyway, TRUE story for me.
people say that they want to be so rich.
YUCK. coldness.
all alone. and NO warmth.
i tried to google something with a bunch of family together huddled together in one big room, all so close together and laughing. Not much, but it's WARM and WONDERFUL.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Well in that aspect my family is different. We're not poor by any means. Both my parents come from well do to families.Like I said, it's all about respecting the culture and tradition. My brother and I got most things we demanded from our parents, they never said no to us but they also taught us to value people and relations more than money. My parents are VERY emotional, I learnt protectiveness and respect for family from them. My mind may be a wild wild place but my heart is very old fashioned,lol.
i crave emotional closeness. thats why i needed a man and a family that was like that. Well, i'm very happy with the outcome. 🙂
glad too you got yours, AM.
i love my other grandparents you know, and their family. they are wonderful too, but they too have learned how "cold" it is, so they have closeness in their families. If i tell them it was "Cold" they'd get UPSET because they gave me alot. But they wont understand, what i mean truly when i mean of love and closeness that comes by human interactions, and love and laughter, and the warmth that comes from it. One of my ex's who didnt have a good childhood, would get very jealous of my family background and when he met the rest of my extended family, and how close they are. He would say how he WISHED he had that. It was so sad.
My grandparents on my fathers side came from wealth, so they had a kind of snooty attitude that the rich only have. but over the generations it has changed thank god.
emotional closeness, warmth and love is the best.
ugh.
i have NEVER done anything bad to Flowing Water but she is a masochist if she doesn't BLOCK me.
All she does is MISUNDERSTAND me.
I make an opinion and she takes it as if it is talking about HER.
whatever. GO hate on me as much as you want.
plus i never asked for an apology.
i was POINTING out your misunderstanding of my post.
i dont apologize either so why should you—
you're fucking annoying too.
this is why i have very very FEW friends, only two, one cancer sun girlfriend who i dont see often because she's busy with new family and moved,and the aqua gf who is married to the Scorpio who lives very FAR away.
i try to share some opinions and my life and i all get is fucking SHIT on.
maybe i should make it up. UGH!!
she's probably annoyed cause her life is soooo wonderful./sarcasm.
maybe i should say that. and be MEAN and CRUEL like you all are to me. i can play that game too.
Posted by AquaMermaid
Take off the boxing gloves ladies 😄 Please let's not fight.
hm maybe she just came in there to rile me up.
pfft forget it.
it has been a bad day earlier. really really crappy. I wonder if it's the planets or something.
I read some stuff in the other topics a bit and i notice some people are also having a hard day. I guess i'm not alone.
not just the dentist appt today which really UNHINGED me....
my sister and her virgo man are going away on a year long vacation, and i've been stressing over some things....
they are taking a YEAR long sabbatical leave, and traveling around the world. yeah most people would go WOW!!!
they are soooooo Lucky. they actually are. They're living up the Saturn in Sagittarius theme.
maybe one day doing the Walter Mitty scene in Iceland doesn't sound too bad 😄 😄
and also, going with the theme of the topic of parenting. How about travelers who love adventure and fun and have children?? 😄
traveling with children!!!!
yay!!!! 😄 😄 😄
live the dream people!
Posted by AquaMermaid
Romantic baths are one of my biggest stress-busters.
a cute buttface like the seal. lol
i love how she comes in when i'm gone. -_-
anyway i was just talking to my mother and she and some relatives are having a hard time today and yesterday.
what the hell is going on with the planets— It's a craptastic day. Ugly and gross for alot of people.
Today's PlanetsMoon: Aquarius 15°30' Sun: Libra 1°27' Mercury: Libra 13°3' RxVenus: Leo 20°10' Mars: Leo 29°50' Jupiter: Virgo 9°33' Saturn: Sagittarius 0°30' Uranus: Aries 19°11' RxNeptune: Pisces 7°46' RxPluto: Capricorn 12°58' RxNorth Node: Libra 1°0' September's Planets » Today's AspectsSun Sextile SaturnMercury Square Pluto © Kelli Fox and The Astrologer, Inc. To read more visit: http://new.theastrologer.com/today
© Kelli Fox and The Astrologer, Inc. To read more visit: http://new.theastrologer.com/today
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A square between Mercury and Pluto today warns against invading other people's privacy. Honor an authority figure's boundaries. Asking impertinent questions could result in an abrupt dismissal. Be kind, courteous and discreet. In addition, courageous Mars enters analytical Virgo, heightening curiosity. This would be a good time to interview candidates for a job. Finding someone who has a perfect combination of experience and intelligence should be easier than usual. Empowering Pluto moves direct in structured Capricorn, making order out of chaos. People born under the signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn will especially benefit from tidying their work spaces and replenishing supplies.Looking ahead, the Lunar Eclipse in bold Aries could make a clean break possible. People born under the signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius could especially benefit from this influence.
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ok. Um.
not to pinpoint here, FW....
but, if you were raised by loving grandparents, like your sweet grandmother, where was the abuse?? are you talking about the abuse that is "abandonment"?