Strange situation w/an Aquarius

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by onesag on Tuesday, October 2, 2007 and has 4 replies.

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@pattylaindia
19 Years

how can someone say that they love you and yet not want to do at least something small to show that. Are aquarius man so afraid of love? that they prefer to pass on it than feel it even if it is for just a moment? How can someone say, "i love you, but i really dont want to spend any time with you"? Love is action. just be careful with a situation like that. Its not worth to lay the ground work for getting your heart broken. See private message...

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@anew
18 Years

I am a sagg too and am happily dating an aquarius man for 6 months. I know about that impulse thing. It is so hard to resist. But you need to give him his space. And live your life. Nothing is more atrtrative to a man than an independent woman who needs no one. He will see that you have a full life and that he needs to make a move or lose you. It is hard if your heart is in this thing but sometimes if someone says they love you really early in the relationship it is not real love, more passion. I am suprised being an aquarius he has said it so easily. But if I was in love like he says he is with you, I would do everything I could to be with that person and I wouldnt be holding on to someone else. I feel sorry for you. We saggs love deep and are so full of passion that I know it is killing you. Right?

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@moonchild8
20 Years1,000+ Posts

being the "other" woman is NEVER a good thing! you don't want a guy like this...and he is probably feeding you these bullshit lines like "you are th love of my life" just to keep you around, because i guarantee he is not going to leave his girlfriend.
you say that he feels "stuck"in his current situation with his girlfriend...but, if he really wanted to leave her, he would. he is not stuck! he is enjoying the best of both worlds...which is also why he loves that you are so laid back about the whole situation!!!

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

*hands spatchel tissue*

...and spiked orange juice 😉 feel better🙂
my sis has the flu, I guess its something going around. The weather here has been awful.