fallen inlove with your bestfriend?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by MoonshineLeo on Wednesday, July 22, 2015 and has 23 replies.

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@Sweetgirlk10
11 Years

I think friendships are beautiful.. And a form of love- so it would be amazing to fall in love with my best friend and a relationship grow from that...

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

I feel like aquas like friends first? And I have a bestfriend aqua male and he has always liked me but I told him I only see him as a friend, but now that we are older I appreciate him more and want to be more than just friends. But he has a gf at the moment so I can't do anything about it but if I did tell him I wanted to see how aquas would go about that

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

my two bests an i hv aqua moons.
Th boy and i hve loved eachother since we were 9. we grew up together n a odd as he is il lways love him
He aske me out severl times in middle school but i wntedto keep it friendly. then he starte dating girls n i becme rotectiv f him....if he isnt with me h etter be with someone better than me or else im beating thm up 😉
Hes like this with me too. We both tried to move forward but idk 😢

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@febaqua
12 YearsAquarius

I almost fell for not my best friend, but one of my close friends in college. She was a Libran, understanding, lovable and a caring girl. We knew each other very well in no time. She was a true Libran, diplomatic and sensible. Sometimes helps to go with my weird ideas! 😄

When I needed her the most, she stood for me and helped me get over tough times in my personal front. That to me was the moment I realized that she is a very special person.

But then, we were different and we realized that. I never asked her out, but I got the feeling to stop pursuing her. We are great friends till today nonetheless.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

My best friend was Gemini and we met in ur 2 in primary school and we were inseperatable, we always used to fool around and I liked him a lot till we started to get older and into high school he changed into a dickhole anyways now that were older we fuck in occasion but I've called it off with him because he has a woman and I just find him pathetic.

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Nope. All my friends stayed in the friendzone even after they confessed their feelings to me. Once you're in the friendzone, you stay there. Maybe for men, it's different.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

there are men who wait in "queue" for the woman to take her out of the "friend zone" ....like what the guy said in the video.

lmao.

*smh*

seriously why not just go find another woman who won't do that? why wait around for the one who keeps you in the friend zone?

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

if anything, dont be friends with men.

because they will want to hump you in their head. It's better not to be around that. Men already hump women just by looking at their photos.

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@metalaquamonkey
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I have several male friends and it's always been strictly platonic with all but 2. Granted most of my male friends are gay but still. Lol

I had a Pisces friend that I ended up dating and that was a bit of a roller coaster. We had ended up back as just friends (then drifted apart) but since him I never wanted to entertain the idea again of dating a friend. Well that was until I recently I started to realize that deep down I may have developed feelings for my very close friend who is a Leo male.

I'm still questioning my feelings for my Leo friend though. I know I love him for sure as in a friend and deeply care about him but as I think more about it I might not actually be "in love" with him. Damn this cap Venus of mine always analyzing my feels! Lol

So far these two guys are the only friends of the opposite sex I've caught feelings for, although as I mentioned before I'm still questioning my actual feelings. Could just be a mini crush or this damn Venus retrograde everyone is talking about already having its effects so early. Lol 😛

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@MoonshineLeo
11 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by metalaquamonkey
I have several male friends and it's always been strictly platonic with all but 2. Granted most of my male friends are gay but still. Lol

I had a Pisces friend that I ended up dating and that was a bit of a roller coaster. We had ended up back as just friends (then drifted apart) but since him I never wanted to entertain the idea again of dating a friend. Well that was until I recently I started to realize that deep down I may have developed feelings for my very close friend who is a Leo male.

I'm still questioning my feelings for my Leo friend though. I know I love him for sure as in a friend and deeply care about him but as I think more about it I might not actually be "in love" with him. Damn this cap Venus of mine always analyzing my feels! Lol

So far these two guys are the only friends of the opposite sex I've caught feelings for, although as I mentioned before I'm still questioning my actual feelings. Could just be a mini crush or this damn Venus retrograde everyone is talking about already having its effects so early. Lol 😛

do it do it do itttttttttttttttt

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@aquarius09
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by lisabethur8
if anything, dont be friends with men.

because they will want to hump you in their head. It's better not to be around that. Men already hump women just by looking at their photos.

Sometimes friendships with men are more relaxing/drama free. Women tend to eventually suffer from the green eyed monster and hate each other. I get along with both genders and I'd say I had mostly guy friends vs. women, not because I couldn't get along with women, I just like how men are with each other: so laid back. They fight and then get over it. I like their style of joking. Women can start off all nice, but eventually will start to feel jealousy for some reason or another and start to pass underhanded comments. So, unfortunately even though a strictly platonic friendship can be a lot of fun, it comes with the whole caveat that the guy may secretly like you.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

yes but if you're single and you don't want to have to ENCOURAGE their desire of you, you don't bother with them.

Encouraging the men subconsciously unknowingly is also very very bad.

we are not aware of it, many women aren't. but then you wonder when a woman finally finds the one to settle down, all the men disappear—?

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

if you are aware of it, you do NOT encourage it.

let these men go searching for single women who will RECIPROCATE back.

these type of men are Always going for women who don't want them.

It's so weird.

it's as if they are torturing themselves stupidly.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

Single woman who wants a man chasing him, "COME ON!!!!! date me!!!! want me!!!!! i am ready to commit!!!"

Single man who is too stupid to not accept,: "NOOOOOOOO!!!! "

😆 😆