ladylibra21
@ladylibra21
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Posted by ItsMeRoman
You’ll never know until you show up 🤷🏻♀️
It’s one of those life mysteries but imo people often psych themselves out prior to things like this because they fear rejection more than anything.
However, why break up with him and then continue to see him weekly and hang out with him....and he lives on your block? Why?
- if you really didn’t want to date him anymore then unfortunately it’s really hard on people to understand the zone you’re putting them into by hanging out with them after. Mixed messages.
Maybe the talk will be about tbat. Sounds like he’s very considerate of your time.
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Is this the equivalent of I have bad news to tell you so I wanna meet in a neutral place?
Broke up with him in January and we have just been awkwardly hanging out or talking once a week since. When I took him out for his birthday we promised we would talk another day because we got home very late and we were both battling sickness.
I wrote him an 8 paged letter the next morning and dropped it off at his house (we live on the same street) I told him
Not to read it if he wasn't in the mood because my Cancer moon nutted all over it he laughed and said ok understood. He messaged me in what seemed good spirits 5 days later saying
"Hey just wanted to know if Thursday or Friday night are good this week to get together and talk about stuff (yeah that stuff! lol). I am looking pretty wide open here but I'm guessing this is a (insert my son's name) weekend so maybe Fri night isn't so good for you"
He has been mostly quiet with awkward conversation on Sunday. Then he followed up about meeting up today, but it's all just awkward.
Do you think he has something negative to say and that's why he wanted to meet in person so that either of us could walk away?