tips to be strong and deal with him and move on

,I'm stuck and keep running back to him even though he doesn't fight for me.
Can I get tips on how to be strong threw his charm I'll admit I'm not the strongest person and what we have been threw and touched my self esteem and insecurities. I know what I should do but need help not giving in. Can I get some help I'm going crazy.
We have a son that's why I'm concerned about it because I'm an Aquarius usually I'm good at walking away but I still have to deal with him.

Posted by AngieTheAquarius
,I'm stuck and keep running back to him even though he doesn't fight for me.
Can I get tips on how to be strong threw his charm I'll admit I'm not the strongest person and what we have been threw and touched my self esteem and insecurities. I know what I should do but need help not giving in. Can I get some help I'm going crazy.
We have a son that's why I'm concerned about it because I'm an Aquarius usually I'm good at walking away but I still have to deal with him.

what are his placements?
and yours.

😛

Posted by AquaMermaid
You're a student. Pursue your career, become independent,don't expect any man to support you financially. You need to look after your kid. I do hope your family is giving you support. He's the father of your child, you can't change that. But you need to accept that this man will never be yours. Please don't make babies with men who are emotionally unavailable.Use birth-control measures. I never had a kid because I wanted to have it with a man who respected and loved his child's mother. And having a kid is a big responsibility. It's not like having a pet. I understood that even when I was 15 years old.

+100000

yeah on this.


I married my first husband in my teens, but i didnt have a baby with him. But it was still cray.

Now you have TWO responsibilities!! you and your baby.

It might feel so sad and lonely and no one to help you and i dont wanna go around saying, "you should have thought of that, and taken birth control"

so, what's done is done.

get a decent job, go to school part time, even online courses so you can be with your baby at home and do some course work during intervals, so no need to spend money on transportation and babysitting fees. Think for yourself.

Posted by AquaMermaid
First thing you need to do is have some self respect. You're only 21. You're so naive! Have respect for your body. Don't give free passes to your vagina to random men who have no intentions of being with you in a serious relationship. I know it's harsh but you need it right now. You need to snap out of the delusion of his so called charm and all that bullshit! He's putting his seed in different women. How is that charming to you??He will NEVER commit to you. Do you really want to be with a man who has no self-control and dignity? I thought Aquarius women have better standards than that!

First man I'd been with fully it was all new to me. I prefered women before him. I fell shit happens looking for advice not a life analysis but thank you anyway

I ended it he says he'll never let me go

Posted by AngieTheAquarius
I ended it he says he'll never let me go

you know, you can just make one topic over it. you dont need to make so many topics over this guy.


then, don't let him go. Just stay with him.

So the hell what if he has other baby mommas. Just stay with him, if you love him.

if he's a good father, then do what you need to do.

don't listen to other people so much. I mean i know i'm also making advice...

but you're here crying over it, so let me just tell you, listen to your own heart and not other people?? ok?

and i said to you that you need to go school and get work, do that too,

you want to be strong, young woman??

then act it.

Posted by AquaMermaid
@OP, Is that your excuse?? So because you were into chicks before this scumbag, you didn't have any idea about how a man's reproductive organ works? Did you skip the sex education classes in school where they teach you to roll a condom over the banana and shit? How can you be so fucking naive?? Didn't that guy ask about birth-control before putting his dick inside you? Let's assume it was your first time with a man and you failed biology in school or in this case biology failed you, was he an ignorant dick to not care about contraception? He's 28 years old and he has two kids with two other women. Did he get you pregnant on purpose??

huh?? 😕 she was into men?

jeeeeez.

dxp 😆 😆

Posted by AquaMermaid
Go read about Pablo Picasso's personal life. You'll find the pattern and get the answers.

omg.

that man *smh*

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Posted by AngieTheAquarius
I ended it he says he'll never let me go

you know, you can just make one topic over it. you dont need to make so many topics over this guy.


then, don't let him go. Just stay with him.

So the hell what if he has other baby mommas. Just stay with him, if you love him.

if he's a good father, then do what you need to do.

don't listen to other people so much. I mean i know i'm also making advice...

but you're here crying over it, so let me just tell you, listen to your own heart and not other people?? ok?

I don'r think this is a good idea. He's going to cause more damage than good.. plus he's going back and forth between all three baby mamas. That doesn't sound like a guy who wants to be committed to her, it sound like he has control and he's loving it.

She needs to cut ties. I mean I was pretty naive but come on.

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some women like challenge.😆


although the cray cray kind is too scary!!

RUN, OP RUN!!!

id like to know why i never see comments from aqua men.