Hi ^_^ I need help aquas! I just want some help understanding this aquarius girl I go to school and work with. I believe I caught the love bug lol. She's exactly what I look for in a girl, it makes sense too, im a gem. The sucky part is she has a bf 😢, oh and I'm a girl. I respect it though and just a few days ago I told her I had a crush on her. Not for nothing, but I act like a nervous wreck in front of her, and i'm sure she already caught on to my feelings so I didn't hesitate to be upfront with her. She didn't immediately answer me when I told her but when she saw me the next day at work, she blushed and said "we need to have a talk later." the blushing was a good indicator but im still not certain because we havent had that talk yet. We hung out today but she said nothing. She's shy, quiet and aloof. It frustrates me to an extent but it keeps me interested. Now I understand she has a boyfriend and in no way whatsoever do I have the intention of separating them but I want advice from the mind of an aquarius. What on earth is this girl thinking? She stares a lot..and hard. It almost scares me how focused she looks when I catch her. when I do, it's mostly because im glancing back lol. we just end up smiling at each other and laughing. Another thing I've noticed is I feel as though she avoids me most of the time on purpose, and her behavior towards me is slightly different from how she treats everyone else(she goes that extra mile to be a smartass with me -.-) aside from that she rarely messages me, and i usually have to initiate. sometimes she responds fast and other times she just ignores me flat out. Idk I don't want to push information out of her but I want some sort of understanding so our friendship can grow. I want her to feel more comfortable is all, because she's very shy and rarely utters a word lol. all help is much appreciated and thanks for ur time in advance.
Very Shy Aquarius

You write as if she's interested in you yet you know she has a boyfriend. In any case why does it matter how she treats you or what she does.
1. Says nothing - probably because you literally have nothing to talk about or maybe she just doesn't like talking.
2. Stares - I stare at people I've no interest in whatsoever for no particular reason
3. Avoiding you - probably because you give her the "I'm all over you" vibe
4. Texting - really? Like honestly... really?
You can't force a friendship with us. I hope you know this the more you force it the worse it gets.
1. Says nothing - probably because you literally have nothing to talk about or maybe she just doesn't like talking.
2. Stares - I stare at people I've no interest in whatsoever for no particular reason
3. Avoiding you - probably because you give her the "I'm all over you" vibe
4. Texting - really? Like honestly... really?
You can't force a friendship with us. I hope you know this the more you force it the worse it gets.
Posted by aquasnoz
You write as if she's interested in you yet you know she has a boyfriend. In any case why does it matter how she treats you or what she does.
1. Says nothing - probably because you literally have nothing to talk about or maybe she just doesn't like talking.
2. Stares - I stare at people I've no interest in whatsoever for no particular reason
3. Avoiding you - probably because you give her the "I'm all over you" vibe
4. Texting - really? Like honestly... really?
You can't force a friendship with us. I hope you know this the more you force it the worse it gets.
u make a valid point in the first two sentences. however, I can do without the blatant negativity & the assumption that i'm forcing a friendship with her. did you have breakfast this morning? i know that we're friends, we chatted up a storm last night! but ur answer will suffice.

there's no negativity there.
I mean terms like LOVE bug, I know she has a boyfriend and etc. Who are you trying to kid lol. Do what you will and be who you are. That's honestly the best advice anyone can actually give you.
I mean terms like LOVE bug, I know she has a boyfriend and etc. Who are you trying to kid lol. Do what you will and be who you are. That's honestly the best advice anyone can actually give you.
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