Virgo <3 Aquarius

They all say Virgos and Aquareans are not compatible. I don't think so. Why do we have this magical spark every time we're together? And it's not the kind of spark that ends sooo easily. It stays long.

Does anybody know how I can get her? I just called her up this new year's day to say "I love you" in the most discreet way. We both laughed when I said that. She's my baby. 🙂

They all say Virgos and Aquareans are not compatible. I don't think so. Why do we have this magical spark every time we're together? And it's not the kind of spark that ends sooo easily. It stays long.

Does anybody know how I can get her? I just called her up this new year's day to say "I love you" in the most discreet way. We both laughed when I said that. She's my baby. 🙂

So who's the Aquarius? Yourself or her?
I'm a Virgo and I personally love Aquarians. I've been involved with at least 5 in the past! I've heard that we're not supposed to be compatible but I totally agree with you, there's an instant connection. I'm grounded to this earth but the way Aquarians flow with the wind is what I admire the most. Their sense of fashion, music, food... these water bearers are all unique in their own certain way. Can I just add that they are open minded, kinky and sexy? Excuse me while I go to bed and dream of one. :p

looks like we got some horny virgins in the aqua quarters.....its true what they say about virgos and aquas is wrong we can get along and we have things in common on an intellectual level....I love that virgos have this childlike innocence about them....and i find them interesting to watch when they work diligently at a task that requires their perfection...my brother is an architect so i kno wat they are like...I also used to live in the same building as this transexual chick who was like an older sister to me and we bonded on a very innocent loving spiritual level which was just really nice I could go over to hers when i was coming down from clubbing and id just fall on the couch in her lap and sleep watching a movie...however there are times that i am reminded that they are earth signs and it helps to have some water my chart

^^ not to mention, they'd have to have some good ole' fire/air in them too. It's not just one way, it works both ways.
Although, when I do some research it's NOT always the case.
Many times, the Aquarius woman has dominant air (Like that of Sarah Palin and Tiffany Theissen) both dominant air aquas/fixed, and both married to earth sign men. Sarah Palin's husband is all earth and water, and Tiffany's husband isn't a virgo, but he's a cap(2nd decan) with fire/aries and some air. But the weird part is, she's mostly air dominant, so it isn't always a sure thing you know. You love who you love and they make it work and are very easy together.
Also, another famous aqua, Alicia Keyes is married to a Virgo. If i recall, he's a leo moon & she's a taurus moon/with other elements in her chart.

although it's mostly common with aqua woman/virgo man, i dont see too many aqua man/virgo woman though.
Maybe many of the aqua men are hiding.

I'll be first to add to the tally Aqua guy and virgal fail! We are stubborn in our own ways which create the worst kind of friction and created very hurtful feelings between us. As to why it failed with me? She just wanted sex. I told her I can't seeing my brain isn't wired that way.

That was the end of that story pretty quickly.

Tell you what though there is amazing chemistry.

Posted by thatONEguy42
So who's the Aquarius? Yourself or her?
I'm a Virgo and I personally love Aquarians. I've been involved with at least 5 in the past! I've heard that we're not supposed to be compatible but I totally agree with you, there's an instant connection. I'm grounded to this earth but the way Aquarians flow with the wind is what I admire the most. Their sense of fashion, music, food... these water bearers are all unique in their own certain way. Can I just add that they are open minded, kinky and sexy? Excuse me while I go to bed and dream of one. :p

I'm the Virgo. 🙂 I just love this Aquarean girl. 🙂

Maybe it's a cusp thing. We were both born on a cusp. I was born on Sept. 20. She, January 21.

Found this somewhere on the net:

"The Week of January 17 - 22

"Because this girl is in the cusp of Aquarius she can be exciting and full of fun. Keeping things a mystery is her way of playing around and flirting. She can get carried away with fantasies but the Capricorn in her keeps her grounded."

100% TRUE. 🙂 Especially this part:

"Keeping things a mystery is her way of playing around and flirting."

Posted by firebunny
Found this somewhere on the net:

"The Week of January 17 - 22

"Because this girl is in the cusp of Aquarius she can be exciting and full of fun. Keeping things a mystery is her way of playing around and flirting. She can get carried away with fantasies but the Capricorn in her keeps her grounded."

100% TRUE. 🙂 Especially this part:

"Keeping things a mystery is her way of playing around and flirting."

that's a good one.

Alicia Keyes is Jan.25, and she has strong earth influences.

according to astrotheme, 45% (dominant planets are virgo, aqua & taurus) and her 2nd dominant is water.
No wonder too, she loves those earth men (with fire influence)

^^do you happen to know how compatible we are. Mine's 09/20/87. Hers is 01/21/88. 🙂

Posted by firebunny
^^do you happen to know how compatible we are. Mine's 09/20/87. Hers is 01/21/88. 🙂

Dude, you're a virgo. WORK IT! do it yourself 🙂

*meant in kindness of course 🙂

it's better you do it yourself than ask others to do it, then you can come up with your own, and if different sites are a bit different, that's okay. Read the descriptions and ...most of all WORK IT!!

😄

Btw, i'm putting up the Men Under Construction sign up for you,while you're working it.

Well, I'm sorry. I thought you were like this stranger on the internet who did the compatibility test for me FOR FREE. LOL. I'm doing my research, don't worry. 😉

He did this:

[quote]Sep 20 and Jan 21
Compatibility


Compatibility level: 100% - A natural fit that usually produces a very compatible relationship.

There is an excellent compatibility between Jan 21 and Sep 20. The two of them can form a strong unity, one that often lasts for a very long time - if not forever. Jan 21 and Sep 20 represent archetypes that are almost mythical in their romantic bond. Lots of stories of endless patience and self-sacrifice could be told about this unity. And what makes this so surprising is the fact that this is possible even though both of them are considered self-centered, even egocentric at times.

Both Jan 21 and Sep 20 have powerful imagination and intense inner lives, and that makes the two of them creative, albeit in very different ways. Jan 21 has a unique, somewhat offbeat originality, and expects life to be full of unexpected events and turns. Sep 20, in turn, likes to manipulate the environment until everything is harmonious. Sep 20 has the talent to combine colors and materials to create beauty in a disciplined manner. Jan 21 appreciates the way Sep 20 seems to be able to control events and surroundings, while Sep 20 envies the easy manner in which Jan 21 accepts, and takes advantage of, whatever life has to offer. This brings balance to their relationship.

Jan 21 is often compared to the sun: warming and comforting to everyone, inspiring and uplifting to all. Sep 20 is the most idealistic and self-sacrificing number. Like Jan 21, Sep 20 offers love freely and generously. Although they are both loving, generous, and worldly people, they can never forget for a moment that they are at the center of whatever they dispense.[/quote]

I like this a lot:

"Both Jan 21 and Sep 20 have powerful imagination and intense inner lives, and that makes the two of them creative, albeit in very different ways. Jan 21 has a unique, somewhat offbeat originality, and expects life to be full of unexpected events and turns. Sep 20, in turn, likes to manipulate the environment until everything is harmonious. Sep 20 has the talent to combine colors and materials to create beauty in a disciplined manner. Jan 21 appreciates the way Sep 20 seems to be able to control events and surroundings, while Sep 20 envies the easy manner in which Jan 21 accepts, and takes advantage of, whatever life has to offer. This brings balance to their relationship."

SHE IS ORIGINAL!!! 🙂

*claps*

Aquarius Sam Cooke sings:

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by firebunny
^^do you happen to know how compatible we are. Mine's 09/20/87. Hers is 01/21/88. 🙂

Dude, you're a virgo. WORK IT! do it yourself 🙂

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FireBunny stop over-analyzing it you Virgo you! :p

It's not all about the Sun signs, maybe you have other planentary placments that attract one another, good luck!

Not meaning to rain on your parade but run , run , run as fast as you can from this pairing . It has one positive in being that on a friendship level its great but lovers .......... worlds apart .

Posted by WheresWally
"Not meaning to rain on your parade but "

and then she did it anyway..

Instead of being grim I'll wish you well. If you feel that close to her, then you probably have nice synastry.

Sorry but i won't sugarcoat it . I did say they make fantastic friends and thats a major positive but they are so different that unless either one wants to make some sacrifices it's hard to make it worse .

I wouldn't say i was being grim just truthful .

^^ do you believe that relationships are easy peazzy?? Welllll...dream on. Loads of people on this site don't seem to like easy peasy. It's just tooooo easy. Like why bother? It's IN the bag. No suffering no glory.

i thought of Pussycat dolls too for this theme:

" ^^ do you believe that relationships are easy peazzy?? Welllll...dream on. Loads of people on this site don't seem to like easy peasy. It's just tooooo easy. Like why bother? It's IN the bag. No suffering no glory "

Hmmm no i don't think all realtionships are " easy peazzzy " at all but relationships shouldn't be a uphill struggle either surely ?? whats the point in wasting time that you are never going to get back on someone your so different from ?? just my experience though . Not one to be completely negative i did place a positive in there too .

Just because my virgo / aquarius didn't work it doesn't mean their's won't .

^^ i was being general, but i realize youre basing it off of your own experience. 🙂
I read somewhere, that the Virgo/Pisces axis are the signs that many astrologers have problems with when they do readings for women from all signs(it's usually women) so, they have terrible relationship problems or great ones. or crazy ones.

Oh i'm sorry ! i thought when you said " do you believe that relationships are easy peazzy?? " i thought you were personally asking me , what with the words " you " and question marks one would assume that you weren't talking in general . No worries though .

" the Virgo/Pisces axis are the signs that many astrologers have problems with when they do readings for women from all signs " .... Haha that's just typical . always my sign 🙂

" so, they have terrible relationship problems or great ones. or crazy ones " ... In all honesty the realtionship with the aqua was all them rolled into one . It became too terrible to continue in the end .

aww. ah well. NEXT. 😄

My sentiments exactly 🙂

And for the op ........ Hope all goes well for you .

Laters 🙂

Posted by Missvirgo99
My sentiments exactly 🙂

And for the op ........ Hope all goes well for you .

Laters 🙂

In any case I'm sorry it didnt work out for you.

It just felt that your tone in the message seemed condenscending. LOL but i'm probably mirroring you and we're mirroring eachother.

but really, some people are just not for eachother, no matter the sign. If the guy didnt want to make it work, it won't happen because he wasn't into it. Plus, you have to remember if he's got dominant air in his chart, he's going to be flaky: flaky meaning, he will distance himself ALOT, flake out because although it's a negative term....it is looked down upon by many earth placement/dominant people. Not many people can handle flaky nature, i can't either. But, another person with dominant air can because they can understand it better (I'm just guessing as i'm new to this stuff as well)

basically you want DEPENDABLE /dependability and be there for you. Some guys ....even if they're not dominant air, will just LEAVE because he is just not into you. *sigh*

" It just felt that your tone in the message seemed condenscending " I am really sorry if it came across that way . That wasn't intentional at all .

He was good man and i have no hard feelings like i say on a friend level its a fantastic relationship . Between virgo's and their quest to find someone who will enjoy peace , quiet and togetherness and the aqua male that loves his drinking buddies and being wildly socialable it causes massive conflict as you can imagine .

I left after 11 years with semi good memories and a best friend so its all good .

Its been a pleasure lisabethur8 and once again sorry i seemed to be condenscending towards you .

Posted by Missvirgo99
" It just felt that your tone in the message seemed condenscending " I am really sorry if it came across that way . That wasn't intentional at all .

He was good man and i have no hard feelings like i say on a friend level its a fantastic relationship . Between virgo's and their quest to find someone who will enjoy peace , quiet and togetherness and the aqua male that loves his drinking buddies and being wildly socialable it causes massive conflict as you can imagine .

I left after 11 years with semi good memories and a best friend so its all good .

Its been a pleasure lisabethur8 and once again sorry i seemed to be condenscending towards you .

back. had to go cook dinner.

It's been a pleasure. Sorry too, I believe it's because it's a FIRE moon day and it feels like "xena the princess warrior" day 😕
plus the crackle in the air.....

i wouldnt like a man who runs off with his drinking buddies all the time either. No way. So i understand fully what you mean. That stuff should have stayed in college fraternity and no more. Once they find commitment, they should commit.

Posted by rachelsnow12
A lesson I have learned that I thought I would share, is to never take it upon one's self to apply tone to someone else's text, email, message...etc. For me, a lot of misunderstandings and hurt feelings have resulted in doing that. I find that it is always good to ask first, if you feel the tone may be a certain way, and then respond.

always. even if there's a huge suspicion....must always ASK, and CLEAR the tense atmosphere. It's hard when you dont see the person face to face. *nods*

and sometimes, you dont know if they really are being mean deep down. I've witnessed catty women and men before. And it's horrible. 😢 You are all like innocent and being nice and they're sneering down on you. what's a person to do? You either get upset cause you feel that the other person is being mean by pretending to be NICE. But we dont really know until you are face to face, asking them to their face. And you have to get the feeling of their character too. Are they really good people deep down?

Posted by Missvirgo99
" i wouldnt like a man who runs off with his drinking buddies all the time either. No way. So i understand fully what you mean. That stuff should have stayed in college fraternity and no more. Once they find commitment, they should commit "

Amen 🙂 and more so when you have children together .

I also agree with any written communication you never know know to take someone . Me personally hate catty people that come to place's like here and give people a hard time . I would only behave that way if i was defending myself which i haven't needed to here . I am glad you called me out though lisabethur8 so i could apologize for the way it appeared .

naw it should be me who got all suspicious, as masculine moon days make me agitated and paranoid, or just maybe it's in the atmosphere. that combined with internet /electricity, it tends to make me highly sensitive. If i leave the computer for a bit, i feel better.

It IS good that you didnt get involved with such a man. That type of man would make any woman cry, sitting at home with the kids, cooking and cleaning, waiting on him and then trying to call him, tears running down cheeks. And he'll be lol'ing it up with his buddies drunk cause he doesn't care to spend it with his wife and kids. It's nightmare!! gosh just imagining it is just awful. No peace at all. I get along with virgo suns (most of the virgo suns i know have fire and water in their chart like my sister's man and my husband's father) so i get on with them well. Also, my husband's uncle is married to a virgo woman. He is a very VERY good man. She is a good woman too, takes care of the kids and has a very peaceful life. 🙂

Ha ! " That type of man would make any woman cry, sitting at home with the kids, cooking and cleaning, waiting on him and then trying to call him, tears running down cheeks " ..... you just discribed my life right there 🙂 it was hard to walk away because when he was at home we would get on like a house on fire , that wasn't enough in the end though . I don't hate on him though as i tend to think he has learnt the hard way as not many people would have shown the patience that i did on this occasion . We both deserve better though , him someone who will share that life and me .... someone who wants to actually build a life with me and enjoy the simple things .

Do you know i have no idea what is in my chart or how i would even find out . All i know is i am a second decan virgo .

Posted by Missvirgo99
Ha ! " That type of man would make any woman cry, sitting at home with the kids, cooking and cleaning, waiting on him and then trying to call him, tears running down cheeks " ..... you just discribed my life right there 🙂 it was hard to walk away because when he was at home we would get on like a house on fire , that wasn't enough in the end though . I don't hate on him though as i tend to think he has learnt the hard way as not many people would have shown the patience that i did on this occasion . We both deserve better though , him someone who will share that life and me .... someone who wants to actually build a life with me and enjoy the simple things .

Do you know i have no idea what is in my chart or how i would even find out . All i know is i am a second decan virgo .

anyone could get along with anyone. If people aren't compatible in their way of life/living, staying at home, taking care of business there, cleaning, cooking, and on the side, hobbies. That could be fun in knitting, sewing, researching and even astrology. you dont want some guy going off drinking and carousing. What would the children think of their father too?
Just so many things.

i wouldnt know either about your chart. You should just google. Internet is a wealthy resource. dxp has some good amateur astrologers, even some very advanced, but they're always learning too.

**oops typo:

If people aren't compatible in their way of life/living, staying at home, taking care of business there, then they aren't meant to be together. If a man needs a woman who is outgoing and adventurous, then he should get that type of woman. If a woman wants a man who is more of family man then she should find that type. There lies the "incompatibility". Even my husband's uncle's wife is a homemaker and wife/mother stay at home who is raising five children. He is a traveling salesman and very very faithful. He used to be a farmer, but farming life wasn't really what his virgo wife wanted as she wanted children to raise and not raise the many children in parallel to the sheeps and cows. He is an Aries Sun. He loves farming and animals but the wife does not want that, so off to work he goes. 🙂 (she is a tough woman too) Dont know his chart though.

* just asked my husband. His uncle has FOUR girls not five. Still, quite a lot.

Posted by MysteryShopper
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