What am I doing wrong ?

I've met a fee aquas this year. The girls are awesome, they areole sisters to me. We are a crazy pairing.

The guys that I've know for a while, there's been this natural connection and although we don't talk l the type we strike random conversations every now and then and it's great and it's like they never went away.

The 2 aqua guys I've met recently: I've become attracted to them instantly and I feel as though they can sense this although I'm not sure that I've displayed or told them tho and then they just disappear or become very aloof. I usually have not problems connecting with them but it just seems as soon as I start to like them or spend a little more time with them they just disappear.
What am I doing wrong?! I just love hanging out with them but they can be SO hard to contact at times.

I've left the two guys alone for now but like.... Eurghhhhh it makes me want them even more !!

Frustrating

Posted by feby
I would think that maybe they don't reciprocate the same feelings that you do...maybe you get a little intense on them and that's why they disappear.

In what way could I appear too intense for an aqua guy?

I'm a crazy girl yes but I'm never really too forward or intense with guys. Just a little infatuated but I never really show it

How do you act when you start liking someone?

There's probably a change in your demeanor, a hint of expectation, a difference in body language, a touchy-feely presence about you, a flirtier nature or a vibe about you that put them off. Something on your subconscious level. Figure out what changed about you and you will have your answer.

Posted by truecap
How do you act when you start liking someone?

There's probably a change in your demeanor, a hint of expectation, a difference in body language, a touchy-feely presence about you, a flirtier nature or a vibe about you that put them off. Something on your subconscious level. Figure out what changed about you and you will have your answer.

I probably smile more and get a little wide eyed and dazy. I find them interesting so that's why I do it. I sometimes hint that I'd like to see them again but that's about it. Is that enough to make them run away?

Posted by Sagg101

Posted by truecap
How do you act when you start liking someone?

There's probably a change in your demeanor, a hint of expectation, a difference in body language, a touchy-feely presence about you, a flirtier nature or a vibe about you that put them off. Something on your subconscious level. Figure out what changed about you and you will have your answer.

I probably smile more and get a little wide eyed and dazy. I find them interesting so that's why I do it. I sometimes hint that I'd like to see them again but that's about it. Is that enough to make them run away?

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Dazy? Maybe that makes you appear to be air headed? Therefore, not as interesting to them?

Not insulting you at all - don't take it that way. Notice, I said appear, didn't say you were. Just trying to help you figure it out.