What the hell and why in the hell? (Page 2)

Posted by tbird
lol dude Virgo's and Aqua's all day every day.

thanks for the spelling hazard! lol BTW I'm sorry about the late reply. I'll get to it I'm promise. I'm scattered brained, so I know I won't be any help so that's why I haven't replied. Once my mind becomes useful again I'll reply. Pff pisces.

why thankie ;D lol
eeeh.. my mom and 2 sisters (younger) are all virgos rofl

Lol no its ok! reply whenever you want (i might have to update what i sent, but I forgot what I sent so I'll do that if/when you reply haha)

so everything's good with the aqua dude?

lol@ chem and hazard

well I haven't talked to him so yeah everything is good on that front. I'm focusing my efforts on the Virgo even though I think I pissed him off or may have hurt him. I dunno about him....

oh 😢 wah goin on?

He's kryptic...he tells me that he doesn't want me to get too close, but he asks if I'm dating other people and if I will ever get back with my ex. He asks me to come over hell honestly I'm spending a night with him 2 to 3 times a week. If I walk away just to detach a bit and put my wall up he's right there and literally holds his hand out to me and holds me for a long time and does everything he can to break down my wall. When I do break it down and let go he detaches from me a bit then gets cold then when I back off he becomes more affectionate and open.

It's like a dance, back and forth, to and fro...jeesh. I dunno I like him a lot but I surely am guarded.

Oh how I think I hurt him...okay sort of a long story so I'll try to keep it short and to the point.

So I was over his house and he was bbq and asked me if I'm still on the dating site that we meet on. I said to check emails and I asked him and he said yes he was (I'm not expecting him not to be on it... we never talked about being exclusive and it really didn't bother me. The aqua definetly got me into that mode...anywho) so I said alright and shrugged it off wondering what he meant by that. So he casually stated well I don't want you to get too attached. I asked so why did you ask if I was on the dating site? He replied to see if you're getting attached which I think you may be. I said alright no problem I'll date other people. Anything else? (I was kinda snippy when I said that) He just looked at me and got really silent then looked really sad. After a few mins of silence we went back to being our normal goofy selves.

So later that night he said something to that effect again. (I cannot remember the exact phrasing) but I said oh no I got it and I should proceed to dating others. He said I just don't want to hurt you. I got really quiet and said oh god please...*pause* please don't tell me that (reminded me way too much of the aqua) and he got really quiet again and put his head down on his arm, shook his head and said I don't know what I'm doing. I got extremely quiet and just comparing notes between him and the aqua and he kept looking up at me like a sad pup. Later we started talking again and he asked me to his concubine. He's not married and said he wouldn't get married again. I told him hell no and if he starting seeing other people to let me know cause that will be when we stop talking and seeing each other. He said well you're the only one really. He smiled and said so be my concubine. I said hell to the no. Sorry he was like I'm not with anyone else. I said the title of concubine means that you can be with anyone you want while you are with me and sorry I don't share. I'm possessive when it comes to that and I don't play well with others. He had the biggest smile on his face and held me very closely. We went to bed later and he held me the entire time.

I'm telling you...the guy is freaking kryptic.

Posted by exam
Pisces and Aqua can work if they both sometimes walk out of their dreams to connect in real life. It's fine and dandy to dance in space but there are other things need to be taken care of in real life such as finance, food and drink,etc 😛

@aiyanatb: what happened with you and the Scorp? I bet he still thinks of you sometimes 🙂

Oh wow how long a story this is. short version...he was my first kiss I was crazy about him and despite everything he put me through he is the only man I have truly loved unconditionally, willing to accept all his flaws and shortcomings if he could just commit to me...instead we play cat and mouse. he cut me loose and dated my best friend (of course ex best friend. she introduced us) they got engaged and have dated on and off for years. whenever they fall off there he is finding me 1st on myspace to say he made a mistake and the 2nd time on facebook smh. The first time we "hooked up" I was really out for revenge. It had taken me 3 years to get over him and when he came back I wanted to make him pay. it backfired in that I was dating around when he asked me to be with him. I had a boyfriend so I rejected him and then felt so bad about it because I still had feelings for him. So we remained friends reconnecting off and on, then he would disappear on me, wait 6months and then send me a message explaining himself. He did this again and I pretty much told him to screw off. So he hit me up on fb the second time and we became friends again last yr. He kept trying to make it more than that but I wouldnt give in. I was talking to him about another guy and he was like "You coulda started over with me" So finally I went off and told him I couldnt trust him with my feelings because everytime I let my wall down he runs. He said he wanted to earn my trust again. we got closer and I asked him well what if I decided I was ready to see what was between us. He gave me a flimsy yes and no answer. Which made me feel like he was doing it all over again. Why try to make me feel guilty for dating someone else and not considering you, then when I do you can't give me a direct answer. Later he made some comment about wanting to have sex with me and I exploded on him that it offended me because whenever I ask him directly about us he never has an answer but if I wanted to be fuck buddies he would be okay with that. And he had said so many negative things a

about his ex, my ex-best friend, but then turned around and said she couldve stayed but she was listening to other people. I told him he was flip floppy and I never knew what to expect from him. He said I like to point fingers and the whole convo was bullshit. He later announced on fb that he was killing his account and changing his number. So I blocked him and moved on with my life. the end 🙂 I'm sure if another major social networking site becomes popular he'll send me a friend request in a yr or so lol